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    From slider@1:229/2 to All on Friday, June 29, 2018 17:52:46
    From: slider@anashram.com

    Month Unique No.of Pages Hits Bandwidth
    visitors Visits

    Jan 2018 322 485 1,747 2,729 35.04 MB
    Feb 2018 278 375 973 2,038 23.26 MB
    Mar 2018 377 592 2,225 3,885 45.78 MB
    Apr 2018 359 539 1,866 3,773 44.38 MB
    May 2018 458 644 1,792 2,974 38.88 MB

    Jun 2018 1,106 1,426 3,297 7,586 165.46 MB :P

    Jul 2018 0 0 0 0 0
    Aug 2018 0 0 0 0 0

    ### - can prolly add another 1 or 200 to that for today & tomorrow, but
    the majority above aren't visiting the main site tho' and only the
    funnies, but do see the advert; a small percent of which with an interest
    in lucid dreaming clicking-through to it, so it is extra traffic...

    probably wont work though heh... too little is still known about WILDs
    being a viable alternative to dildo-ing as yet... even with now 444
    members in the WILDs & WILDing group it's a forlorn hope really, one that
    is likely yet far too soon to begin spinning-up for quite a few years to
    come i shouldn't wonder; not to mention 'word-of-mouth' advertising being notoriously slow to get going...

    general interest (in lucid dreaming) is growing steadily though, so maybe
    in 10 to 15 years it might start getting more interesting and i 'might'
    then just get to see the beginnings of something, provided i can live long enough that is hah! :)

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  • From fuckowski@1:229/2 to All on Friday, June 29, 2018 12:33:08
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    when one of your hotshots win the big
    one, give me call eh? other than that
    what have they done BESIDES trip out in
    dreaming??

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Friday, June 29, 2018 21:50:32
    From: slider@anashram.com

    Inner development

    If developing one’s inner being is a euphemism for getting closer to one’s inner self and, perhaps, being more in contact with reality, then I’d say that, lucid dreaming develops one’s inner being by giving it some of the exercise it so badly needs in order to stretch its wings and grow. The
    term ‘spiritual exercise’ is too vague and generalised to be of much practical use to anyone, but I guess lucid dreaming could certainly fall
    in that category together with other practices like meditation and yoga, especially if one were to consider lucid dreaming to be part of one’s meditations and the inner experience gained from such practices.

    The simple truth is that, the more one comes in contact with one’s own
    inner being the more it becomes available to you. And nothing places you
    in direct contact with one’s inner self more than lucid dreaming! Of
    course, meditation and yoga have a similar effect, although nothing is as compelling and encouraging as lucid dreaming by comparison. I mean, a
    dedicated and disciplined person could meditate for years and hardly see
    any noticeable effects beyond, perhaps, the gradual slow strengthening of
    their inner character and balanced sense of peace. Like anything really,
    it takes discipline to perform meditation every day until it eventually
    begins to count. Whereas, with lucid dreaming the results are not only virtually instantaneous but also absolutely staggering as well. The only discipline involved (which is actually quite similar to meditation) is to maintain the correct state of mind that prolongs the experience, something which, of course, takes a little while to learn, but within a very short
    period of time it becomes increasingly easy to lucid dream almost at will.

    This ‘lucid dreaming on demand’ is key to mastering a more general awareness of how perception actually functions and works in real time,
    waking awareness, as well as in dreaming, basically because the inner
    cognitive apparatus of perception employed in both instances are literally
    one and the same. Thus, whatever your particular purpose is in learning to
    do it, be prepared, as your proficiency increases, for lucid dreaming to eventually begin to have potentially far-reaching effects in your daily
    waking world and your personal outlook on life in general. Why? Because at
    the very basic level there would seem to be two main areas to this lucid dreaming business which you’ll quickly discover.

    Firstly, the very personal, and potentially completely self-indulgent,
    aspect of the whole thing, one in which any of your strangest and wildest fantasies can easily and quickly be made to come true, albeit it only virtually. A kind of voyeurs’ utopia and personal virtual reality entertainment-centre (think ‘Holodeck’ of Star Trek fame) all rolled into one!

    Secondly, a somewhat more sober and objective approach where one explores
    the dreaming state as an explorer and observer only. The better perhaps to record events as they unfold more accurately, possibly with a view to
    mapping some of the confines of the near unknown, not only for your own
    greater understanding of it for yourself, but also for the benefit of
    others if you were inclined to consider sharing that information.

    Objectively speaking, the only real reason to explore lucid dreaming is to discover hidden aspects of ourselves, where it all possibly leads or
    points to, and/or to discover just what it is about the mind that allows
    such things as virtual realities, that we can project, inhabit and explore
    for prolonged periods of time, to exist.

    Another thing I can tell you about lucid dreaming is that the steady
    practice of it also eventually causes one to begin re-evaluating one’s own life and life circumstances, in that most people have unwittingly allowed themselves to become almost completely caught up in their workplace and
    homes, their families and hobbies. So much so, that there remains very
    little room left in their lives with which to explore any of the deeper, perhaps hidden, meanings of life. Most people are so busy and involved in
    their current activities that they simply haven’t got the time left over
    to explore anything more meaningful, even if it is available to them. In
    which case, learning to activate their innate ability to lucid dream can
    also offer people a kind of second chance at this, so to speak, and to
    take a look at opportunities to do so they may have inadvertently missed.

    The fact is that the intelligent and observational approach to lucid
    dreaming eventually begins to carry-over into a person’s waking awareness
    as well, thus presenting them with countless new opportunities to tweak
    the often rigidly fixed values of their waking life in a variety of ways.
    A chance they wouldn’t otherwise get under any other circumstances, at
    least not until they were very much older, possibly even retired, and had
    the spare time in their lives to even consider looking at everything again.

    The truth being, that it is probably better for someone to re-evaluate
    their life situation while they are still young rather than waiting until
    they have fulfilled all or most of their duties to their families, friends
    and work in society, before finding themselves with enough free time to be
    able to re-examine their lives and the way they live to any meaningful
    degree.

    So, why learn to lucid dream? Well, possibly because it might just present
    a person with what is ultimately the opportunity of a lifetime; a genuine chance to totally re-examine their life and the way they’re living it. And thus an opportunity they might never otherwise get to enrich their lives
    beyond measure in terms of the boost to the ‘quality’ of life they will very likely experience from that re-examination. If all you are looking
    for is cheap thrills then learning to lucid dream will almost certainly
    help you to fulfill that goal in virtually any form you can possibly
    imagine. Although, I personally would tend to consider that purpose to be
    an unworthy one, an opportunity missed to do more than just adding to your quota of amusements. Lucid dreaming isn’t really just another games
    console to add to the growing number of entertainment centres that people
    avail themselves of to pass the time. Although, of course, it can indeed
    be employed as such if that was all someone was interested in.

    Lucid dreaming changes your life! I mean, yes, it can be used solely for
    the purpose of entertainment and treated as if it’s just another day out
    in some amazing theme park, only there might also be a lot more to the
    world of lucid dreaming and the opportunities it offers than these
    amusement aspects alone. I guess, in the end, everyone has to decide for themselves what lucid dreaming might personally mean to them and for them. Especially from the DILDs point of view wherein full lucidity and full
    waking memory of who you are and what you are supposed to be doing isn’t always as readily available to the dreamer as it is from the WILDs point
    of view wherein one generally has access to full lucidity and waking
    memories. In fact, this is the only real problem with DILDs, in that dream-initiated lucid dreaming automatically plunges the dreamer into a
    deeper level of dreaming than he is likely to be able to cope with. This
    is particularly so in the initial stages where the lack of access to full waking memories during a DILD has the tendency to bemuse the dreamer and
    cloud his judgement, to the extent that he becomes involuntarily more
    involved in the images of his dreams than he would otherwise probably want
    to.

    There are many, many reasons why learning to lucid dream could be
    interesting, the best of which (as it was for me at any rate) is the clear sense of a continually expanding awareness and not just of oneself, but
    also of the world around you. In my opinion there is no end to the
    potentially unrealised useful applications of lucid dreaming that only
    await discovery by experienced and inexperienced practitioners alike.

    To be fully conscious and aware in a dreaming state, and to be able to
    repeat that experience at will and on demand, is no less than the
    equivalent of the opening and exploration of an entirely new frontier.

    From: The WILD Way To Lucid Dreaming. :)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Friday, June 29, 2018 21:20:05
    From: slider@anashram.com

    when one of your hotshots win the big
    one, give me call eh? other than that
    what have they done BESIDES trip out in
    dreaming??

    ### - ahem, thought we'd been through this one already? that because
    WILDing is something that can only be achieved 'consciously &
    deliberately, as opposed to accidentally & unconsciously in the case of dildo-ing, then what peeps are arguably actually 'exercising' in the
    process, is their ability to control their own awareness like never before
    in a wholly more conscious and deliberate manner... iow: their will! what
    else? :)

    but is it any good to do that?

    well, if it results in an overall expansion of a person's awareness as a
    result and a review of the way they're living, then yes it's prolly a good thing because 'more' awareness is what we quite obviously need/require on
    this planet to cease being quite so sleepy about everything they/we do...

    i.e., just before you stated/asked: "i can accept that, but can those
    other peckerheads do so also?" (or words to that effect...) and again, i said/suggested yes, and because how else will they ever have anything to compare their normal awareness (normal so called) to?

    it's something that's readily available! why not use it as a tool to
    evolution! it's also something that's quite interesting & stimulating (am talkin' about to relative newbies here) and strongly holds peeps attention because it's also a whole lotta fun... plus, at some point along that line
    of exploration the question inevitably rises: well what the hell IS all
    this anyway?

    and *that's* where it all starts getting intelligent as opposed to merely amusing :)

    'and' it doesn't cost anything!

    it's a win-win all the way down :)

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Friday, June 29, 2018 16:50:45
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    Focusing on dreaming is like anything else, it has advantages and disadvantages. For example, while it can help you get to know your
    own imagination more deeply and significantly, at the same time...
    if you focus on it too much you can end up living more in your own
    imagination than you do in the real world.

    Of course, one can do that with many things, including music,
    literature, art, video games, etc.

    Achieving balance in one's activities can be a worthy goal.

    Imagination and Our World Of Make-Believe:
    How Adults Play All By Themselves In Their Own Dreams:

    http://tinyurl.com/y89oxk8e

    No wait, that's not the title... :)

    .

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  • From fuckowski@1:229/2 to All on Friday, June 29, 2018 19:26:43
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    Imagination and Our World Of Make-Believe:
    How Adults Play All By Themselves In Their Own Dreams:

    http://tinyurl.com/y89oxk8e

    No wait, that's not the title... :)

    lol! should be how adults play with themselves in their dreams

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Saturday, June 30, 2018 09:36:34
    From: slider@anashram.com

    chris wrote...

    lol! should be how adults play with themselves in their dreams

    ### - so the 'pair' of you (and am putting ya's both together in this
    now...) are quite happy to fuck with vinny's NEW title and horribly parody
    it before it's even properly out there?? sheesh!

    yeah, this 'is' the problem with 'ignorant-cunts' and the casting of
    pearls before swine alright!

    there's an excuse for *mad-dave* 'coz he's just a petty little jealous failure-cunt who's never achieved 'anything' in his life (not even a
    decent education!) and quite obviously never will simply & solely because
    he's fucking insane! but i'd have thought YOU'D at least have known a LOT better than THAT chris!?

    nah, afaic you AND *mad-dave* can both go-play with each other! 'coz
    that's just despicable!

    and 'coz what's next: shitting all over music & art too??

    ya wanna know what's wrong with this world dave??

    it's YOU dave! *YOU'RE* what's wrong with this world! - you & people just 'like' you!

    and the rest of the idiots who aspire to actually BEING like you??? geez...

    sorry, can't possibly be friends (or even be associated) with nasty little shits like that!

    so have a nice life, what's left of it!

    but 'please' whatever ya's do... don't talk to me anymore, or ever again
    come to that...

    'coz i draw the line at the attempted destruction of Art by non-artists...

    we're done!

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  • From fuckowski@1:229/2 to All on Saturday, June 30, 2018 06:40:39
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    just having fun, relax, jeesus.

    look who's gettin' heavy now?

    you have to know when to laugh.

    today i'm receiving vini's book.

    i'll give it a review here in a few days.

    --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05
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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Saturday, June 30, 2018 11:04:19
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    Don't forget to read:

    Imagination and Our World Of Make-Believe:
    How Adults Play With Themselves In Their Dreams
    Then Get All Pissy And Take Their Marbles And Go Home

    http://tinyurl.com/ya3lxvg2

    The really funny thing is that... in the history of this book,
    there was once a long ongoing discussion about what to name it,
    and Vini and I and the book designer all argued about that some,
    to such an extent that at one point, Vini suggested to his book
    designer that the book should be named:

    How Adults Play Together
    And Get All Pissed Off And Shit

    And Vini actually mocked up a cover graphic that really said that. :)

    .

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Saturday, June 30, 2018 10:42:23
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    Yeah, just takin' the piss here love. :)
    Call me an ignorant cunt again and you get MORE Trump!
    LOL.

    .

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