• conformation/validation? absolutely! :)

    From slider@1:229/2 to All on Wednesday, June 27, 2018 22:31:58
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - just found this posted in ref. to 'The WILD Way' in another group on
    fb, by a nice young lady who's only just joined our WILDs & WILDing group,
    and with spectacular results! :)

    Mia: I've had a wonderful success with this method and can't sing its
    praises high enough. 11 wilds now in only 3 weeks or thereabouts from only
    ever reading about lucid dreaming before. If someone hadn't recommended
    this book to me I would probably be still wondering what the heck is going
    on, as I was having some weird experiences on going to bed and didn't
    realise what it was.

    This book not only cleared that all up, but has also opened up a whole new world of being to me just like that! Plus I've never felt so good in
    myself either? I feel really healthy and there's a spring in my step that
    just wasn't there before! I 'love' this experience and can't recommend it enough. xx

    ***

    so you see chris, they 'can' get it! - and love it!

    where they 'go' with it all, however, might just be another matter
    altogether haha :)

    (oooh look! i've learned to lucid dream with my head up my ass again!)

    wouldn't surprise me in the least hehehe :)

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  • From fuckowski@1:229/2 to All on Wednesday, June 27, 2018 16:42:45
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    well... at least i'm farting better now.
    ha ha ha.

    (old shorty joke)

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  • From fuckowski@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 06:56:00
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    the new 'nag' sez:


    ping chris... i gots an answer for ya's from dreaming this morning re
    what's it all about (alfie?):

    you mean it isn't just about riding bikes, drinking beer and
    eat pussy? {this is me at 19, what a mindset eh?}


    i went WILD and (for myself only) asked out loud: tell me something about
    lucid dreaming that i haven't realised yet?

    so of all things you are asking about lucid dreaming WHILE
    you are in a lucid dream. Very good Freud. Wasn't there
    anything else in your entire life that you might be interested in nowing?

    and i gots back what i guess i already knew but hadn't quite put together
    in this manner:

    "there is NO knowledge in lucid dreaming 'until' you get to the midway
    point! after which it ceases to be just a dream anymore and becomes a
    living reality..."

    that quite a jump grasshopper. So now we have the magical mystery
    point. cue the Beatles magical mystery tour. all aboard.

    meaning: once someone gets to the midway point they're on their own, and
    can then do + learn everything/advance all by themselves; they need
    nothing else: 'life' itself has become the teacher :)

    you've been on your 'own' all your life mate.

    and because, only once the midway point is achieved does it all becomes
    totally volitional to be able to enter into that altered state of
    awareness we then 'call' lucid dreaming in a supremely/ultimately sober
    manner, and get anything from it besides jerking oneself off merely
    amusing ourselves...

    kick my chair for me when you hit the motherload.

    why do that? because there's knowledge available to us from that midway
    pov that isn't available under any other circumstances AND being there
    also contains the ability to then carry it out...

    this may be so, yeah, sounds reasonable.

    + screw-you if ya can't be bothered to get there and see/find out for
    yourself heh, am done encouraging you...

    it's ok i'll get there on my 'own' big grasshopper. i'm creepin'
    up on 70 and i don't see anyone holding my hand here.

    plus with jeremy on yer' back all the time like that (even to openly
    punishing you in public like he thinks he's your fuckin' mother or summat geez!) am not surprised if life itself is becoming nothing to ya other
    than just something more to piss up the nearest wall right along side
    him...

    where would you two be (here) if you didn't have all these fantastic
    exchanges? You feed off each other. The flyer bros. (joking)

    but then that's 'your' problem, no one else's...

    oh what a lucky man he was.

    (in my observation you been sitting under that shits desperately
    dominating shadow far too long pal and is dragging you down with him... to nada... 'coz that's what drowning people do!)

    i'm such a cunt huh? no wait, i'm a twat aren't I? lol!

    now back-under ya's all go fuckers!

    thank you boss may i have another?

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 13:43:54
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - (posted in the WILDS & WILDing fb group just a few moments ago from india!)

    Hiyaaaaaa... :)

    Last night i had a intense hypnagogic sensation of falling continously for about 30 seconds or so...it was very realistic as u were falling in real life...& also after this sensation ,there came a very very vivid
    hypnagogic imagery & when i just look at it,it pulled me into a beauting
    super realistic WILD...

    So friends,basically i've 2 advices for those who're finding it difficult
    to WILD,

    the first thing is what i mentioned in my previous post..."CONSISTENCY IN PRACTING" & the second thing is for those who find it difficult to find hypnagogia..."HYPNAGOGIA ONLY COMES WHEN U R RELAXED VERY WELL"...dont
    rush /skip relaxation part,it is the KEY to hypnagogia & hypnagogia is the
    KEY TO WILDing...so stick on to that 2 points...my experience teached me
    that things...

    I hope this helps u...

    If u have any doubt/qstions feel free to ask 😇😊...

    And BELIEVE ME, "IT IS REALLY SIMPLE & EASY TO WILD" if u stick on to that
    2 POINTS i mentioned above...i can guarantee that... :)

    All the best peeps & happy WILDing...

    ***

    nice! and, i would have to say, prolly a fairly standard experience
    awaiting just about anyone who attempts WILDing!

    kewl :)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 12:07:10
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - chalk up another winner :)

    this young dude is only 16/17 and has been trying for a year to go WILD, problem was he wasn't trying every night but only occasionally when he remembered to try it, a busy young student in india apparently doing 12
    hours per day of study (sheesh) he kept falling asleep and/or not able to
    find any hypnagogia, or losing them when he maybe thought he did... one
    thing he did perfect in that time was his ability to relax however heh,
    and then his breakthrough came only a little while back (which was posted
    here) that involved keeping his eyes still and staring straight ahead
    instead of letting them dart about looking for hypnagogia, and when he did
    that (kept his eyes completely still i mean) that's when the hypnagogia
    really started to come to him...

    and now we have his second WILD experience (which he says he'll also post
    in the group in more detail later for the benefit of others) and of which
    he just messaged me about on fb; in his own words then:

    ***

    Omg...i had a intense hypnagogia last night..it was llike falling
    continously for 30 seconds or so...great feeling...& it followed by a very vivid visual hypnagogia & pulled me to WILDing...
    Cooooooooll...im still wondering how amazing & easy it is to WILD at
    will...

    ***

    smile, give him a couple of months and he'll likely be WILDing at the drop
    of a hat heh :)

    ------------

    ping chris... i gots an answer for ya's from dreaming this morning re
    what's it all about (alfie?):

    i went WILD and (for myself only) asked out loud: tell me something about
    lucid dreaming that i haven't realised yet?

    and i gots back what i guess i already knew but hadn't quite put together
    in this manner:

    "there is NO knowledge in lucid dreaming 'until' you get to the midway
    point! after which it ceases to be just a dream anymore and becomes a
    living reality..."

    meaning: once someone gets to the midway point they're on their own, and
    can then do + learn everything/advance all by themselves; they need
    nothing else: 'life' itself has become the teacher :)

    and because, only once the midway point is achieved does it all becomes
    totally volitional to be able to enter into that altered state of
    awareness we then 'call' lucid dreaming in a supremely/ultimately sober
    manner, and get anything from it besides jerking oneself off merely
    amusing ourselves...

    why do that? because there's knowledge available to us from that midway
    pov that isn't available under any other circumstances AND being there
    also contains the ability to then carry it out...

    + screw-you if ya can't be bothered to get there and see/find out for
    yourself heh, am done encouraging you...

    plus with jeremy on yer' back all the time like that (even to openly
    punishing you in public like he thinks he's your fuckin' mother or summat geez!) am not surprised if life itself is becoming nothing to ya other
    than just something more to piss up the nearest wall right along side
    him...

    but then that's 'your' problem, no one else's...

    (in my observation you been sitting under that shits desperately
    dominating shadow far too long pal and is dragging you down with him... to nada... 'coz that's what drowning people do!)

    now back-under ya's all go fuckers!

    maybe even for the last time :P

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 15:40:43
    From: slider@anashram.com

    thank you boss may i have another?

    ### - sorry to have been so... 'direct' :)

    but this is something one can 'only' give to... oneself?

    (kicking his chair): the jackpot IS that 'midway-point' ya ninny!

    everything else leads only to that point or it's a waste of time...

    devoted a whole chapter to it he did? :)

    that *that's* what it's really all about! only i thought/imagined/figured
    you talented idiots (intelligent twats? haha:) finding/figuring all that
    out for... yourselves?!

    (didn't wanna spoil the surprise see?)

    only none of ya's can be bothered to even check, you saw it here first was all...

    gave ya's first refusal was best i could do?

    (didn't imagine you'd just gob/trample all over it tho hah...)

    i.e., there's a distinct difference between healthy scepticism and an immobilising cynicism??

    did my best by you's was all i 'could' do... even by that braying jackass!

    end of story folks.

    plus who'll provide the 'trump-breaks' now eh?

    back under foreveeeer! :P

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  • From fuckowski@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 12:46:07
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    how timely of vini's book to come along right
    now for slider. i think the boy might still
    be suffering from a case of the "charlie's".
    20-25 year hang over from the shiny bamboozle
    of those books. Brian my boy Vini's book
    might sober you up some.

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 12:17:48
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    Yeah, you have loads of fun out there in 'Imagination Land'. :)

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    Pointing with the middle, you see it there? The midway point? :)

    To make a few serious comments, having experienced that phenomena
    several times (decades ago), I didn't and still don't see it
    as being especially meaningful or profound. Just my opinion.

    Yet ironically, I DID also come to that same conclusion myself,
    back in about 1987: that I could "do + learn everything/advance
    all by myself; that I needed nothing else; and that life itself
    was the teacher". I drew that conclusion more than 30 years ago.

    My favorite guru at the time, Carlos Castaneda, even wrote the
    very same thing, in his book "The Power Of Silence". To me,
    at that time, it was corroboration of something I had just
    discovered for myself. These days I would put it all in
    slightly different terms, of course.

    Actually, I think in a way it is the case for everyone, period,
    after reaching adulthood. And dreaming isn't really special.
    That 'lesson' applies to all of living - not just dreaming.
    After reaching adulthood, your basic teacher is life itself.

    Wrt dreaming and LD specifically, I'm still not sure there's
    anywhere to "go" after reaching a certain level of proficiency.
    For although I continued LD for decades afterward, I never
    "got anywhere" that seemed like it was "beyond that". If you
    "reach anything" I'd say it is simply a degree of detachment
    regarding ALL dreaming scenes. Where is there to "go" which is
    "beyond" that in the virtual worlds of dreaming? I think Slider
    may be just assuming there is somewhere 'fantastic' to go beyond
    that point, and I really don't think so.

    At best, dreaming seems to give your own mind a way of "talking"
    with its 'whole being' to your conscious mind. And what I've found
    is that there are significant aspects of that process which occur
    both in full conscious awareness and in more unconscious states
    (i.e. ordinary dreams), and even in something I might call
    "sleeping thoughts". There is a "spectrum" of sorts in our
    mental states and ALL of that spectrum can at times have value,
    not just the fully conscious parts (either in waking or in LD).

    Recently, I've gotten to a point in my own LD where I can totally
    wipe away the dreaming scene at will (iow, not only does it not
    matter what the dreaming scene is, there doesn't even have to be
    a dreaming scene at all). Not that doing that "leads anywhere"
    especially 'profound' either. Not in my experience yet, anyway.
    It's just one more thing one can do in dreaming and like everything
    else in dreaming it has fuck all to do with the real world, except
    that it involves the further exploration of your own mind.

    In a way, dreaming is the ultimate mental masturbation. :)
    It's all about YOU.

    And there are still plenty of other 'teachers' for everyone in the
    real world. Try to learn advanced Calculus or Physics or complete
    some major task in computer science or engineering without any
    teacher(s) and see how far you get all on your own.

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 21:20:59
    From: slider@anashram.com

    Brian my boy Vini's book
    might sober you up some.

    ### - lol stop talkin' shite (heh) and just get yourself to that 'midway
    point' business and then you'll 'finally' know for 'yourself' just what
    "sober" actually + really 'means & does'

    and then ya might then even write a book like vinny's hah! ;)

    and 'coz that's where it all... is! (and begins!)

    IF... you were lookin' for anything that is hehehe...

    (you actually knew all about it when you WILDed in your hot tub that time; (quote: "son of a bitch it IS actually possible to dream while you're
    awake!") - that was the real deal! - plus silly bollocks has 'never' experienced 'anything' like that and so has no idea wtf he's bs-ing about!
    you actually already know 'more' than him in that respect...)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 21:26:12
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - yeah yeah, get back to me when you no longer NEED to lie?

    wont be holding my breath any tho' :)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 21:39:22
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - curious (or not so curious really...) from a new member with a
    history of WILDing:

    "one thing in particular. I had stage fright before and used lucid
    dreaming to practice in front of an audience. I teleported myself to an opera-like stage and first I manifested just a few people but over a
    couple of dreams I filled the room and spoke(about lucid dreaming) to them
    all.

    So now when I think back on when I spoke in front of several hundred
    people then a room of twenty is no problem"

    ***

    almost verbatim what i wrotes about innit heh :P

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  • From fuckowski@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 16:07:24
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    But it was just my imagination once again runnin' way with me
    Tell you it was just my imagination runnin' away with me

    if you're not careful your imagination will
    run away with you to the land of dead end.

    temptations knew a thing or two didn't they?

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Monday, July 02, 2018 00:26:14
    From: slider@anashram.com

    On Mon, 02 Jul 2018 00:07:24 +0100, fuckowski <allreadydun@gmail.com>
    wrote:


    But it was just my imagination once again runnin' way with me
    Tell you it was just my imagination runnin' away with me


    ### -better change your shampoo or whatever then 'coz it's apparently
    givin' ya hallucinations

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  • From fuckowski@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 01, 2018 21:02:44
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    ### -better change your shampoo or whatever then 'coz it's apparently
    givin' ya hallucinations

    i'm not that far off amigo. but then again it's just a song.
    nothing personal .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Monday, July 02, 2018 09:25:32
    From: slider@anashram.com

    i'm not that far off amigo.

    ### - no skin off my shin bub + wont mention it again.

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, July 08, 2018 21:19:48
    From: slider@anashram.org

    ### - having spent the better part of 20 years in this gaff, i prolly
    couldn't BE more hardened to insults and digs?

    what i have difficulty with, however, and accordingly, are complements??? (cringe factor of 7 or 8 lol)

    like this one today hahaha...

    Tibor Pajer Brian, I like your book very much! Your logical and
    observative aproach to the different states of consciousness is simple excellent! :) I recommend it to everybody!

    ***

    and english isn't even his first language hah! :)

    and, is only a shame jeremy couldn't have been 'as-objective' in 'his'
    review huh...

    :D

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  • From thang ornerythinchus@1:229/2 to All on Monday, July 16, 2018 16:00:59
    From: thangolossus@gmail.com

    On Sun, 08 Jul 2018 21:19:48 +0100, slider <slider@anashram.org>
    wrote:

    ### - having spent the better part of 20 years in this gaff, i prolly >couldn't BE more hardened to insults and digs?

    what i have difficulty with, however, and accordingly, are complements??? >(cringe factor of 7 or 8 lol)

    like this one today hahaha...

    Tibor Pajer Brian, I like your book very much! Your logical and
    observative aproach to the different states of consciousness is simple >excellent! :) I recommend it to everybody!

    ***

    and english isn't even his first language hah! :)

    and, is only a shame jeremy couldn't have been 'as-objective' in 'his'
    review huh...

    :D

    Well done.


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  • From slider@1:229/2 to thangolossus@gmail.com on Tuesday, July 17, 2018 09:10:51
    From: slider@anashram.com

    On Mon, 16 Jul 2018 09:00:59 +0100, thang ornerythinchus <thangolossus@gmail.com> wrote:

    On Sun, 08 Jul 2018 21:19:48 +0100, slider <slider@anashram.org>
    wrote:

    ### - having spent the better part of 20 years in this gaff, i prolly
    couldn't BE more hardened to insults and digs?

    what i have difficulty with, however, and accordingly, are
    complements???
    (cringe factor of 7 or 8 lol)

    like this one today hahaha...

    Tibor Pajer Brian, I like your book very much! Your logical and
    observative aproach to the different states of consciousness is simple
    excellent! :) I recommend it to everybody!

    ***

    and english isn't even his first language hah! :)

    and, is only a shame jeremy couldn't have been 'as-objective' in 'his'
    review huh...

    :D

    Well done.

    ### - hahaha you're trying to make me cringe innit lol...

    so how about this one?

    Scott Robinson on Facebook, 7th June 2018:
    I am preparing to plug Brian Aherne's (slider's) book big time on my
    unworlding group just this morning since this awesome book has just
    provided me with a milestone experience, my first ever totally lucid WILD
    from a waking state. This is the first really great, original book I've
    found in a long time...

    (i like it, but it still has a cringe-factor of around 8 lol and perforce
    will have to go into hiding if it gets any worse haha...) :)

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  • From fuckowski@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, July 17, 2018 07:59:27
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    Can’t you feel that sun a-shinin’?

    Groundhog runnin’ by the country stream

    This must be the day that all of my dreams come true

    So happy just to be alive

    Underneath the sky of blue

    On this new morning, new morning

    On this new morning with you

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  • From thang ornerythinchus@1:229/2 to All on Wednesday, July 18, 2018 09:35:59
    From: thangolossus@gmail.com

    On Tue, 17 Jul 2018 09:10:51 +0100, slider <slider@anashram.com>
    wrote:

    On Mon, 16 Jul 2018 09:00:59 +0100, thang ornerythinchus ><thangolossus@gmail.com> wrote:

    On Sun, 08 Jul 2018 21:19:48 +0100, slider <slider@anashram.org>
    wrote:

    ### - having spent the better part of 20 years in this gaff, i prolly
    couldn't BE more hardened to insults and digs?

    what i have difficulty with, however, and accordingly, are
    complements???
    (cringe factor of 7 or 8 lol)

    like this one today hahaha...

    Tibor Pajer Brian, I like your book very much! Your logical and
    observative aproach to the different states of consciousness is simple
    excellent! :) I recommend it to everybody!

    ***

    and english isn't even his first language hah! :)

    and, is only a shame jeremy couldn't have been 'as-objective' in 'his'
    review huh...

    :D

    Well done.

    ### - hahaha you're trying to make me cringe innit lol...

    Not at all. You have done well. You've created a literary work
    regardless of objective merit and self-published within limited
    financial means. You've attained an audience and critical acclaim. It
    is a feather in your cap and I will not withhold congratulations
    because we don't see eye to eye on a lot of things.

    In my last full career, I employed many professionals (law and
    accounting and one electrical engineer) and I always congratulated
    those who did well (and generated fees). It's simple Organisational
    and Behavioural Theory 101 - some call it Theory Y (look it up), I
    call it deserved merit.



    so how about this one?

    Scott Robinson on Facebook, 7th June 2018:
    I am preparing to plug Brian Aherne's (slider's) book big time on my >unworlding group just this morning since this awesome book has just
    provided me with a milestone experience, my first ever totally lucid WILD
    from a waking state. This is the first really great, original book I've
    found in a long time...

    (i like it, but it still has a cringe-factor of around 8 lol and perforce >will have to go into hiding if it gets any worse haha...) :)

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  • From thang ornerythinchus@1:229/2 to allreadydun@gmail.com on Wednesday, July 18, 2018 09:59:28
    From: thangolossus@gmail.com

    On Tue, 17 Jul 2018 07:59:27 -0700 (PDT), fuckowski
    <allreadydun@gmail.com> wrote:

    Can’t you feel that sun a-shinin’?

    Groundhog runnin’ by the country stream

    This must be the day that all of my dreams come true

    So happy just to be alive

    Underneath the sky of blue

    On this new morning, new morning

    On this new morning with you

    It's the depths of winter here and I've got laryngitis. I do not
    share your feelings nor do I share your view.

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  • From fuckowski@1:229/2 to All on Wednesday, July 18, 2018 07:14:04
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    It's the depths of winter here and I've got laryngitis. I do not
    share your feelings nor do I share your view.

    their not mine, they belong to the writer.
    you may have heard of his song "New Morning"?

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Wednesday, July 18, 2018 08:41:56
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    Always loved that song (and actually, most of that whole album). :)

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to thangolossus@gmail.com on Wednesday, July 18, 2018 23:36:40
    From: slider@anashram.com

    On Wed, 18 Jul 2018 02:35:59 +0100, thang ornerythinchus <thangolossus@gmail.com> wrote:

    On Tue, 17 Jul 2018 09:10:51 +0100, slider <slider@anashram.com>
    wrote:

    On Mon, 16 Jul 2018 09:00:59 +0100, thang ornerythinchus
    <thangolossus@gmail.com> wrote:

    On Sun, 08 Jul 2018 21:19:48 +0100, slider <slider@anashram.org>
    wrote:

    ### - having spent the better part of 20 years in this gaff, i prolly
    couldn't BE more hardened to insults and digs?

    what i have difficulty with, however, and accordingly, are
    complements???
    (cringe factor of 7 or 8 lol)

    like this one today hahaha...

    Tibor Pajer Brian, I like your book very much! Your logical and
    observative aproach to the different states of consciousness is simple >>>> excellent! :) I recommend it to everybody!

    ***

    and english isn't even his first language hah! :)

    and, is only a shame jeremy couldn't have been 'as-objective' in 'his' >>>> review huh...

    :D

    Well done.

    ### - hahaha you're trying to make me cringe innit lol...

    Not at all. You have done well. You've created a literary work
    regardless of objective merit and self-published within limited
    financial means. You've attained an audience and critical acclaim. It
    is a feather in your cap and I will not withhold congratulations
    because we don't see eye to eye on a lot of things.

    ### - no need to applaud ffs, can just throw money instead? (really
    laffing hahaha...)




    In my last full career, I employed many professionals (law and
    accounting and one electrical engineer) and I always congratulated
    those who did well (and generated fees). It's simple Organisational
    and Behavioural Theory 101 - some call it Theory Y (look it up), I
    call it deserved merit.

    ### - yeah well, i wasn't trained to write so had to sweat blood to
    produce that for general consumption (there was actually a lot of 'zen' involved in writing all that & compiling it) ;)

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  • From thang ornerythinchus@1:229/2 to All on Wednesday, August 08, 2018 09:01:58
    From: thangolossus@gmail.com

    On Wed, 18 Jul 2018 23:36:40 +0100, slider <slider@anashram.com>
    wrote:

    On Wed, 18 Jul 2018 02:35:59 +0100, thang ornerythinchus ><thangolossus@gmail.com> wrote:

    On Tue, 17 Jul 2018 09:10:51 +0100, slider <slider@anashram.com>
    wrote:

    On Mon, 16 Jul 2018 09:00:59 +0100, thang ornerythinchus
    <thangolossus@gmail.com> wrote:

    On Sun, 08 Jul 2018 21:19:48 +0100, slider <slider@anashram.org>
    wrote:

    ### - having spent the better part of 20 years in this gaff, i prolly >>>>> couldn't BE more hardened to insults and digs?

    what i have difficulty with, however, and accordingly, are
    complements???
    (cringe factor of 7 or 8 lol)

    like this one today hahaha...

    Tibor Pajer Brian, I like your book very much! Your logical and
    observative aproach to the different states of consciousness is simple >>>>> excellent! :) I recommend it to everybody!

    ***

    and english isn't even his first language hah! :)

    and, is only a shame jeremy couldn't have been 'as-objective' in 'his' >>>>> review huh...

    :D

    Well done.

    ### - hahaha you're trying to make me cringe innit lol...

    Not at all. You have done well. You've created a literary work
    regardless of objective merit and self-published within limited
    financial means. You've attained an audience and critical acclaim. It
    is a feather in your cap and I will not withhold congratulations
    because we don't see eye to eye on a lot of things.

    ### - no need to applaud ffs, can just throw money instead? (really
    laffing hahaha...)

    I meant it. It takes discipline to create. But you have a lot of
    time on your hands, yet nevertheless...




    In my last full career, I employed many professionals (law and
    accounting and one electrical engineer) and I always congratulated
    those who did well (and generated fees). It's simple Organisational
    and Behavioural Theory 101 - some call it Theory Y (look it up), I
    call it deserved merit.

    ### - yeah well, i wasn't trained to write so had to sweat blood to
    produce that for general consumption (there was actually a lot of 'zen' >involved in writing all that & compiling it) ;)


    Agreed. I was never trained to write either, no one really is, it's
    an aptitude and a love of letters. I love the language.

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Friday, August 10, 2018 21:27:21
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - ok this is a pretty cool review on fb :D


    Don Salmon: in WILDs & WILDing:

    Ok, just got Brian's book on Kindle. I'm reporting in real time.

    I just skipped to the techniques chapter. I should mention (a) I've had
    many spontaneous lucid dreams since early childhood (that's the 1950s);
    (b) did a 6 month research project in 1991 involving teaching WILD to 12 research subjects (it was quite successful, by the way) and (c) have used relaxation and hypnagogic imagery as the basis of WILD for years.

    yet within the first few pages, I see something new - the way Brian talks
    about the need to not just observe hypnagogic images (from here on,
    "images" for short) but look at them in fine detail is, I can't believe
    it, something I haven't seen before (I've discovered it myself but tend to
    keep forgetting that crucial detail - it's GREAT to see someone else
    pointing this out)

    a little later, in the relaxation section, he mentions breath holding but without "corking" or tensing your throat; if you haven't done this, don't ignore it - it's a great way to relax; I'd also mention "ujayi" breathing
    (look it up on youtube); basically, a very slight, gentle closing of the glottis, the muscles of the throat; it also induces relaxation for many;
    but stay calm and loose and playful about it....

    I just saw an article in Medium on a technique taught in the military to guarantee falling asleep in 2 minutes or less. it's basically what Brian
    is teaching here - so, again, don't overlook this step.

    He later tells you to notice an overall tingling sensation - people who
    have practiced out of body experiences for years almost always note this -
    i've also found if you can reach it reliably it's the perfect sign that
    you're much closer to a WILD.

    ok, there's too much to comment on. I'm on page 77 and I now declare this
    the best lucid dream book I've ever read (previously I thought it was Alan Wallace's "Dreaming Yourself Awake." To be fair to Alan, as far as
    Buddhist philosophy goes, Alan's is still the best. But that's not Brian's intention - his is purely practical.

    For practical lucid dreams, you just can't beat this

    (and FYI, no, i never heard of Brian until I joined this group a week ago
    and I promise you, he didn't pay me to write this:>))))

    I'm off to Amazon to see if I can order a physical copy of this book.

    ***

    damn nice review eh? and he hasn't even read the second/deeper half yet
    heh...

    very interested to see what he makes of it all tho' + do enjoy his
    excitement in the matter :)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Friday, August 10, 2018 22:41:57
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - ok, here's this same dude responding now to jeremy's amazon review
    heh :)


    Don Salmon
    Ok, one more thought (I just posted a few moments ago having just read the first quarter of Brian's book and already having had a successful WILD)

    Someone on Amazon complained about Brian's claim that WILD's are better
    than DILD's.

    Here's some scientific research that led me to favor WILDs:

    As far back as William James, neuroscientists and psychologists understood
    that our world - the waking world we take for granted - isn't just "out
    there" as we perceive it. In fact, our brain (our "mind, actually, but I
    don't want to get too philosophic here) constructs (not creates!) the
    entire array of sights and sounds and tastes and smells.

    But there's something particular about the way it does this - in the space
    of a few thousandths' of a second, the world "unfolds" - a simple initial process of unclear sensations, slowly getting more complex until there's
    "me" and the "world" (if you're VERY attentive on first waking up, you may notice a kind of vague conglomeration of sensations and little or no sense
    of "I" then at some point, "I" realize "I" have woken up).

    Some say the entire universe unfolds this way, but again, I'll leave the philosophizing for now.

    The incredible thing about practicing WILD, if you do it long enough with enough attention (especially if you've practiced some quiet meditation
    like the Zen "Shikan Taza" or Loch Kelly's awareness practices - see his 4 minute animation on YouTube - the easiest meditation in the world but a
    GREAT adjunct to WILD practice) you'll start to notice this construction process, and the waking world will start to feel more fluid and alive and connected, and your dream world will be much more solid and substantial.

    Just a few hints. This book is really good and I can't recommend it enough
    if you haven't already got it (and again, no, Brian is not paying me to
    say this:>))))

    ***

    nice one! plus is about time someone commented on jeremy's poor/misleading review :)

    you might be gonna get a lot more of that eh jeremy?

    i certainly hope so anyway because that way the truth eventually comes out
    :)

    and imho that's all that ultimately matters...

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Wednesday, August 15, 2018 11:39:05
    From: slider@anashram.org

    ### - aaaaand... another one! :)


    Neil Brown
    15 August at 08:11

    I attained my first WILD last night. I'd like to share some of the
    differences between this experience and the DILDs I have had over the last
    few years.

    Most accounts of hypnagogia begin with flashes of light, progressing to geometric shapes and then to images and scenes with increasing vividness. Perhaps due to over-tiredness, but within twenty seconds after closing my
    eyes I am bombarded with fully fledged scenes that draw me into
    unconscious dreaming.

    Last night I weathered this barrage and found myself in the usual
    meditative state: numbness, heaviness, tingling, and sensory
    hallucinations - someone quite large suddenly sitting on the bed beside me
    (I often get this one). I remained in the state for quite some time. No
    more hypnagogia seemed to form, and I rolled over.

    I'm not sure exactly what happened but I found myself half in and half out
    of a dream. An orange room opened before me, and I was standing on the precipice. I decided to enter and I was walking through a corridor with
    walls of roughly hewn, orange stone. Thick blues music filled the air. My
    hands were ephemeral, and I tried to focus on them; I shook my head. In my DILDs this lack of solidity was usually a precursor for the dream
    collapsing or me waking up. However, despite the transparency of my hands,
    the scene itself was unwavering, more so than I have experienced in any
    lucid dream before.

    Unable to see an exit of any kind, and not wanting to waste time, I
    decided to walk through the wall. I put my arm through first. It was hard
    and I had to push with all my strength. I reminded myself that there was
    no wall, that it was a projection of my own mind, and my right arm
    followed with ease and then my head. Doing this previously always resulted
    in a new scene. But this wall was thick. I passed through layer after
    layer. Suddenly, something propelled me upwards at a speed I have never experienced. I knew I could stop my ascent but I wanted to know where it
    would take me.

    I left the atmosphere, my stomach wrenching with the twists and turns but
    there was no fear. I laughed as constellations of cartoon animals flashed
    by. I have flown in DILDS many times but have always had a problem with heights. Every time I reached the upper stratosphere, my rational
    faculties kicked in, telling me that there was no longer any oxygen, and I would wake up. But not this time.

    The velocity slowly decreased and I hovered in deep space for a few
    seconds, surrounded and permeated with an intense peace. Then I began to
    fall.

    There was no fear, only interest, but then something screamed. It was bloodcurdling, and I felt terror but it was apart from me and I could
    examine it as such. I young girl, her face contorted with an insane blood-thirst leapt at my neck with her blacken teeth barred. I smiled and
    said, "hello". Her face transformed back to a normal girl and she faded
    into the kaleidoscopic blur of planets and stars.

    I found myself standing by an aeroplane on a floating rock. There was a
    shy looking lady doing maintenance. I asked her why she was there, and she replied that she was there to help me. I asked her what she wanted me to
    do, and she told me to put on an old WW1 type helmet. I sat in the
    aeroplane with a rudder between my legs looking down at a tiny Earth.

    Then I was back in bed.

    When I wake from DILDs it is accompanied by the grogginess of sleep, but
    not this time. I was completely awake and felt I had been bodily thrown on
    the bed rather than waking from sleep.

    ***

    haha nice first WILD + lol at these old 'dild-doers' getting waaay too
    fancy for their own good outta sheer habit alone (i.e., as in: "...but
    never embellished to the point of flying french poodles" lol)

    liked his "orange room" starting point (as it was the same for me the
    first few times) + note also his discernment of some kind of obvious 'qualitative difference' compared to what he's otherwise used to, as in: "However, despite the transparency of my hands, the scene itself was unwavering, more so than I have experienced in any lucid dream before."

    which 'could' just be down to experiencing an increased lucidity
    (wakefulness) whilst WILDing as compared to dildo-ing, but which to him as
    an old dild-doer was immediately apparent... something which ultimately
    allowed him to overcome preciously learned 'fears' (of heights( for
    example: "no fear, only interest" - and which is kinda confirmed by his waking-up experience at the end too, of:

    "When I wake from DILDs it is accompanied by the grogginess of sleep, but
    not this time. I was completely awake and felt I had been bodily thrown on
    the bed rather than waking from sleep."

    his first WILD 'already' taking him well-beyond his more usual stance(es)
    and no-go areas in the dream state; bubbles he's now completely burst
    asunder just by WILDing the once! (very cool), but even so he started
    losing it towards the end by talking/listening to dream characters (old
    habits truly die hard huh...) his more mystical-type beliefs/training
    starting to gain ground again getting him booted hahaha (the noob!), so methinks will have to have a quick word with him on that ;)

    a definite explorer that one tho' innit hehehe...

    'detached and at ease' this dude, with just a little more practice, could prolly fly past anything!

    :)

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Wednesday, August 15, 2018 10:50:19
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    To me, it just sounds like he's not very good at it,
    either WILD or DILD. There are several indications throughout
    his account that he's not really going or staying fully lucid,
    not even in WILD. And this dreaming certainly wasn't very 'stable'.
    His WILD was as wild as any DILD. :)

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Wednesday, August 15, 2018 21:11:54
    From: slider@anashram.com

    To me, it just sounds like he's not very good at it,
    either WILD or DILD. There are several indications throughout
    his account that he's not really going or staying fully lucid,
    not even in WILD. And this dreaming certainly wasn't very 'stable'.
    His WILD was as wild as any DILD. :)

    ### - he's just an average, plus apparently fairly good, dildo-er of old
    by all accounts... and accordingly auto-transfers his more usual
    expectations (from dilding) to WILDing thus this initial melange, but
    would expect that to improve due to the increased directness & simplicity
    of going WILD...

    dild-o's apparently having to first correct/get-over their already fairly ingrained ways of rather clumsily handling dreaming from that perspective alone, most of which never reaches (or reached) full lucidity anyway (dildo-rehab required? heh...) - comments like 'never before' tending to suggest a marked + strikingly noticeable difference in perception on his
    part compared to what he's used to; was all i was commenting on... and
    because i think i know, from experience, precisely what that is & why...

    and imho is just a shame you don't have any of your own 'actual' + more 'recent' experiences to refer to in all this, instead of being reduced to eternally playing this intellectual guessing-game of what you 'think' it
    all 'sounds' like to you etc etc? and all of it questionably negative
    hehehe...

    iow: you really can't 'do' this stuff from one's armchair, like you're
    doing, and then honestly profess to know enough to critique it; dilds
    maybe yes but WILDs no? and because the 'proof of the pudding' and all
    that heh, 'is' in the actual eating thereof...

    and because your current 'tack' on all this tends to belie your previous statement of:

    "Somehow, I feel it is vital that we collectively learn to see
    the world from a pov beyond our own selfishness and self-importance"

    so eat already, and just tell us what happens! go all 'experiential' on
    its ass!

    (c'mon don't be scared it's only an apple! bite it! really laffing
    hahaha...)

    :)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Wednesday, August 15, 2018 22:22:09
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - this follow up comment is, i find, quite interesting too...

    the dude posted his experience and this other guy complemented, and then
    we get this:

    Neil Brown: You're welcome. It was intense yet easy at the same time. Have
    you had a DILD?

    Antony McKechnie: Yes I have had a few DILDs. I've also had a number of
    OBEs, some of which were initiated from within a DILD. But it's been a
    while and I haven't been able to have them regularly, hence I'm really interested in WILDs and the claims that eventually you can initiate them
    at any time!

    ***

    that last bit: "hence I'm really interested in WILDs and the claims that eventually you can initiate them at any time!"

    is, imho, key to a sometime-run on WILDs if/when it finally gets around
    the ld-community that this is in fact correct!

    'fuss/frills-free' lucid dreaming whenever ya want? 'practical' lucid dreaming?? (cue the rumble of hooves lol)

    and 'coz if'n you're interested in lucid dreaming then what's possibly
    better than that?!

    nada... plus just wait till they discover that the surest way to have a
    'dild' is to attempt to learn to WILD and the dilds come effortlessly +
    free?? (i.e., it actually works better than all the reality checks,
    journals + addon's nonsense put together/combined hah!) :)

    haha fiver's be falling from the sky like homer dancing around in chocolate-land lol...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=II1UOAmPqrc

    ohhh look there's another one! hahaha... :D

    (well ya never know do ya heh...)

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to slider on Wednesday, August 15, 2018 17:18:41
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    On Wednesday, August 15, 2018 at 1:11:57 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    To me, it just sounds like he's not very good at it,
    either WILD or DILD. There are several indications throughout
    his account that he's not really going or staying fully lucid,
    not even in WILD. And this dreaming certainly wasn't very 'stable'.
    His WILD was as wild as any DILD. :)

    ### - he's just an average, plus apparently fairly good, dildo-er of old
    by all accounts... and accordingly auto-transfers his more usual expectations (from dilding) to WILDing thus this initial melange, but
    would expect that to improve due to the increased directness & simplicity of going WILD...

    dild-o's apparently having to first correct/get-over their already fairly ingrained ways of rather clumsily handling dreaming from that perspective alone, most of which never reaches (or reached) full lucidity anyway (dildo-rehab required? heh...) - comments like 'never before' tending to suggest a marked + strikingly noticeable difference in perception on his part compared to what he's used to; was all i was commenting on... and because i think i know, from experience, precisely what that is & why...

    and imho is just a shame you don't have any of your own 'actual' + more 'recent' experiences to refer to in all this, instead of being reduced to eternally playing this intellectual guessing-game of what you 'think' it all 'sounds' like to you etc etc? and all of it questionably negative hehehe...

    iow: you really can't 'do' this stuff from one's armchair, like you're doing, and then honestly profess to know enough to critique it; dilds
    maybe yes but WILDs no? and because the 'proof of the pudding' and all
    that heh, 'is' in the actual eating thereof...

    Well, I know very well that lucid dreaming can seem as 'stable' and real-seeming as the daily world. I've experienced that many times.
    That dude seemed shocked by it, as if it was unusual for him.

    You just do not accept my 'way' of dreaming (which includes not being
    fixated on any particular type). But if one is going to do LD then
    the key is to stay FULLY LUCID. That last guy really didn't, although
    he may have entered via WILD. However, I'm really not obsessed with
    lucidity at all. I've expressed many times now my view that ordinary unconscious dreaming can be just as meaningful and sometimes even more informative and creative than any lucid experiences.

    To quote a post I made in the thread 'Scientific Studies Of Sleep' https://groups.google.com/d/msg/alt.dreams.castaneda/U0FnPH0J4O4/3b8j8wR4AwAJ

    "Some sleep theorists postulate that REM sleep is when we are our
    most intelligent, insightful, creative, and free. It’s when we truly
    come alive."

    Let's just say that I totally understand why they suspect that.
    I also think I understand why you might completely ignore it. :)
    But the *unconscious* aspects of ourselves give rise to much of it.

    I don't seem to be able to adequately convey to you my view that the
    conscious aspects of ourselves are not necessarily 'superior' to
    the unconscious aspects, and that I simply do not focus to exclusion
    on one or the other. I am both.

    Nothing that you or anyone else has ever reported, nor anything
    in my own decades of dreaming has led me to believe that LD
    (DILD or WILD) is more creative, interesting, or meaningful
    than our ordinary REM dreaming state can be (at least, for me).

    I would even say that going lucid while in the REM state, as
    fascinating as it can be, can sometimes be more 'disruptive'
    than it is illuminating. In other words, sometimes the ordinary
    dream is more interesting than going lucid is, and going lucid
    almost spoils it since then you don't get to fully 'play it out'
    as if 'emotionally real'. (I have more to say on that topic.)

    You seem to conveniently forget that recently you and I both
    successfully completed an objective LD experiment (the one with
    the mirror). We're the only two people here who completed that.
    To complete an LD experiment like that *requires full lucidity*.
    It wasn't all that long ago. And I've had 3 or 4 LD experiences
    in the last couple of months, in spite of not really focusing
    on it anymore.

    But really man, I don't care what you think of my dreaming.
    You may need to just accept that we simply have different ways.
    (And you don't seem to be able to do that.)

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Thursday, August 16, 2018 04:10:30
    From: slider@anashram.com

    I know very well that lucid dreaming can seem as 'stable' and
    real-seeming as the daily world. I've experienced that many times.
    That dude seemed shocked by it, as if it was unusual for him.

    ### - fact is high lucidity is a rarity amongst dild-doers unless you're ex-castaneda apparently heh, and this mainly because you seem to be the
    only one who can (maybe) dild with full lucidity, we only have your word
    for this + i haven't actually met any others in all this time claiming
    anything similar...

    added to which dilds can't be turned on/off like WILDs can, dilds are a completely random affair...

    so in truth you're merely trolling :)

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to slider on Thursday, August 16, 2018 09:30:16
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    On Wednesday, August 15, 2018 at 8:10:34 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    I know very well that lucid dreaming can seem as 'stable' and
    real-seeming as the daily world. I've experienced that many times.
    That dude seemed shocked by it, as if it was unusual for him.

    ### - fact is high lucidity is a rarity amongst dild-doers unless you're ex-castaneda apparently heh, and this mainly because you seem to be the
    only one who can (maybe) dild with full lucidity, we only have your word
    for this + i haven't actually met any others in all this time claiming anything similar...

    Aside from sleep lab experiments, we have only a person's word
    for ANYTHING they experience in LD, in both DILD and WILD.
    This includes you, bub.


    added to which dilds can't be turned on/off like WILDs can, dilds are a completely random affair...

    so in truth you're merely trolling :)

    Apparently, you don't know what the word trolling means.
    I made a clear, meaningful statement on dreaming in general.
    In no valid sense of the word was it trolling.

    So what if DILD can't be 'turned on or off'? Neither can your
    heartbeat, or your appetite, or your sex drive, or even your
    curiosity. (And besides, to some degree it can be turned on, using
    your *intent* to do it.) As I just pointed out, in the last two months
    I have had 3 or 4 LDs (without even trying), yet you get all excited
    when this guy does ONE half-assed WILD. Can you at least wait until
    he's done it say 5 times on demand before claiming he can "turn it on"
    at will? For he's demonstrated no such thing; he succeeded only ONCE,
    and after trying how many times?? You have to count all the times a
    person attempts WILD and fails if you want to claim people can do it
    'on demand', or you just have 'the file drawer problem', which
    in truth is merely another example of your bias. :)

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to david.j.worrell@gmail.com on Thursday, August 16, 2018 21:03:09
    From: slider@anashram.com

    On Thu, 16 Aug 2018 17:30:16 +0100, Jeremy H. Denisovan <david.j.worrell@gmail.com> wrote:

    On Wednesday, August 15, 2018 at 8:10:34 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    I know very well that lucid dreaming can seem as 'stable' and
    real-seeming as the daily world. I've experienced that many times.
    That dude seemed shocked by it, as if it was unusual for him.

    ### - fact is high lucidity is a rarity amongst dild-doers unless you're
    ex-castaneda apparently heh, and this mainly because you seem to be the
    only one who can (maybe) dild with full lucidity, we only have your word
    for this + i haven't actually met any others in all this time claiming
    anything similar...

    Aside from sleep lab experiments, we have only a person's word
    for ANYTHING they experience in LD, in both DILD and WILD.
    This includes you, bub.

    ### - smile, am just saying i just haven't met (nor spoken to) 'anyone'
    (other than you) claiming 'full' lucidity in dilds as being common is all, whereas most people usually remark just how clear & vivid everything is
    when experiencing a WILD for the first time 'compared' to a dild, which
    then equals only 'you' versus quite a few peeps by now mentioning an
    unexpected lucidity when WILDing (is often seen/remarked-on too when peeps
    use wbtb to lucid dream and unwittingly WILD but think it's a dild...)



    added to which dilds can't be turned on/off like WILDs can, dilds are a
    completely random affair...

    so in truth you're merely trolling :)

    Apparently, you don't know what the word trolling means.
    I made a clear, meaningful statement on dreaming in general.
    In no valid sense of the word was it trolling.

    ### - heh i meant trolling in the sense of you deliberately making negative-type comments in an otherwise fairly positive thread in order to merely mar the tone of the thing and to perhaps pull it off into an
    argument (the uglier the better from your pov), something you've always personally done but also loudly bellyache about like there's no tomorrow whenever someone does it to you? (+ that's also how i know you know you're doing it quite deliberately too... you're trolling!) :)




    So what if DILD can't be 'turned on or off'? Neither can your
    heartbeat, or your appetite, or your sex drive, or even your
    curiosity. (And besides, to some degree it can be turned on, using
    your *intent* to do it.)

    ### - no, there's no conscious switch to dilds thus it's a purely chuck-it-and-chance-it technique that may or may not even work; hence all
    the addon's etc... whereas WILDs are the complete opposite, and only
    actually function correctly/fully when quite consciously induced... big difference! - plus highlights a quite obvious advantage that WILDs then
    have over dilds from the off... a much easier and far more straightforward method of lucid dreaming that had been basically shelved/overlooked for
    all the wrong reasons... until now :)

    smile, you plead ignorance as that merely allows you to continue to
    'pretend' to debate, or do i have to remind you of your own initial
    thoughts on this very matter that you then went to all the trouble of
    trolling my book with under the guise of being a balanced review??
    (grinz...) :D

    quote:
    "The author does make clear that the major advantage of WILD is the
    ability to do lucid dreaming virtually at will, and to remain aware
    throughout the entire process, and that is truly an advantage."

    so... 'there' you DO at least 'comprehend' what kind an advantage such a
    thing 'might' represent, but now today you totally don't?? riiiight...

    that's trolling! (or possibly just alzheimers heh, who knows)

    :)

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  • From feewilly@1:229/2 to All on Thursday, August 16, 2018 15:15:22
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    ### - heh i meant trolling in the sense of you deliberately making negative-type comments in an otherwise fairly positive thread in order to merely mar the tone of the thing and to perhaps pull it off into an
    argument (the uglier the better from your pov), something you've always personally done but also loudly bellyache about like there's no tomorrow whenever someone does it to you? (+ that's also how i know you know you're doing it quite deliberately too... you're trolling!) :)

    roaring laughter **************

    no shit sherlock? lol!

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to slider on Thursday, August 16, 2018 16:10:51
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    On Thursday, August 16, 2018 at 1:03:14 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    On Thu, 16 Aug 2018 17:30:16 +0100, Jeremy H. Denisovan
    wrote:

    On Wednesday, August 15, 2018 at 8:10:34 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    I know very well that lucid dreaming can seem as 'stable' and
    real-seeming as the daily world. I've experienced that many times.
    That dude seemed shocked by it, as if it was unusual for him.

    ### - fact is high lucidity is a rarity amongst dild-doers unless you're >> ex-castaneda apparently heh, and this mainly because you seem to be the
    only one who can (maybe) dild with full lucidity, we only have your word >> for this + i haven't actually met any others in all this time claiming
    anything similar...

    Aside from sleep lab experiments, we have only a person's word
    for ANYTHING they experience in LD, in both DILD and WILD.
    This includes you, bub.

    ### - smile, am just saying i just haven't met (nor spoken to) 'anyone' (other than you) claiming 'full' lucidity in dilds as being common is all

    Grin, I told you long ago that I did know several other people
    among Castaneda's students - and personally knew two people well -
    one male and one female - who were expert at both WILD and DILD.
    Neither person regarded either method as being "better" (although it's
    great to be good at both methods if you're into LD). Neither person
    ever made a big 'issue' out of WILD vs. DILD at all.

    Indeed, YOU are the first person I ever encountered who made a
    huge issue out of it, and to this day I think that's stupid. :)
    Castaneda himself didn't do that either. He was always more like...
    well, how a person does dreaming is personal to them.

    I even went to a workshop once back in the late 1990's where everyone
    present sat down and attempted WILD over and over in a big group.
    I wasn't able to get into dreaming during the workshop (in fact,
    the methods used were highly distracting to me and I personally
    couldn't have entered dreaming that way in a million years) but
    several people there did (they said), including one of my friends
    who was very good at WILD. (That was a workshop by Hank Wesselman
    in 1997.)

    You act like you think you're the only one who ever does it.
    Wesselman was doing it back in the 90s. Castaneda gave us a few
    methods for WILD too back then. They didn't work for me,
    personally, but... he did give us a few.


    whereas most people usually remark just how clear & vivid everything is
    when experiencing a WILD for the first t ime 'compared' to a dild, which
    then equals only 'you' versus quite a few peeps by now mentioning an unexpected lucidity when WILDing (is often seen/remarked-on too when peeps use wbtb to lucid dream and unwittingly WILD but think it's a dild...)

    That's almost a non-sequitur. They're probably just unsure whether
    they went back to sleep or not. And it probably doesn't even matter,
    since if they manage to enter LD soon after going to back sleep then
    they're still in the early non-REM stages of sleep (I've done that
    many times). I have concluded, after reexamining my own experiences
    over the years that there probably is a big difference in the
    'stability' of dreaming scenes depending on whether you go lucid in
    non-REM or in REM. And THAT is almost certainly why you believe
    there's such a big difference between DILD and WILD. It's really the
    big difference non-REM and REM. WILD happens right on the edge of
    nREM-1, so the dream scenes are more 'stable'.

    And I get that, but I learned to maintain lucidity in both states.
    Because I worked hard to do it. The REM state is weirder and less
    stable (also often much more interesting), but if you're determined
    to stay lucid, you totally can in either state. There may even be
    subtle differences between NREM1 and NREM2 LD. But I learned using
    methods that forced me to hyper-monitor the state of my awareness
    and also made me tremendously determined, so I learned that it
    doesn't matter how 'stable' dream scenes are or what they morph
    into, you can still maintain lucidity if you work hard at it.

    The only stage I'm not sure about is deep sleep. I doubt if anyone
    but maybe some friggin' monks somewhere can enter LD from the deepest
    sleep stage (Delta stage). And I don't think they'd get any big
    'prize' even if they could do it (it's just another brain state). :)


    added to which dilds can't be turned on/off like WILDs can, dilds are a
    completely random affair...

    so in truth you're merely trolling :)

    Apparently, you don't know what the word trolling means.
    I made a clear, meaningful statement on dreaming in general.
    In no valid sense of the word was it trolling.

    ### - heh i meant trolling in the sense of you deliberately making negative-type comments in an otherwise fairly positive thread in order to merely mar the tone of the thing and to perhaps pull it off into an
    argument (the uglier the better from your pov), something you've always personally done but also loudly bellyache about like there's no tomorrow whenever someone does it to you? (+ that's also how i know you know you're doing it quite deliberately too... you're trolling!) :)

    I'm just trying to present a more well-rounded view of dreaming.
    And maybe get you to be more objective about your obsession.


    So what if DILD can't be 'turned on or off'? Neither can your
    heartbeat, or your appetite, or your sex drive, or even your
    curiosity. (And besides, to some degree it can be turned on, using
    your *intent* to do it.)

    ### - no, there's no conscious switch to dilds thus it's a purely chuck-it-and-chance-it technique that may or may not even work;

    You keep refusing to even look at something that is simple
    and useful. And as it happens, it is a function of will. :)

    When you consciously decide to do something, you still don't have
    FULL conscious control over how it goes. That's why people may
    decide to stop smoking or drinking like 20 times and still fail.
    However, if they keep intending it and they also derail some of
    the components of the habits that keep them relapsing, they can
    eventually succeed, since after many days their unconscious mind
    internalizes the goal and they succeed, although they may not
    be fully aware of how they finally did it. That's how will works.

    New Scientist recently put it like this. They said there are really
    TWO steps to breaking any habit. Step 1 is to "derail" some normal
    components of the habit in order to "reprogram your unconscious",
    and Step 2 is to adopt other cues to "trigger a more desirable
    habit". In the case of LD, the undesired "habit" is remaining
    unconscious through all periods of dreaming. New Scientist says:

    "Repetition is the key. It can take anywhere between 15 and 254 days
    to form a new habit." New Scientist also recommends trying to break
    a habit while you're outside your normal environment.

    They're talking about: how to consciously change unconscious habits.

    [Castaneda heads may find it interesting to note that all of this
    advice is practically identical to how Castaneda claimed 'don Juan'
    broke some of his own major habits like smoking. So... lookie here,
    CC was actually right about a few things, and this is one of them.]

    In this case, our desired new habit is to go lucid and maintain lucidity.

    Looking back on how I learned to do LD long ago, I did this exactly.
    I derailed some of my habits using several of Castaneda's methods,
    all while *intending* to trigger a new desired habit of becoming
    aware during my dreams and doing specific activities IN dreaming
    to maintain that awareness. It did, in fact, take me somewhere
    around 14 or 15 days or so to first go lucid and perform the desired
    dreaming activities. By repeatedly *intending* to do it, I managed
    to reprogram my unconscious mind to assist with the task. It worked.

    I would never know when I would 'go aware' in dreaming. But at
    some point my unconscious would allow my conscious mind to 'surface'.
    Because I *intended* for that to happen over and over.

    The unconscious mind is handling your ordinary dreaming anyway,
    so if you can get it 'on your side' by continually intending what
    you want: "to wake up in dreams" eventually it will help you do
    that and you will wake up in your dreams. Then you must work at
    maintaining that lucidity while dreaming. Intent works at both a
    conscious and an unconscious level. That's how DILD works.

    It's not that big a deal to succeed at it. You say "there is
    no conscious switch". Yes and no. There is conscious intent that
    after being maintained for days gets internalized by the unconscious.

    Similarly, when I decided I wasn't all that interested in dreaming
    anymore, I *dropped* that intent and largely stopped focusing on it.
    LD still happens to me some just naturally since I did it for
    so long and got good at it.

    It's really not that different from going on a reasonable diet.
    You intend to stop eating unhealthy stuff, you derail the habits
    of making unhealthy stuff available, and then you start eating more
    healthy stuff all the time. But you have to intend to stick to it,
    and again... "Repetition is the key. It can take anywhere between
    15 and 254 days to form a new habit."

    In the case of diet, since we eat every day multiple times a day,
    it can take *months* to really change your mind at both the conscious
    and unconscious levels to where you eat more healthy all the time.

    It's not really that different with lucid dreaming or anything else.


    the addon's etc... whereas WILDs are the complete opposite, and only
    actually function correctly/fully when quite consciously induced... big difference! - plus highlights a quite obvious advantage that WILDs then
    have over dilds from the off... a much easier and far more straightforward method of lucid dreaming that had been basically shelved/overlooked for
    all the wrong reasons... until now :)

    smile, you plead ignorance as that merely allows you to continue to
    'pretend' to debate, or do i have to remind you of your own initial
    thoughts on this very matter that you then went to all the trouble of trolling my book with under the guise of being a balanced review??
    (grinz...) :D

    quote:
    "The author does make clear that the major advantage of WILD is the
    ability to do lucid dreaming virtually at will, and to remain aware throughout the entire process, and that is truly an advantage."

    so... 'there' you DO at least 'comprehend' what kind an advantage such a thing 'might' represent, but now today you totally don't?? riiiight...

    Yeah, I stand by every single word I wrote in that review you keep
    whining about over and over. :) Yes, being able to enter directly
    into dreaming is an advantage. But that doesn't matter if you are
    no good at it. And most people aren't.

    I am pretty good at relaxing. I am good at getting all kinds of
    hypnagogia, and even at examining the details of hypnagogia.
    The step I've only managed to do a few times is to consciously
    succeed at 'getting pulled' all the way into dreaming by it.
    It's just not easy for me to make that jump. I've done it a
    handful of times, and it's cool when it happens, but... most of
    the time for me it doesn't happen. I bet many people have a
    similar difficulty. And I can definitely say that I could achieve
    full lucidity in either DILD or WILD. WILD was not a noticeably
    'special' state of LD, not for me. It was a good clear LD state,
    but... for me, nothing special.


    that's trolling! (or possibly just alzheimers heh, who knows)

    :)

    You don't even listen. You just want to argue with everyone.
    Because you're obsessed with something.

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to david.j.worrell@gmail.com on Friday, August 17, 2018 02:47:37
    From: slider@anashram.com

    On Fri, 17 Aug 2018 00:10:51 +0100, Jeremy H. Denisovan <david.j.worrell@gmail.com> wrote:


    ### - smile, am just saying i just haven't met (nor spoken to) 'anyone'
    (other than you) claiming 'full' lucidity in dilds as being common is
    all

    Grin, I told you long ago that I did know several other people
    among Castaneda's students - and personally knew two people well -
    one male and one female - who were expert at both WILD and DILD.
    Neither person regarded either method as being "better" (although it's
    great to be good at both methods if you're into LD). Neither person
    ever made a big 'issue' out of WILD vs. DILD at all.

    ### - such 'lack' of discernment is/was 'their' problem innit, and yours
    too apparently heh...

    missed the boat much? (grinz...)




    Indeed, YOU are the first person I ever encountered who made a
    huge issue out of it, and to this day I think that's stupid. :)

    ### - 'anything' you don't understand always seems stupid to you, which
    imho precisely defines what 'stupid' actually is lol + all depends on what
    you 'want' to understand! - like once you wanted to 'understand' the Cos
    and wouldn't hear anything said against them, then castaneda, now all THIS
    crap instead?? and that's precisely what you don't understand! mostly coz
    you don't wanna and because you're incapable of being more objectively
    detached and as such incapable of evaluating anything properly; you're all 'opinion' and no evidence that isn't... secondhand :)

    either put-up or shut up?




    Castaneda himself didn't do that either. He was always more like...
    well, how a person does dreaming is personal to them.

    ### - yeah... and then everything cc said/suggested turned out to be shite right? lol

    so you really shouldn't listen to him about anything right?? and were
    actually very angry about how 'wrong' he was and now you're quoting from
    him like that qualifies what *you're* saying??

    and you don't see any problem with that! LOL! :)))




    You act like you think you're the only one who ever does it.
    Wesselman was doing it back in the 90s. Castaneda gave us a few
    methods for WILD too back then. They didn't work for me,
    personally, but... he did give us a few.

    ### - laberge basically 'discovered' the whole thing (initially mapped it anyway) and yet 'still' totally underestimated their actual value?! yes
    many mistakes have been made! and not actually realising just what WILDs actually + really ARE + why they are etc etc, was definitely one of the
    biggest blunders/fumbles ever i reckon! - lol talk about dropping the
    ball?? - still, 'someone' had to be the champion of dilds innit i suppose
    heh, and he (laberge) did a fairly good job too! only now it's roll-over beethoven time 'coz the 'other' exact side of the coin has arrived and
    wont be denied examination any longer hah! (and that's cool because it clarifies things + adds a whole new part to it; the missing part!)




    whereas most people usually remark just how clear & vivid everything is
    when experiencing a WILD for the first t ime 'compared' to a dild, which
    then equals only 'you' versus quite a few peeps by now mentioning an
    unexpected lucidity when WILDing (is often seen/remarked-on too when
    peeps
    use wbtb to lucid dream and unwittingly WILD but think it's a dild...)

    That's almost a non-sequitur. They're probably just unsure whether
    they went back to sleep or not. And it probably doesn't even matter,
    since if they manage to enter LD soon after going to back sleep then
    they're still in the early non-REM stages of sleep (I've done that
    many times).

    ### - give it up jeremy, you really DON'T know wtf you're talking about
    and literally now making it up as you go along lol...

    you've done nada mate! not enough anyway, and ALL of it almost completely unconscious dildo-ing at best thus useless! unless ya wanna be a cc-nut
    that is, you'd easily qualify for that lol, opp's sorry, you did already
    hahaha :)))




    I have concluded, after reexamining my own experiences
    over the years that there probably is a big difference in the
    'stability' of dreaming scenes depending on whether you go lucid in
    non-REM or in REM. And THAT is almost certainly why you believe
    there's such a big difference between DILD and WILD. It's really the
    big difference non-REM and REM. WILD happens right on the edge of
    nREM-1, so the dream scenes are more 'stable'.

    ### - all sounds great 'in theory' jeremy, but that's ALL you gots! just
    more armchair theory to justify other armchair theory! it's rem and it's
    not rem and all that bollocks?? lol, you're like a scientist pontificating
    on Picasso or van gogh lol; it's all numbers and no content, experience
    nor style! splashed across a grid that's labeled perspective hah; it's all crap! and conceptual/contextual crap at that! it's all lies & distortion!

    you can't do, you can only theorise :)





    And I get that, but I learned to maintain lucidity in both states.
    Because I worked hard to do it. The REM state is weirder and less
    stable (also often much more interesting), but if you're determined
    to stay lucid, you totally can in either state. There may even be
    subtle differences between NREM1 and NREM2 LD. But I learned using
    methods that forced me to hyper-monitor the state of my awareness
    and also made me tremendously determined, so I learned that it
    doesn't matter how 'stable' dream scenes are or what they morph
    into, you can still maintain lucidity if you work hard at it.

    ### - you don't seem to know anything except an endless bunch of rationalisations designed solely to make you feel like you're still in
    some kinda control 30 years later heh... only you ain't ya know, anything
    but actually, you're still the passive victim complaining about everything because you can't... act!

    and so now, from a handful of (maybe) remembered experiences from over 30
    years ago heh, suddenly you're an expert on WILDs too?? lol it's just too
    funny hahaha... of course you are! how could you not be! heh... listen,
    makes no difference whatsoever to moi old chap, you can stay down there
    forever if ya like and remain there for all i (or anyone) really cares...

    the world is simply leaving you... behind :)



    added to which dilds can't be turned on/off like WILDs can, dilds
    are a
    completely random affair...

    so in truth you're merely trolling :)

    Apparently, you don't know what the word trolling means.
    I made a clear, meaningful statement on dreaming in general.
    In no valid sense of the word was it trolling.

    ### - heh i meant trolling in the sense of you deliberately making
    negative-type comments in an otherwise fairly positive thread in order
    to
    merely mar the tone of the thing and to perhaps pull it off into an
    argument (the uglier the better from your pov), something you've always
    personally done but also loudly bellyache about like there's no tomorrow
    whenever someone does it to you? (+ that's also how i know you know
    you're
    doing it quite deliberately too... you're trolling!) :)

    I'm just trying to present a more well-rounded view of dreaming.
    And maybe get you to be more objective about your obsession.

    ### - a well round pov based on 'theory alone' just doesn't cut it jeremy
    + you're too funny for words as the 'king' of obsession lecturing 'others'
    on the doubtful nature of obsession LOL...

    that's hilarious! :)))


    (just gonna snip the rest of your insane 'cc was correct' rant lol :)))

    did gimmie a good laff tho hehehe :D funny

    i mean, actually throwing cc at me of 'all' things lol, and this after you going around for the last 20 years preaching anti-cc dogma only to end up quoting him as 'you're' now ultimate authority on dreaming???

    it's a riot :)))))

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Friday, August 17, 2018 15:09:31
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - seems to have hit a home run with this dude who's already heavily involved with lucid dreaming all his life, plus although imho he's
    embellishing on it a bit too much with things like dream journals helping
    etc + a couple of other unnecessary bits, he's apparently well impressed
    with the method of actually entering a WILD via hypnagogia merely by
    examining them in detail...

    his quote (below) of: "I may have stumbled on this next part of Brian's technique once or twice but i have NEVER seen this anywhere else and it's
    been a key to more frequent success." - is actually very gratifying that
    others are beginning to incorporate this something 'new' into their
    teaching methods...

    cool :)



    Don Salmon 17 August
    Hi Folks:

    I just posted this at Alan Wallace's FB group. Alan has written a
    wonderful book on Dream Yoga, "Dreaming Yourself Awake."

    Someone asked about lucid dream practice, and I wrote this - if I forgot,
    will someone remind me in a few weeks about my promise to post some music
    to help with lucid dreaming?

    **********************

    Take a look at Brian Aherne's recent book on "WILD" (waking induced lucid dreams")

    METHOD:

    1. Deep relaxation (use Ujayi, any form of brief breath holding, or spinal breathing with Ujayi and possibly mantra if that helps - these breathing exercises are my own addition - I find using drone music of some kind is
    almost essential for success in WILD)

    2. Observe spontaneously arising hypnagogic images. DON'T STRAIN!! With as little effort as possible. if you aren't aware of anything, you can try listening effortless for sounds and noticing abstract light phenomena, or "pretend" (as effortlessly as possible) to "visualize" (just take some
    place, like your home or neighborhood, that you're very familiar with and
    take an imaginary walk, around there, you'll soon realize you are
    visualizing then let go and see what arises)

    3. This is the crucial part. I've been reading material on lucid dreams
    for almost 50 years, have had lucid dreams since a little child and did my masters research on lucid dreams, teaching 12 people to successfully have
    them from 1 to 4 times a week, with 6 learning WILD as well. I may have stumbled on this next part of Brian's technique once or twice but i have
    NEVER seen this anywhere else and it's been a key to more frequent
    success. Once you have succeeded in calmly, in a relaxed state, almost effortlessly (this relaxed effortlessness is crucial) observed
    spontaneously arising images, focus in on one of them. If you know
    Culadasa's distinction between selective attention and peripheral
    awareness, or even better, Les Fehmi's "immersed" vs "Detached" attention,
    what you're doing now is highly focused, but immersed rather than detached (this is very much like Csikszentmihalyi's "flow state" as well).

    What Brian describes, and what I've found - to my amazement - is that it
    seems like this focusing in on the details of one particular image, if you
    can sustain it (you keep focusing on all the details with increasing
    interest if you can - that's what makes it "immersed" attention) you start
    to feel like you are "pulled" INTO the scene. If you can sustain awareness (Culadasa's peripheral awareness, balanced with narrow, selective
    attention- balancing left mode and right mode, as Iain McGilchrist would
    put it) you'll find yourself "In" the dream.

    Brian suggests, and I pretty much agree, that you should try this at least
    a few weeks to see if it works for you. All the other things about lucid dreaming can be helpful - keeping a dream journal to make your non lucid
    dreams more vivid, doing "reality checks" (which are described VERY well
    in Alan's "Dreaming Yourself Awake"), MILD (see LaBerge) etc.

    I'd love to hear how this works if anybody wants to try it for a few
    weeks. I'm planning to put up some "drone" music that I find helpful, and you're welcome to use it for free. I'm also very interested in finding how people use music and if it helps.

    If you do use your own music, you might try bringing your attention,
    during the relaxation phase, into different parts of the body, and
    "feeling" the music vibrating and filling the whole area, until it fills
    the whole body and spreads beyond. This "vibrating" sensation will be VERY helpful for the next phase.

    Also, if you're having trouble visualizing, you might look up Helen
    Bonny's "Guided Imagery and Music," for help in seeing how music can dramatically facilitate the awareness of hynagogic imagery.

    Good luck and sweet dreams!!

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to slider on Friday, August 17, 2018 15:33:37
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    On Thursday, August 16, 2018 at 6:47:42 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    On Fri, 17 Aug 2018 00:10:51 +0100, Jeremy H. Denisovan
    wrote:


    ### - smile, am just saying i just haven't met (nor spoken to) 'anyone'
    (other than you) claiming 'full' lucidity in dilds as being common is
    all

    Grin, I told you long ago that I did know several other people
    among Castaneda's students - and personally knew two people well -
    one male and one female - who were expert at both WILD and DILD.
    Neither person regarded either method as being "better" (although it's great to be good at both methods if you're into LD). Neither person
    ever made a big 'issue' out of WILD vs. DILD at all.

    ### - such 'lack' of discernment is/was 'their' problem innit, and yours
    too apparently heh...

    missed the boat much? (grinz...)

    We all largely agreed on this matter. You're the only one I know
    who disagrees. And I think I've even explained to you what has
    fooled you into believing otherwise.


    Indeed, YOU are the first person I ever encountered who made a
    huge issue out of it, and to this day I think that's stupid. :)

    ### - 'anything' you don't understand always seems stupid to you, which
    imho precisely defines what 'stupid' actually is lol + all depends on what you 'want' to understand! - like once you wanted to 'understand' the Cos
    and wouldn't hear anything said against them, then castaneda, now all THIS crap instead?? and that's precisely what you don't understand! mostly coz
    you don't wanna and because you're incapable of being more objectively detached and as such incapable of evaluating anything properly; you're all 'opinion' and no evidence that isn't... secondhand :)

    You know, these crude gaslighting attempts of yours really say a lot
    about the kind of person you are. :) They don't affect me much except
    that they're a bit... frustrating. It's weird to talk to someone who
    actually refuses to listen to reason and keeps coming back with all
    these personal attacks. Here I am taking the time to explain all sorts
    of things about this clearly, and all you can think to do is 'fight me'.

    My theories are in alignment with current data from the sleep labs
    AND are based on quite a lot of my own personal experiences.

    Another set of my own experiences strongly implying my theories
    are correct is that several times (perhaps as many as 10-15 times)
    I did not initiate dreaming via EITHER WILD OR DILD. Rather, on those occasions, I *initiated* dreaming by having a false awakening.
    FAILD? :) Invariably, on *every one* of those occasions, the dreaming
    scene was an extremely stable copy of my current real room, one
    having such a degree of realism I actually had to do reality testing
    to figure out that I was dreaming (and indeed, a couple of times
    I didn't figure it out until the scene finally changed). Since also
    invariably, false awakenings occur close to real awakening, this means
    during all of those experiences I was almost certainly doing LD in
    Non-REM states. Moreover, those LD states all seemed highly similar
    to your own descriptions of WILD experiences and they were also
    similar to my own handful of actual WILD experiences (wrt the
    stability and realism of the dream scenes in the handful of WILD
    experiences I've had).

    On 2 or 3 occasions the false awakening even generated a state that
    at first seemed more like an OOBE than LD, but since I was able to
    stay lucid long enough for the scene to change, I realized it wasn't
    really OOBE. How is that relevant? Well, the ONLY clinical difference
    I've seen come out of the sleep labs comparing DILD and WILD is that
    WILD has been found to result in more 'seeming OOBEs'. So that is yet
    another reason to suspect that I am correct about how DILD initiated
    in the early N-REM states (or via false awakening) is highly similar
    to (if the not the same as) WILD.

    Further similar evidence comes in from my sleep paralysis
    experiences. I have on a few occasions also initiated LD from
    a state of sleep paralysis (mind awake, body still paralyzed).
    SPILD? :) That also tended to result in more 'stable' states of LD
    which are more like those attained with WILD.

    All that gives me more reason to believe my theory is right.
    Are you going to be a sad boy if it gets validated in the labs? :)


    either put-up or shut up?




    Castaneda himself didn't do that either. He was always more like...
    well, how a person does dreaming is personal to them.

    ### - yeah... and then everything cc said/suggested turned out to be shite right? lol

    so you really shouldn't listen to him about anything right?? and were actually very angry about how 'wrong' he was and now you're quoting from
    him like that qualifies what *you're* saying??

    and you don't see any problem with that! LOL! :)))

    I'm not like you; I actually care about the truth. :) Whoever it
    comes from. I don't try to draw black and white lines in the
    sand like you. I would listen even if the truth came from you,
    although it so seldom does. Castaneda lied about many things,
    yeah. I dare say I have painstakingly documented more of his
    lies than just about anyone else on earth besides DeMille. Yet CC
    was right about a few things too. And when I find them, I say so.
    You see, I argue fairly. Not like you.

    For example, I just pointed out how CC's writings and comments on
    'disrupting habits' happen to be right in line with the current
    scientific research. He seems to have gotten that one right.
    So I have to give it to him.

    But realize, it actually makes a cult leader MORE dangerous to
    sometimes get a few things right. Because then there's more reason
    to believe in them and they can end up leading more people astray.


    You act like you think you're the only one who ever does it.
    Wesselman was doing it back in the 90s. Castaneda gave us a few
    methods for WILD too back then. They didn't work for me,
    personally, but... he did give us a few.

    ### - laberge basically 'discovered' the whole thing (initially mapped it anyway) and yet 'still' totally underestimated their actual value?! yes
    many mistakes have been made! and not actually realising just what WILDs actually + really ARE + why they are etc etc, was definitely one of the biggest blunders/fumbles ever i reckon! - lol talk about dropping the
    ball?? - still, 'someone' had to be the champion of dilds innit i suppose heh, and he (laberge) did a fairly good job too! only now it's roll-over beethoven time 'coz the 'other' exact side of the coin has arrived and
    wont be denied examination any longer hah! (and that's cool because it clarifies things + adds a whole new part to it; the missing part!)

    Actually, Laberge is yet another person who didn't seem to think
    WILDs were all that special compared to DILDs. He wouldn't have
    either since he was another person like me who could maintain
    full lucidity in DILD and he was exposed to many people in the labs
    who could do both WILD and DILD. So it wasn't a big deal to him either.
    And he was totally right not to make a big deal out of it.

    I also notice how you weren't even curious about what methods
    Castaneda gave us for doing WILD. :) This, to me, is one of your
    defining characteristics: you aren't even very curious - not about
    much of anything. You just compulsively 'go to war' over your
    own views.


    whereas most people usually remark just how clear & vivid everything is
    when experiencing a WILD for the first t ime 'compared' to a dild, which >> then equals only 'you' versus quite a few peeps by now mentioning an
    unexpected lucidity when WILDing (is often seen/remarked-on too when
    peeps
    use wbtb to lucid dream and unwittingly WILD but think it's a dild...)

    That's almost a non-sequitur. They're probably just unsure whether
    they went back to sleep or not. And it probably doesn't even matter,
    since if they manage to enter LD soon after going to back sleep then they're still in the early non-REM stages of sleep (I've done that
    many times).

    ### - give it up jeremy, you really DON'T know wtf you're talking about
    and literally now making it up as you go along lol...

    Actually, I was once again speaking from both logic and experience.
    Remember, I've tried to do WILD myself many, many times, beginning
    way back in the old days. That's how I found out I'm not good at it.
    Yet sometimes while trying I did fall asleep in the attempt yet
    soon afterward actually entered LD, and a few times I wasn't totally
    sure whether or not I'd fallen asleep first. I don't count those
    times as being among my few bona fide WILDs, btw.

    You know, I did not mention this before, but the night that I
    successfully completed the mirror experiment, I'd woken up in
    the middle of the night, and decided to do WBTB and try WILD.
    I tried for 20 minutes or so, and then went back to sleep again,
    and yet very soon after going back to sleep went lucid in a
    dream scene and performed that mirror experiment.

    So not only have I done that very thing I was talking about above
    many times before, I even did it once fairly recently.

    Also, right after going back to sleep after WBTB you do once again
    quickly run through the early n-REM stages. So that part's true too.

    Sometimes I think your entire arguing method is just proclaiming:
    "you don't know what you're talking about". It's lazy as hell.
    And really just another form of lying.


    you've done nada mate! not enough anyway, and ALL of it almost completely unconscious dildo-ing at best thus useless! unless ya wanna be a cc-nut
    that is, you'd easily qualify for that lol, opp's sorry, you did already hahaha :)))

    More gaslighting bs. You must be terrified of me or something.
    That's the only thing I can figure...


    I have concluded, after reexamining my own experiences
    over the years that there probably is a big difference in the
    'stability' of dreaming scenes depending on whether you go lucid in
    non-REM or in REM. And THAT is almost certainly why you believe
    there's such a big difference between DILD and WILD. It's really the
    big difference non-REM and REM. WILD happens right on the edge of
    nREM-1, so the dream scenes are more 'stable'.

    ### - all sounds great 'in theory' jeremy, but that's ALL you gots! just
    more armchair theory to justify other armchair theory! it's rem and it's
    not rem and all that bollocks?? lol, you're like a scientist pontificating
    on Picasso or van gogh lol; it's all numbers and no content, experience
    nor style! splashed across a grid that's labeled perspective hah; it's all crap! and conceptual/contextual crap at that! it's all lies & distortion!

    you can't do, you can only theorise :)

    Slider, that's just more bs. I've had several hundred LD experiences.
    My last was 4 or 5 days ago and was far more interesting than anything
    you've posted in months.

    [snip... repetitive contentless crap...]

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to david.j.worrell@gmail.com on Saturday, August 18, 2018 03:42:00
    From: slider@anashram.com

    On Fri, 17 Aug 2018 23:33:37 +0100, Jeremy H. Denisovan <david.j.worrell@gmail.com> wrote:


    All that gives me more reason to believe my theory is right.

    ### - 'believe' all you want heh, it's still 'only' a theory :D

    an 'armchair' theory in this instance that isn't even deduced from
    personal experience!

    you think... you believe... riiiight... :)






    ### - laberge basically 'discovered' the whole thing (initially mapped
    it
    anyway) and yet 'still' totally underestimated their actual value?! yes
    many mistakes have been made! and not actually realising just what WILDs
    actually + really ARE + why they are etc etc, was definitely one of the
    biggest blunders/fumbles ever i reckon! - lol talk about dropping the
    ball?? - still, 'someone' had to be the champion of dilds innit i
    suppose
    heh, and he (laberge) did a fairly good job too! only now it's roll-over
    beethoven time 'coz the 'other' exact side of the coin has arrived and
    wont be denied examination any longer hah! (and that's cool because it
    clarifies things + adds a whole new part to it; the missing part!)

    Actually, Laberge is yet another person who didn't seem to think
    WILDs were all that special compared to DILDs.

    ### - but isn't that just exactly what i said? (laffing...)




    He wouldn't have
    either since he was another person like me who could maintain
    full lucidity in DILD and he was exposed to many people in the labs
    who could do both WILD and DILD.

    ### - he was like 'you'?? then that would prolly explain why he fumbled it
    lol :)))




    So it wasn't a big deal to him either.

    ### - overlooked it & got hung-up instead on dilds...

    BIG mistake! - huge! - WILDs didn't fit... the theory!

    so he discarded 'em instead of reexamining the theory...

    shit happens :)





    And he was totally right not to make a big deal out of it.

    ### - ahahaha is that right??

    riiiiiight... :D

    and well, we're gonna actually find that out now innit!

    'coz when 'enough' peeps are doing/using it the demand will arise to find
    out!

    so all ya gots to do now is live long enough to wait and see :)

    point being: the question is still pending, it hasn't actually 'been'
    answered yet...

    and this no-matter what you just so 'happen' to currently... 'believe' :)

    (laberge 'seems' like a decent-enough chap, decent enough to maybe even
    admit his error when confronted with it, we'll see... what *you'll* do if
    he does, however, is far less certain haha; you'll prolly go and shoot-up
    los vegas or summat lol...)

    lol what WILL you do if i AM right jeremy? how WILL you handle it??

    have you even considered that?

    just how 'much' would it fuck you up if am right! :)))

    and will you take a bet on it!

    am prepared to go 'all-in' on it, are you? (grinz...)

    (course you're not coz you're only trolling + wouldn't pay up if ya lost
    heh)

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Saturday, August 18, 2018 13:02:11
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    Well, you don't seem to have any testable theories at all, Slider.
    My theories could all be thoroughly tested in sleep labs.

    Actually, I do still see some problems with my own theories
    and I believe it would take careful experimental designs
    to tease it all out more thoroughly.

    ***

    Here are some clinical notes regarding WILD taken from a 1990 paper
    by LaBerge:

    "Compared with DILDs, WILDs were more frequently immediately
    preceded by physiological indications of awakening"
    (that's how he formally defines them: LD initiated soon after
    the physiological indications of awakening)

    Here's the note I find most interesting:
    "Momentary intrusions of wakefulness occur very commonly during the
    normal course of REM sleep, and Schwartz and Lefebvre (1973)
    proposed that lucid dreaming occurs during these microawakenings.
    However, LaBerge, Nagel, Taylor, Dement, & Zarcone’s (1981) and
    LaBerge et al.’s (1986) data indicate that, while lucid dreams do
    not take place during interludes of wakefulness within REM periods,
    a minority of lucid dreams (WILDs) are *initiated* from these moments
    of transitory arousal and continue in subsequent undisturbed REM sleep." [*emphasis mine*]

    So, another possibility is that these realistic 'false awakening
    initiated' LDs that I have MAY be initiated during such physiological "micro-awakenings". And if that proved to be the case then LaBerge
    would have technically labeled them as WILDs. I don't know for sure
    that this is what happens with me, but it's a distinct possibility.
    It would take sleep lab work to figure it out.

    ***

    This clinical note is taken from a 2015 paper by Nicolas Zink
    & Reinhard Pietrowsky, Heinrich-Heine-University, Düsseldorf:

    "Levitan, LaBerge and Dole (1992) found two ways to start a lucid
    dream. First and most likely was the “dream-initiated lucid dream”
    (DILD), in which the dreamer acquires awareness of being in a dream
    while fully involved in it. In the second case, the “wake initiated
    lucid dreams” (WILD), the dreamer awakes from a dream and then
    returns to the dream state with unbroken awareness. Stumbrys,
    Erlacher, Schädlich, and Schredl (2012) revised the methodological
    quality of studies using cognitive techniques like mnemonic induced
    lucid dreams (MILD), reflection/reality testing, intention,
    autosuggestion, Tholey´s combined techniques, post-hypnotic
    suggestion, alpha feedback, dream re-entry and other eclectic
    approaches to induce LD. They showed that none of these induction
    techniques had been shown to induce lucid dreams reliably and
    consistently, although some like MILD, reflection/reality testing,
    intention, and Tholey´s combined techniques look promising."

    Two things I want to emphasize. First, NO technique tested was
    "shown to induce LD reliably and consistently". And second,
    one of the techniques is called "intention". The "intention" method
    is even one of those said to look promising. :)

    So I may have to go read a bit more on what has been done with that.

    ***

    Here is a Men's Health article on methods of LD from 2017: http://tinyurl.com/y8wf6eu2

    Notice, from the results:

    "The researchers also found that those who only practiced MILD and
    were able to fall asleep within five minutes of completing the
    technique (after the first five hours of sleep) had a lucid dream
    success rate of nearly 46 percent after one week of practicing."

    Hmm. Notice that the MILD method specifically uses *intention*. :)
    And wow - a success rate of nearly 46% after a week of practice
    among those who can go back to sleep fast. That's damned high!

    Do you think WILD can ever beat that MILD success rate, Slider? :)
    Personally, I doubt it.

    "The MILD practice, like WBTB, involves waking up after 5 initial
    hours of sleep then focusing on the *intention* to remember you are
    dreaming prior to falling back to sleep."
    [*emphasis mine*]

    ***

    Here's an article on WILD that was written just a couple of months ago: http://tinyurl.com/y8fsmz79

    This dude uses a completely different method. He also notes
    that WILDs "can be quite difficult to achieve since they rely on
    extreme physical relaxation to put the body to sleep while the mind
    remains awake".

    ***

    Below is a site promoting LaBerge's original method for WILD.
    It also lists multiple WILD methods by Charlie Morley (two of
    which are intriguing and one mentions setting one's *intent*).

    These methods all utilize WBTB.

    http://tinyurl.com/y7o6tmqp

    Something that interests me about LaBerge's original WILD method
    is the statement:

    "The dream scene is usually created out of your memory of your
    bedroom or wherever you are sleeping. Sometimes you can send your
    awareness to another dream scene straight away, but generally without
    any other kind of imagery at work, you are going to find yourself
    lying in a dream version of your own bed."

    All I can say is that I had LOTS of LD experiences that involved
    either false awakenings into my own bedroom or finding myself lying
    in a dream version of my own bed. That happened to me over and over.

    ***

    One of the WILD methods Castaneda gave us was quite unusual.
    I didn't like it much so I may not even describe it perfectly.
    (If anyone out there recalls it differently, feel free to correct.)

    Carlos had us sit on the floor touching the soles of our feet together
    and then lean our head over in the direction of our feet to see how
    close our forehead came to the floor. Then he had us each cut little
    wooden rods, maybe 1/4 or 1/2 inch in diameter, cut to such a length
    that you could place the base of the rod on the floor and lower your
    head to touch the other end of the rod, so that the tip of the rod
    rested gently on your forehead on what some think is the 'third eye',
    placing a little pressure on this spot. You were supposed to intend
    to turn off your internal talk and then sit like this with your
    forehead on the tip of the rod until you entered dreaming.

    I never succeeded at this even once and it was an uncomfortable
    position. I doubt if I even tried it as many as 10 times because
    I was already good at doing dreaming in my own way. I may still
    have that cut wooden rod around here somewhere. LOL. :)

    ***

    Kimberly Mascaro's 2018 book, 'Extraordinary Dreams' mentions
    her own success with WILD. She first talks about LaBerge's method.
    She specifically says "entering a dream in this manner is rare"
    but she also adds: "the technique has worked for me on a number
    of occasions".

    ***

    Just to confirm what I said before, LaBerge's FAQ includes the
    statement: "Wake-initiated lucid dreams (WILDs) were three times
    more likely to be labeled "OBEs" than dream-initiated lucid dreams."

    ***

    This is a description of Paul Tholey's "combined technique" for LD: http://tinyurl.com/yaffqmqp

    Step 2 in his process is all about Intention. A particular part
    of it that caught my eye:

    "A variation of this approach is for the dreamer to set an intention
    to carry out a specific activity in a dream... It is up to the dreamer
    to choose which activity he will perform... The activity may be...
    a 'reality check' type action, such as looking at your hands."

    Wow. There it is. The very method CC says 'dJ' had him use.
    And the method I myself used over and over. Very interesting.

    .

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to slider on Saturday, August 18, 2018 14:15:29
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    On Friday, August 17, 2018 at 7:42:01 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    On Fri, 17 Aug 2018 23:33:37 +0100, Jeremy H. Denisovan
    wrote:

    Speaking of LaBerge, Slider says:
    BIG mistake! - huge! - WILDs didn't fit... the theory!

    so he discarded 'em instead of reexamining the theory...

    No, he didn't. He repeatedly included WILD in his analyses.
    I've pointed out already how LaBerge found that WILDs resulted
    in 3 or 4 times as many "seeming OBEs" as DILDs, for example.
    And that finding is right in line with my own theory.

    Here's a quote from a 2014 Masters thesis that even touts WILD:
    Lucid dreaming: A Wake-Initiated-Lucid-Dream (WILD) approach

    "The discussion has shifted into what techniques are best for
    training this ability, but everyone is different, and lucid dreaming
    is no exception to this rule, as pointed out by Synder and
    Gackenbach (1988). For example, DeGracia, “has 114 recorded lucid
    dreams of which 43% were WILDs and 56% were DILDs. In contrast,
    only 8% of LaBerge’s and Degracia’s (2000) dissertation sample
    of 388 recorded lucid dreams were WILDs, a significantly lower
    proportion” (p. 283). These numbers illustrate the profound impact
    that different styles and induction techniques can have on one’s
    lucid dreaming..."

    [In the quote above, I have corrected DeGracia's name.]

    So in that dissertation work, Laberge's sample included 8% WILDs.
    He did not "discard it". What I wonder about is why I never hear
    you mention other people's work, like DeGracia's? Did you do
    ANY research when you wrote your own book on WILD? DeGracia was
    really big on WILD.

    Then again, he takes kind of a... wilder approach to WILD. :)
    Here are his collected writings on 'astral projection' and 'OOBE': http://www.dondeg.com/metaphysics/do_obe.pdf


    And he was totally right not to make a big deal out of it.

    ### - ahahaha is that right??

    riiiiiight... :D

    and well, we're gonna actually find that out now innit!

    'coz when 'enough' peeps are doing/using it the demand will arise to find out!

    so all ya gots to do now is live long enough to wait and see :)

    point being: the question is still pending, it hasn't actually 'been' answered yet...

    I'm not sure exactly what you think "the question" even is?
    You say weird stuff such as that you think WILD may not even be
    dreaming. As near as I can tell you don't have a testable theory. :)

    Here's one fact I can tell from looking at existing lab studies.
    The physiological state measured in the sleep labs for LD and for
    'seeming OBE' is identical. LaBerge found that. Not only that,
    but since LaBerge defined WILD as being LD *initiated* in waking
    yet *continuing* in REM... how do you feel about the strong
    possibility that all you're really doing w/ WILD is intentionally
    initiating lucid REM states starting from a full waking state? :)

    Based on the data I've seen, that's the strongest possibility.


    and this no-matter what you just so 'happen' to currently... 'believe' :)

    (laberge 'seems' like a decent-enough chap, decent enough to maybe even admit his error when confronted with it, we'll see... what *you'll* do if he does, however, is far less certain haha; you'll prolly go and shoot-up los vegas or summat lol...)

    lol what WILL you do if i AM right jeremy? how WILL you handle it??

    Right about what, exactly? I think I've told you at least 3 times
    already that I don't care at all if people do WILD; I think it's fine.
    I even stated in a published review that it's an advantage for those
    able to do it (albeit a nothing burger for those who find it hard).
    So what do you think you're "right" about? You don't even have a
    coherent theory that I've ever heard succinctly stated.

    To me, WILD is simply another method of initiating lucid dreaming.
    So I've never had any problem with it - I just think it's difficult
    for most people to do. I also don't think LD is the be all and end all
    of life, period. Otoh, you act like you think WILD is something...
    WAY MORE than just lucid dreaming, but you never say what.


    just how 'much' would it fuck you up if am right! :)))

    and will you take a bet on it!

    Right about WHAT? :) My theory can be simply stated as:

    "The stability of lucid dreaming is strongly affected by the
    sleep stage in which it is initiated, but full lucidity
    in dreaming can be attained and maintained regardless of
    the initiation method used."

    So there's my theory in a nutshell.
    Now... what the fuck even IS your theory?
    At least tell me that before I say if I want to "bet" on it. :)

    And btw, it never 'fucks me up' at all when evidence is made
    available for what is conclusively correct. It never does.

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to david.j.worrell@gmail.com on Sunday, August 19, 2018 01:30:20
    From: slider@anashram.com

    On Sat, 18 Aug 2018 21:02:11 +0100, Jeremy H. Denisovan <david.j.worrell@gmail.com> wrote:

    Well, you don't seem to have any testable theories at all, Slider.
    My theories could all be thoroughly tested in sleep labs.

    ### - you/we can 'talk' all day forever and achieve nothing but just more
    talk heh (which is obviously your intention to just get people lost in
    words and conflicting ideas) - the real 'test' however is in the doing
    thereof, and because in a purely 'nonacademic' manner have laid it all out
    so simply that even a child can test it...

    best advise is to stop complaining about how 'hard' it all is for you personally, put all your 'preconceived' ideas away for just 10 minutes and actually test it 'yourself' based on how exactly how it's been presented,
    and then, if ya want, you can try and reconcile it as much as you want to
    any existent ideas, theories & models... and because i have no interest in doing so personally more than so

    thus i'll leave the academic comparative-shit to people like you who seem fascinated by such things, people who'd rather 'talk' than do... i don't, however, mind discussing it from 'within' the context it's been presented,
    but that's all am basically prepared to do...

    'do' it and we'll talk about it, else not doing it and talking about it is
    just an endless round of if's, buts & intellectual maybes on your part and
    nada else that's actually going anywhere (you're pretty good at talking yourself to a stand-still iow hehehe, but that's about all + cue long list
    of jeremy's 'reasons' why it can't even be done at all lol ...)

    do it/don't do it makes no difference to me ultimately, but we've nothing
    to 'talk' about otherwise, my own interests being more about the rather fascinating implications + ramifications of being 'able' to do it :)

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Saturday, August 18, 2018 17:55:05
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    I'd like to think that wasn't just a smokescreen for how you're
    incapable of stating ANY coherent, testable theory of WILD.
    But I honestly think that's exactly what it was.
    I'd like to think even you have more integrity than that.
    But after the way you've behaved, I really don't think so.

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to david.j.worrell@gmail.com on Sunday, August 19, 2018 02:25:33
    From: slider@anashram.org

    On Sun, 19 Aug 2018 01:55:05 +0100, Jeremy H. Denisovan <david.j.worrell@gmail.com> wrote:

    But after the way you've behaved,

    ### - I'VE behaved???

    riiiiiiiiiiiiiight....

    :D :D :D

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  • From Jeremy H. Donovan@1:229/2 to All on Saturday, August 18, 2018 23:07:13
    From: jeremyhdonovan@gmail.com

    But you ARE a robot (with no free will). :)

    .

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  • From feewilly@1:229/2 to All on Saturday, August 18, 2018 21:05:37
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    you sound like fucking robots.

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, August 19, 2018 12:02:41
    From: slider@anashram.com

    frasier's dad wrote... :)


    you sound like fucking robots.

    ### - awww don't go on so dad... niles is off the hook now :)

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  • From feewilly@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, August 19, 2018 07:35:28
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    so we are off to Del Mar on the train
    this morning for the annual trip to the
    track. our horse was gonna run today
    but got scratched, oh well there's plenty
    of other horses to blow your money on.
    we'll see how it goes, see how that free
    choice works out today. i can help myself.

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to slider on Sunday, August 19, 2018 12:00:29
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    On Sunday, August 19, 2018 at 4:02:43 AM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    frasier's dad wrote... :)


    you sound like fucking robots.

    ### - awww don't go on so dad... niles is off the hook now :)

    But you aren't. Mr. WILD has no coherent theory on WILDs. Go figure...

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, August 19, 2018 21:39:16
    From: slider@anashram.com

    Mr. WILD has no coherent theory on WILDs. Go figure...

    ### - have no 'academic' theory on it no, never claimed to :)

    i.e., the whole thing is written & presented purely from an educated
    layman's pov for other laymen, so have just described the experience + how
    to reproduce the results while at the same time asking a bunch of
    questions to stimulate interest and the spirit of objective enquiry...

    others, perhaps more suited to the purpose, can then work out what it all really is or ultimately isn't, all i could personally provide otherwise
    were educated guesses & impressions about what 'it' appears to be from the
    pov of doing it and being inside it, all of which is highly subjective and
    thus wide open to interpretation, the important parts currently being
    mapping the entering into and out of it's various early stages for any
    common denominators and finding that midway point, and with anything
    deeper than that only expected later from people who've mastered these
    initial stages and can then repeat them at will and on demand; it's those
    peeps who are gonna be the real experts at mapping/pushing the envelope
    beyond that...

    basically, all i've really done, is to rescue WILDs from the background
    noise and stand them on their own away from the influence of other ideas, including as seen/viewed from the dilds pov which so far has otherwise
    defined everything et-al to do with lucid dreaming, thus urging peeps to
    start over with WILDs as being something that stands on its own and to explore/probe things from there with no preconceptions and/or agendas to
    cloud their view, and to evaluate accordingly...

    WILDs exist + the method obviously works, and that's actually enough for
    moi :)

    plus have never claimed it's the only method, only that it's a simple & straightforward approach that works, one that begs certain questions
    'because' it works so readily!

    am otherwise very pleased with the 'results' so far as being proof-enough
    of concept, and it'll likely go on by itself from there to wherever it's
    going and/or ends up...

    so bon voyage little one! (kiss kiss!) :)

    ***

    have cast my crusts (of bread) out upon the waters...

    and so far the ducks seem quite delighted! :)

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, August 19, 2018 13:57:41
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    I didn't say it needed to be an 'academic theory'. You're unqualified
    to create one anyway. *Any* coherent theory of how it fits would do.
    But Slighter, don't worry about it; I knew you had none all along. :)

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to david.j.worrell@gmail.com on Monday, August 20, 2018 08:52:13
    From: slider@anashram.com

    On Sun, 19 Aug 2018 21:57:41 +0100, Jeremy H. Denisovan <david.j.worrell@gmail.com> wrote:

    I didn't say it needed to be an 'academic theory'. You're unqualified
    to create one anyway. *Any* coherent theory of how it fits would do.

    ### - smile, it's a 'non-academic' minimum masters-level
    dissertation/essay, that ends with:

    "Is there a philosophy to lucid dreaming? Is there something, a meaning
    behind it all? There undoubtedly is, albeit currently hidden from view,
    and discovering, unravelling and understanding that philosophy is
    obviously going to take time and experience, not because it’s particularly difficult but because it’s a whole new field of endeavour containing as
    yet unrealised reference points. The implications and ramifications of
    this hypothesis, I’m waging, could well be far-reaching, if not immense,
    in terms of obtaining a greater understanding of ourselves and the nature
    of the world around us." --closing lines from: The WILD Way To Lucid
    Dreaming, by slider...

    the whole thing's an hypothesis, so you'll just have to take it out of
    that heh...

    besides which, i don't see you actually doing/offering anything better?

    so then either put up or shut up innit hehehe...

    have done 'my' bit... what have 'you' accomplished lately that's even
    remotely similar? nada.

    am perfectly happy with it, it's getting rave reviews + have also sold
    another 14 copies just this month alone bringing total sales of it to now
    206 currently :)

    let's just see ya getting anywhere even 'near' beating that on
    word-of-mouth alone??

    you can't & you wont because you've basically got 'nada' original to even say/offer...

    heh :D happy days!

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  • From feewilly@1:229/2 to All on Monday, August 20, 2018 08:05:36
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    some jockey won 7 races at Del Mar.
    Set some of record, but i didn't bet
    any race on him. (fuck i should have).
    i lost the first six races and then
    in the 7th race i caught a long shot
    that paid well. All in all for the day
    we broke even. Took all our money
    home that we brought. Sat in the son
    at these tables near the rail and bar-b-qued
    our faces. Can't wait to go back. Maybe
    Sept 1 for the next race for the horse we
    know. We'll see as Trumpy would say.

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to slider on Monday, August 20, 2018 11:55:11
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    On Monday, August 20, 2018 at 12:52:16 AM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    On Sun, 19 Aug 2018 21:57:41 +0100, Jeremy H. Denisovan
    wrote:

    I didn't say it needed to be an 'academic theory'. You're unqualified
    to create one anyway. *Any* coherent theory of how it fits would do.

    ### - smile, it's a 'non-academic' minimum masters-level dissertation/essay, that ends with:

    "Is there a philosophy to lucid dreaming? Is there something, a meaning behind it all? There undoubtedly is, albeit currently hidden from view,
    and discovering, unravelling and understanding that philosophy is
    obviously going to take time and experience, not because it’s particularly

    difficult but because it’s a whole new field of endeavour containing as yet unrealised reference points. The implications and ramifications of
    this hypothesis, I’m waging, could well be far-reaching, if not immense, in terms of obtaining a greater understanding of ourselves and the nature of the world around us." --closing lines from: The WILD Way To Lucid Dreaming, by slider...

    the whole thing's an hypothesis, so you'll just have to take it out of
    that heh...

    Even you should know me better by now. When I first came to adc
    in 1995, I was already talking about dreaming. In fact, I was talking
    about it more than anyone else here and even in those early days,
    I was speaking of practices I'd already been actively involved in
    for over a decade.

    So it shouldn't be hard to see how involved I was in the subject,
    nor the least bit surprising given that depth of concern that I
    might have demanding standards for how the subject is understood.
    You also know of my long-term interest in scientific approaches,
    so it couldn't be surprising that I'd prefer a standard of more
    'rigorous' thinking.

    Given all that, how can you imagine some speculative remark
    like the one you make above could be remotely satisfying to...
    mwah? :) Of course not, right? LOL. It's not even personal.
    I would have been critical with ANYONE doing that. Do you not
    realize that??

    Now I'll analyze your paragraph above since you offered it.
    First, I think you meant to say "wagering" rather than "waging".
    Yet that little slip is revealing, for you have long behaved
    as one "waging a battle" over what by your own admission is only a "hypothesis". And that's been reflective of your entire attitude,
    which hasn't been one of "let's wait and see"; rather, it has
    continually been more like: "THIS certainly stands alone and it
    is incomparable with all that has come before! And if you differ
    then you must be cut to the ground, for you have done NOTHING
    unless you have done THIS in the same way I have."

    You've openly stated as much to me here on many occasions.
    And that bias is evident in the single paragraph you quoted,
    albeit not as aggressively. You say that there "undoubtedly is"
    (some meaning behind it all) yet in the same paragraph note
    that this presumed "meaning" is "hidden from view".

    Yet if "the meaning" (and could anything be more vague?) is truly
    "hidden" then how does it "undoubtedly" exist?

    This, I suppose, is the 'bet' you'd like to make, and I'm to decide
    if I'll take it? Yet obviously, there's no way I could, because
    nothing specific has been said, and what was said is contradictory.

    Now, do I think you should just make up some 'theory'? Hell no.
    I totally prefer honest ignorance over someone pretending to know.
    Yet in spite of making no specific claims, you DO pretend to know.

    There are lots of "philosophies" of WILD out there. I just pointed
    you to Donald J. DeGracia. He believes that when he is WILDing he's
    accessing other "planes" of existence, such as the "astral plane"
    or the "Buddha plane". He even believes in this "Buddha plane"
    in spite of how he even admits he himself has never accessed it.
    And he IS an academic researcher. :0

    But when I ask for a 'theory', I'm really asking: where does this
    FIT with all the verified knowledge we already have on LD?
    And in that regard, Slider, you offered... nothing. Even worse,
    you've basically utterly dismissed every single thing anyone else
    (including me) has ever done that wasn't WILD, which isn't even
    your own term, it's LaBerge's. So, in my opinion, your arrogance
    on that matter has been nothing short of absolutely stunning.

    The bibliography in the back of your book includes a grand total
    of four other works on lucid dreaming, two of which are by LaBerge.
    That's it. So, dude, I may not have written a book on lucid dreaming
    but at least I've READ a lot more books than that about it. :)

    Here's one I just pulled off my shelf at random that I'll quote
    for you, "Lucid Dreaming" by Celia Green and Charle's McCrury,
    from their section on "Philosophical Attitudes", where they speak
    of one "long-term possible effect of lucid dreaming that is
    sometimes suggested is that the habitual lucid dreamer might lose
    interest in the normal concerns of everyday life because of his or
    her preoccupation with the absorbing internal events of the dream
    life. We do not ourselves know of anyone to whom this has happened..."

    Well, I know of someone to whom this has happened. LOL. :)

    Before you dismiss her out of hand as you do anyone and everyone
    else on earth, consider that she's also saying a lot of other
    interesting things, such as commenting on how the subject of LD has
    "received a certain amount of recognition in the East". That's true,
    and if I'd written a book on LD, I'd have felt obligated to research
    the eastern writings on it. You do not have even one such source
    in your little "bibliography".

    Green speaks of how lucid dreams can "rival the waking world in
    perceptual precision and clarity" and even questions "how good
    a claim to superior reality our waking life actually has" (all while
    making no distinction between WILD and DILD). She devotes an entire
    chapter to False Awakenings and Sleep Paralysis.

    Green was the Director of Psychophysical Research at Oxford (which
    was actually a charity), and she wrote her first book 'Lucid Dreams'
    in 1968. In the book I just quoted from, her bibliography is 5 pages
    and references over 150 other works, including 10 works by LaBerge.
    That's an example of a more serious author's approach.

    But okay, I know you're not a 'serious author'. :) And you don't
    have to be one either. You can write anything you please. It's fine.
    I DO think it's an accomplishment to publish a book of your own.
    Good for you and well done! Just don't utterly dismiss everyone else
    on earth over it, like some crappy wannabe cult leader. :)


    besides which, i don't see you actually doing/offering anything better?

    You've worked hard at being a jerk to me for many years on purpose.
    I must seem incredibly threatening to you; that's all I can say. :)
    But it says a lot more about you than it does about me.


    so then either put up or shut up innit hehehe...

    have done 'my' bit... what have 'you' accomplished lately that's even remotely similar? nada.

    am perfectly happy with it, it's getting rave reviews + have also sold another 14 copies just this month alone bringing total sales of it to now 206 currently :)

    let's just see ya getting anywhere even 'near' beating that on word-of-mouth alone??

    Hmm. You act like you think you're in competition with me. I'd just
    urge you to shoot a bit 'higher' than to make your endeavors in life
    about competing with me (or anyone else). And yet, there are certain
    standards one ought to adhere to. No, I haven't written a book, but
    if I did write on any factual subject it would require making a
    greater effort because my standards would require documenting
    everything in the area under consideration (like Green does).

    However, I'm glad you're happy with what you've done. I just happen
    to be the kind of person who couldn't be satisfied with it. So it'd
    be nice if you could see that you're not the only person on earth
    and recognize that others have different standards than you do.

    And I know you're not completely stupid. It doesn't take a math major
    to get that if I have 4 DILDs in the last 2 months and some other
    guy has 2 DILDs and 1 WILD, then how is he better at lucid dreaming?
    4 > 3. You can't claim he "does it on demand" until he can at least
    do LD more often than I do. :) Right? That's a very simple point.

    And your 'mysticism' about the 'midway point' doesn't impress me.
    I don't believe it results in any kind of "super awareness",
    though it might seem like it at the time. I experienced it too.
    Mostly during those "false awakening initiated" LD experiences
    I mentioned which were probably highly similar to WILDs.

    (If they were initiated during "micro-awakenings" then they were
    technically WILDs. A sleep lab could verify that eventually.)

    The last few pieces I've written on dreaming lately have been
    entirely whimsical and were created to serve multiple purposes.
    Five Minutes Before Noontide:
    http://tinyurl.com/ybjtkuka


    you can't & you wont because you've basically got 'nada' original to even say/offer...

    The way you insult and dismiss anyone who differs from your views
    gives away the real you.


    heh :D happy days!

    I'd continue to encourage you to step outside the box.
    Just because you wrote a book on lucid dreaming doesn't mean
    you must be 'married' to those ideas and practices to your grave.

    My take, one more time, call it take 37:
    There's a gargantuan real world around us. One we all share.
    Yet when dreaming, in that real world, I'm just lying there
    by myself with my eyes closed in my own private virtual world.
    That's it. That's all I can ever DO while dreaming. In the real
    world I'm doing essentially nothing and anything that I am doing
    virtually is really only about ME.

    Dreaming can be amazing, enjoyable, even meaningful, but...
    it's still just a personal activity. That is its main limitation.
    Life is much bigger.

    .

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  • From feewilly@1:229/2 to slider on Monday, August 20, 2018 12:32:43
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    On Monday, August 20, 2018 at 12:19:39 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    some jockey won 7 races at Del Mar.
    Set some of record, but i didn't bet
    any race on him. (fuck i should have).

    ### - imagine just a 1-buck accumulator bet on that little lot eh?

    (first win goes onto the second which goes onto the third etc etc 7 times heh)

    yeah i was telling this to my wife this morning.
    i will get the payouts of this guy and compute
    what a two dollar bet would turn in to on a parlay ride.
    let me get my calculator out and figure this. be back
    in a while.

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Monday, August 20, 2018 20:19:36
    From: slider@anashram.com

    some jockey won 7 races at Del Mar.
    Set some of record, but i didn't bet
    any race on him. (fuck i should have).

    ### - imagine just a 1-buck accumulator bet on that little lot eh?

    (first win goes onto the second which goes onto the third etc etc 7 times
    heh)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Monday, August 20, 2018 20:56:46
    From: slider@anashram.org

    some jockey won 7 races at Del Mar.
    Set some of record, but i didn't bet
    any race on him. (fuck i should have).

    ### - imagine just a 1-buck accumulator bet on that little lot eh?

    (first win goes onto the second which goes onto the third etc etc 7
    times
    heh)

    yeah i was telling this to my wife this morning.
    i will get the payouts of this guy and compute
    what a two dollar bet would turn in to on a parlay ride.
    let me get my calculator out and figure this. be back
    in a while.

    ### - don't forget to include the 'stake' too by adding 1 to the odds each
    time because ya also get back your stake whenever it wins

    e.g., a 4 to 1 win thus becomes a 5 to one win when it includes the stake, which all then also goes onto the next win too... (the easiest way to accurately factor all that in is to just add a 1 to any win-odds and
    calculate it all that way...)

    something that wins at 16/1, for instance, actually 'pays' 17/1 because it includes getting your original stake back too, so ya have to carry it
    forward :)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, August 21, 2018 21:48:16
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - just in case i 'may' have doubted anything; the universe then comes
    back at me with this :)

    Charlie: (today)
    Now I remember why it took me so long to read this book. Something in me
    must have known the end would indeed be the sweetest, most refreshing
    piece of work I’ve ever read in my life on this planet.

    So for over a year I read a little here and a little there, only to be
    blown back after gently closing the last page. My name is Charlie, and, I
    have read more than six books concerning the intricacies of lucid dreaming (Journey to Ixtalan, The Art of Dreaming, Lucid Dreaming Plain & Simple,
    A Field Guide to Lucid Dreaming, The Tibetan Yogas of Dream and Sleep &
    The WILD Way to Lucid Dreaming), and, to this day, have yet to see one
    with the switch-blade accuracy it includes.

    This book is no less than a revolutionary piece of art. With everything concerning debate stripped away to leave only the exact process so as to
    keep the reader from jumping to conclusions about this or that, The WILD
    Way To Lucid Dreaming TRULY is the most practical of all guides created.

    ***

    alright alright fuck me, that's enough! i submit haha! :D

    damn, it's almost enough to make me blush?

    + says he's gonna write some of the the above on amazon US as a review
    (cool)

    cheers universe for reminding me that not 'everyone' i've cast my pearl(s) before is/was a swine?

    ahahaha :)

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to slider on Tuesday, August 21, 2018 15:00:15
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    On Tuesday, August 21, 2018 at 1:48:19 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    ### - just in case i 'may' have doubted anything; the universe then comes back at me with this :)

    Yeah, I'm sure the universe is really concerned.


    Charlie: (today)
    Now I remember why it took me so long to read this book. Something in me must have known the end would indeed be the sweetest, most refreshing
    piece of work I’ve ever read in my life on this planet.

    So for over a year I read a little here and a little there, only to be blown back after gently closing the last page. My name is Charlie, and, I have read more than six books concerning the intricacies of lucid dreaming (Journey to Ixtalan, The Art of Dreaming, Lucid Dreaming Plain & Simple,
    A Field Guide to Lucid Dreaming, The Tibetan Yogas of Dream and Sleep &
    The WILD Way to Lucid Dreaming), and, to this day, have yet to see one
    with the switch-blade accuracy it includes.

    This book is no less than a revolutionary piece of art. With everything concerning debate stripped away to leave only the exact process so as to keep the reader from jumping to conclusions about this or that, The WILD Way To Lucid Dreaming TRULY is the most practical of all guides created.

    ***

    alright alright fuck me, that's enough! i submit haha! :D

    damn, it's almost enough to make me blush?

    + says he's gonna write some of the the above on amazon US as a review (cool)

    cheers universe for reminding me that not 'everyone' i've cast my pearl(s) before is/was a swine?

    ahahaha :)

    Well good, it's about time a few people who like it reviewed it.
    Geez, I mean, tens of thousands of people liked Scientology, right?
    (Dianetics by Hubbard, on US Amazon - 4.1 stars w/ 933 reviews.)

    There are still only 4 reviews of your book on US Amazon,
    and mine seems the most relied on. It says under my review:
    "17 people found this helpful". I honestly never thought mine
    would be the most prominent (though admittedly, it's accurate). :)

    The next closest review in popularity is a 1-star review entitled
    "Not Recommended"... where it says "6 people found this helpful."
    I think that one's unfair, though. Your book isn't that bad,
    although the reviewer's written critique is essentially correct.

    He says:
    "the author sets you up to fail by giving you a technique that is
    unlikely to work, tells you how easy it is and then criticizes a
    much easier and more widely practiced method of lucid dreaming...
    This technique might have better odds of working if the author
    instructed you to attempt WILDs at a time of night when you are
    in REM sleep which is after 4-6 hours of sleep. He instead implies
    you can do this right at bed and it will work. This is highly
    unlikely... I think he found a technique that works for him (maybe)
    and so makes the false assumption that it is the best method and
    will be easy for everyone else."

    A just criticism. While your method itself is good, most people
    won't get it to work right when they first lie down to sleep.
    Better to use WBTB. But a one-star review is far too harsh.

    I also agree with your positive reviewer above on one thing.
    The simplicity of your stripped-down method is far better than a
    lot of metaphysical whoopla any day. But are we going to have to
    hear about it every single time anybody buys or likes it? :)

    You know, back when Amy Wallace was around if I'd done that I'd
    have had to make tens of thousands of posts here about it. Right?
    So could you maybe tell us like every 100 sales or something?

    .

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to slider on Tuesday, August 21, 2018 15:30:06
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    On Tuesday, August 21, 2018 at 3:13:44 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    So could you maybe tell us like every 100 sales or something?

    ### - oh alright then if it really bugs ya 'that' much hehehe... ;)

    but ONLY if you'll do the same re trump?

    deal?

    I know it may be hard for you to see this, but Trump is
    really much more important than who learns lucid dreaming.
    And it doesn't bug me much. Just giving you a little shit. :)

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, August 21, 2018 23:13:40
    From: slider@anashram.org

    So could you maybe tell us like every 100 sales or something?

    ### - oh alright then if it really bugs ya 'that' much hehehe... ;)

    but ONLY if you'll do the same re trump?

    deal?

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, August 21, 2018 23:57:35
    From: slider@anashram.com

    So could you maybe tell us like every 100 sales or something?

    ### - oh alright then if it really bugs ya 'that' much hehehe... ;)

    but ONLY if you'll do the same re trump?

    deal?

    I know it may be hard for you to see this, but Trump is
    really much more important than who learns lucid dreaming.

    ### - 'he' wont be around forever, whereas LDing's gonna be around for the foreseeable future!

    you missed a good offer! :)



    And it doesn't bug me much. Just giving you a little shit. :)

    ### - yeah that's just what the worlds needs right now innit: 'more' shit??

    does seem to be what you're best at though, i'll give ya that hehehe...

    loves 'shit' ahaha...

    (in my best terry thomas voice...) you absolute 'swine' :)

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to slider on Wednesday, August 22, 2018 08:24:27
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    On Tuesday, August 21, 2018 at 3:57:39 PM UTC-7, slider wrote:
    So could you maybe tell us like every 100 sales or something?

    ### - oh alright then if it really bugs ya 'that' much hehehe... ;)

    but ONLY if you'll do the same re trump?

    deal?

    I know it may be hard for you to see this, but Trump is
    really much more important than who learns lucid dreaming.

    ### - 'he' wont be around forever, whereas LDing's gonna be around for the foreseeable future!

    you missed a good offer! :)



    And it doesn't bug me much. Just giving you a little shit. :)

    ### - yeah that's just what the worlds needs right now innit: 'more' shit??

    does seem to be what you're best at though, i'll give ya that hehehe...

    loves 'shit' ahaha...

    (in my best terry thomas voice...) you absolute 'swine' :)

    The keyword was 'little'. You've given me a LOT. :)
    And I don't think I've missed anything when it comes to LD.

    .

    --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05
    * Origin: www.darkrealms.ca (1:229/2)
  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Monday, October 22, 2018 16:27:33
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - Great compliment on facebook today re WILDs & WILDing from an
    experienced dreamer:

    Kristopher Kelley: I just finished reading Brian‘s book and had to laugh. I’ve been WILDing for many years now. I DILD at night and WILD during the
    day for naps and such. I never thought of the ‘process’ I went through during the day to enter Dreaming. Brian just explained it! LOL! I hope he
    gets rich and famous off his book! Good work!

    ***

    rich & famous eh? moi?? thaaat'll beee the daaay! hehehe + i should 'live'
    so long!

    but'cha just never know innit ;)

    --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05
    * Origin: www.darkrealms.ca (1:229/2)
  • From LowRider44M@1:229/2 to slider on Sunday, February 17, 2019 13:30:18
    From: intraphase@gmail.com

    On Wednesday, June 27, 2018 at 5:32:00 PM UTC-4, slider wrote:
    ### - just found this posted in ref. to 'The WILD Way' in another group on fb, by a nice young lady who's only just joined our WILDs & WILDing group, and with spectacular results! :)

    Mia: I've had a wonderful success with this method and can't sing its
    praises high enough. 11 wilds now in only 3 weeks or thereabouts from only ever reading about lucid dreaming before. If someone hadn't recommended
    this book to me I would probably be still wondering what the heck is going on, as I was having some weird experiences on going to bed and didn't
    realise what it was.

    This book not only cleared that all up, but has also opened up a whole new world of being to me just like that! Plus I've never felt so good in
    myself either? I feel really healthy and there's a spring in my step that just wasn't there before! I 'love' this experience and can't recommend it enough. xx

    ***

    so you see chris, they 'can' get it! - and love it!

    where they 'go' with it all, however, might just be another matter
    altogether haha :)

    (oooh look! i've learned to lucid dream with my head up my ass again!)

    wouldn't surprise me in the least hehehe :)

    If you were going to boil down the recipe-technique
    as in DILD For Dummies, what would I do.

    I had some vague occular imagery with closed eyes and
    I tried spinning it as I moved forward into it to mixed results.

    Yesterday I was forced to wake up early for important tasks.
    Couldn't believe the complexity and color and mobility in scenario.
    I just don't seem to remember jack squat by the time I wake up.

    What's a basic tip for WILD.

    --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05
    * Origin: www.darkrealms.ca (1:229/2)
  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Sunday, February 17, 2019 22:30:11
    From: slider@atashram.com

    LowRider wrote...

    ### - just found this posted in ref. to 'The WILD Way' in another group
    on
    fb, by a nice young lady who's only just joined our WILDs & WILDing
    group,
    and with spectacular results! :)

    Mia: I've had a wonderful success with this method and can't sing its
    praises high enough. 11 wilds now in only 3 weeks or thereabouts from
    only
    ever reading about lucid dreaming before. If someone hadn't recommended
    this book to me I would probably be still wondering what the heck is
    going
    on, as I was having some weird experiences on going to bed and didn't
    realise what it was.

    This book not only cleared that all up, but has also opened up a whole
    new
    world of being to me just like that! Plus I've never felt so good in
    myself either? I feel really healthy and there's a spring in my step
    that
    just wasn't there before! I 'love' this experience and can't recommend
    it
    enough. xx

    ***

    If you were going to boil down the recipe-technique
    as in DILD For Dummies, what would I do.

    I had some vague occular imagery with closed eyes and
    I tried spinning it as I moved forward into it to mixed results.

    Yesterday I was forced to wake up early for important tasks.
    Couldn't believe the complexity and color and mobility in scenario.
    I just don't seem to remember jack squat by the time I wake up.

    What's a basic tip for WILD.

    ### - to simply wait in conscious expectation/anticipation of first seeing
    some of this hypnagogic imagery, the clearer/sharper the better, and to
    then quite deliberately attempt to examine some of it's finer detail...
    that this very act of shifting/changing focus from gazing at (and through)
    such imagery to actually examining some of it being the very thing that
    then pull/zooms us into a full WILD (a sensation of rushing forward into
    it)

    and that's really all there is to the whole thing! :)

    The 'best' practice by far (iow: the 'full' practice) being to learn to
    arrive at seeing this imagery from the starting point of being fully awake
    in the daily world, iow: at one's normal bedtimes rather than deliberately waking up in the night (wbtb) and/or until one has in fact just awoken
    from a whole night of sleep... that although both those methods work just fine, more is learned/gleaned from being able to shift from full waking to
    full WILDing, something that's fairly easily accomplished just by
    deliberately relaxing for a few minutes after first laying down, one isn't aiming for complete relaxation and only for a similar state to that of
    having woken during the night and/or after waking after a full night's
    sleep, something that's fairly easy to achieve when first going to bed
    because our already ingrained routine is to do just that anyway albeit
    usually completely unconsciously...

    20 minutes or so of mildly relaxing using one's breathing to relax the
    body is child's play especially after a little practice at it, most total newbies taking around about a week to reach this relaxed-enough stage, something that reveals itself as the body feeling slightly different,
    floaty or lite, and/or slightly tingly or even enlarged in parts,
    particularly in the hands and forearms which feel like they've expanded
    (one guy describing his hands as feeling like grapefruits, another lady described her whole body as feeling like a blob etc) that once this bodily change is noted it's then time to begin looking for said imagery and about forgetting the body altogether...

    as you've already seen such imagery you already now know what you're
    looking for, it doesn't have to go as far as whole scenic views and movies
    as such as even a single static image will do (any clear image in fact)
    and then it's only a matter of trial & effort in examining that imagery (a
    few days maybe) in such a way so as to trigger a WILD...

    so only 3 steps/stages then:

    1, when starting from scratch; keeping 'perfectly still' and relaxing the
    body till it feels slightly different (something that can, of course, be obviated by waking in the night or early morning when one is already
    relaxed enough, only i consider this to be rather lazy as it's ultimately better to learn to initiate each & every stage and thus be fully conscious
    of each and every stage personally + quite deliberately...)

    2, having now reached a slightly altered state of awareness whereby the
    body feels noticeably different in some way as described, and still not
    having moved even an inch, pulling one's now fully gathered attention
    (gathered by deliberately relaxing i mean) onto the hypnagogia itself,
    which at this point often only starts-off with the odd splash of colour
    and floating blobs, but which clears up marvelously over the next few
    minutes and the longer one stares at it/through it... the point here being
    to keep one's eyes perfectly still too and thus only really look at the
    ones that appear in one's direct line of sight, slight movement of the
    eyes at this early point having the effect of making it all disappear
    again...

    3, once some very clear and sharp images show up; deliberately then making
    an attempt to examine some of it's finer details... iow: one shifts one's
    focus from gazing at/through them to actually examining them/looking right
    at them, and it's this last that triggers the WILD...

    most of the beginner-difficulties so far have all been along the lines of getting to actually see some hypnagogia in the first place and then that
    of keeping their eyes still and not chasing after them, and then the last
    bit of examining some of their details in the right way so as to get pulled/zoomed-in by them...

    only the relaxing part is tricky but can be easily achieved by more or
    less just about any method of deliberately relaxing, the one i recommend
    is thus:


    For the first I’d initially suggest getting yourself into bed and lying
    down on your left side with your knees together and your legs slightly
    bent. Give your body a little time to adjust to the exertion involved of getting into bed and settling down into a comfortable position. Just lie
    there for a few minutes in the dark until your breathing and heart-rate gradually slow down to a steady rhythm.

    After about five minutes, when your breathing has settled right down and
    has become steady and regular, deliberately take a long, deep breath by breathing slowly in through your nose until no more air can get in. Don’t force anything or cork your throat by letting go and relaxing your chest
    once fully inflated. Keep your throat held open and hold that breath for
    about four or five seconds or so and then let it out again very slowly
    through the mouth while at the same time trying to feel any residual
    tension in your muscles draining out of your body and sinking down through
    the bed and into the floor. Make a conscious attempt as you breathe out to
    feel your whole body becoming even more relaxed than it was before, as
    though it was sinking down into the bed. Aim via these breaths to let your
    body become so relaxed that if anyone were at one point to lift one of
    your arms and let it go again, the arm would just flop right back to where
    it was under its own weight without any help from you. Do this long breath
    just the once and then let your body return to breathing again under its
    own steam. Spend a few moments breathing normally, just letting your body breathe as it may, and then, after a little while, deliberately take
    another long slow breath in through your nose feeling your whole body
    tense up slightly as you control the intake of air, letting your lungs
    fill up as much as they can without forcing anything, again holding that
    breath when it reaches the top by maintaining the ever so slight pressure
    of breathing in (i.e. by not corking your throat in order to hold it
    locked in) for another count of four or five seconds before slowly letting
    that breath out through your mouth while at the same time deliberately
    letting go of your body as though you were weightless. When all the air is naturally out (again without forcing anything) let your body return to its usual way of breathing for a couple of minutes or so, noting how much more
    your body feels relaxed each time.

    Repeat this exercise several times over the course of the next few minutes
    and you’ll probably be surprised at just how tense you actually were, even though your body felt completely relaxed before. A good example of this is around the head, neck and shoulders area which seems to sink ever deeper
    than before into the pillow each time you do the long breath out. Try to
    detect any residual muscle tension from your body sink down into the bed
    and floor as a mild sensation similar to that of going down in an
    elevator. Pay particular attention to these areas of the head, neck and shoulders, working through them in sequence if necessary until they all
    feel completely relaxed and as sunken into your pillow as they’re likely
    to get.

    Keep this up for about ten to twenty minutes in total, alternating between normal breathing and the occasional long controlled one and/or until you experience a sensation of feeling like a complete dead weight, trying each
    time to aim for that feeling of being so relaxed that if someone were to
    lift your arm and let it go again it would just flop back to your side.

    You may also feel at this point a very slight overall tingling sensation,
    a kind of spreading numbness in your limbs, and also notice that your
    breathing is now beginning to be composed of slow, far slighter breaths
    coming more from the lower part of your abdomen (belly breaths). This is perfect. Don’t try to force this situation to come about, let it occur naturally through using your breathing to release muscle tension. This is precisely the easy state of mental and physical relaxation one is aiming
    for in order to begin trying to lucid dream, and this feeling of bodily lightness or largeness coupled with belly breaths confirms it.

    The second method consists of doing exactly the same breathing exercises
    for a few moments to get started, but this time systematically working all
    the way up from your toes to the top of your head, gradually releasing all bodily tension from each area down through the bed and into the ground as
    you go. Again, spending at least fifteen to twenty minutes or so on this,
    the time it takes to reach a state of relaxation gradually becoming
    shorter with each session as your ability to relax at will progresses.
    Don’t worry if it takes longer in the initial stages, you are learning to consciously relax your body and it takes a little practice. You may have
    to try for forty minutes the first few times to reach and recognise this
    state of being but, rest assured, you’ll quickly get it all down
    to under twenty minutes or so with familiarity and practice. In the
    meantime, just enjoy it for what it is; the setting out upon a new
    adventure. Don’t rush things. Enjoy every part and stage of it!
    In order later to reach a state of lucid dreaming, it’s also very
    important during these relaxation exercises not to move or change your
    body position or posture at all, particularly during the last few minutes
    of doing them. During the first few minutes get yourself into a
    comfortable enough position and try to maintain it and to also perfect
    that position by tweaking it minutely here and there until you don’t need
    to settle down or move anymore. After that don’t even move an inch.
    The end result of relaxing without moving like this is eventually to
    achieve a mild sensation of floating, or of the body having slightly
    expanded in some way. At this point the hands will possibly sometimes feel
    kind of puffy or enlarged. Other times it’s as though one can no longer
    tell the exact proportion or size of bodily areas you happen to focus on.

    Once you’ve reached this floating feeling of relaxation, the next step is
    to absolutely and deliberately turn your attention completely 'away' from
    all and any sensations of the body altogether, totally ignoring them.
    Having served their purpose they are no longer important. Peer instead at
    the blank dark screen you can see just behind your closed eyes. Don’t move
    at all and hang on to that feeling of lightness or floating and stare at
    the darkness that’s right there in front of your face until you begin to notice the odd blob or streak of colour appearing and disappearing at
    random. Your body may feel a little strange at this point but just totally ignore it (or any other sensations) by deliberately placing and holding
    your full attention ‘only’ on what your eyes can see.

    At this point, consciously adjust your focus so it’s as though you are looking at an area about ten to fifteen inches away from your face. Keep
    your eyes closed and let any blobs and splashes of colour come and go as
    they please. Don’t attempt to control these effects in any way, just keep watching for them by staring straight ahead until you perhaps notice the appearance of an image of some kind. This is the next stage.

    The following images can be rather faint and fleeting (fast), not really
    giving you the time to focus on them properly, but that’s okay, don’t
    worry about it, just let them come and go as they please and wait for the
    next one to appear. Having already made yourself relax you shouldn’t be thinking about your body or your breathing at all by having deliberately
    forced your attention away from them onto only what your closed eyes can
    see. Don’t try to do anything other than watch those images come and go,
    the same way as those blobs and streaks of colour did, especially since at
    this point you are nearly ready to attempt entering into a dreaming state.

    The only problem you may initially encounter at this stage is that of accidentally drifting right off into a deep sleep, and this is something that’s quite likely to happen repeatedly until you learn to recognise this
    as being a distinct possibility. After all, every night for the duration
    of our lives to date, we’ve always piled into bed with the express expectation of getting off to sleep as quickly as possible. We never know,
    or even remember, just exactly how (or when) we actually drifted off, but usually just lie there kind of relaxing and getting comfortable while
    waiting to be somehow snatched away.

    It’s a ritual we’ve all unconsciously learned to perform since before we were born. One feels kind of drowsy and the eyes close while not really thinking of anything in particular, and before you know it we’ve gone off
    to sleep without even realising it. Suddenly it’s the next day, something we’re all totally expert at doing by now because we’ve been doing it all our lives. So anyway, keep going like this, lightly gazing at fleeting
    images while trying not to accidentally nod off completely, until a really clear image shows up, sometimes shockingly so! Next, do your best to let
    your eyes examine some of that image’s details.


    [continued in next message]

    --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05
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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, February 19, 2019 07:03:49
    From: slider@anashram.com

    ### - fact is: once one can see 'any' image that person is ready to WILD...

    in reality it's really only about 'how' one looks at/examines them

    so only a little practice/experimentation is required...

    enjoy :)

    --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05
    * Origin: www.darkrealms.ca (1:229/2)
  • From LowRider44M@1:229/2 to slider on Monday, February 18, 2019 21:31:06
    From: intraphase@gmail.com

    On Sunday, February 17, 2019 at 4:30:28 PM UTC-5, slider wrote:
    LowRider wrote...

    ### - just found this posted in ref. to 'The WILD Way' in another group >> on
    fb, by a nice young lady who's only just joined our WILDs & WILDing
    group,
    and with spectacular results! :)

    Mia: I've had a wonderful success with this method and can't sing its
    praises high enough. 11 wilds now in only 3 weeks or thereabouts from
    only
    ever reading about lucid dreaming before. If someone hadn't recommended
    this book to me I would probably be still wondering what the heck is
    going
    on, as I was having some weird experiences on going to bed and didn't
    realise what it was.

    This book not only cleared that all up, but has also opened up a whole >> new
    world of being to me just like that! Plus I've never felt so good in
    myself either? I feel really healthy and there's a spring in my step
    that
    just wasn't there before! I 'love' this experience and can't recommend >> it
    enough. xx

    ***

    If you were going to boil down the recipe-technique
    as in DILD For Dummies, what would I do.

    I had some vague occular imagery with closed eyes and
    I tried spinning it as I moved forward into it to mixed results.

    Yesterday I was forced to wake up early for important tasks.
    Couldn't believe the complexity and color and mobility in scenario.
    I just don't seem to remember jack squat by the time I wake up.

    What's a basic tip for WILD.

    ### - to simply wait in conscious expectation/anticipation of first seeing some of this hypnagogic imagery, the clearer/sharper the better, and to then quite deliberately attempt to examine some of it's finer detail... that this very act of shifting/changing focus from gazing at (and through) such imagery to actually examining some of it being the very thing that then pull/zooms us into a full WILD (a sensation of rushing forward into it)

    and that's really all there is to the whole thing! :)

    The 'best' practice by far (iow: the 'full' practice) being to learn to arrive at seeing this imagery from the starting point of being fully awake in the daily world, iow: at one's normal bedtimes rather than deliberately waking up in the night (wbtb) and/or until one has in fact just awoken
    from a whole night of sleep... that although both those methods work just fine, more is learned/gleaned from being able to shift from full waking to full WILDing, something that's fairly easily accomplished just by deliberately relaxing for a few minutes after first laying down, one isn't aiming for complete relaxation and only for a similar state to that of having woken during the night and/or after waking after a full night's sleep, something that's fairly easy to achieve when first going to bed because our already ingrained routine is to do just that anyway albeit usually completely unconsciously...

    20 minutes or so of mildly relaxing using one's breathing to relax the
    body is child's play especially after a little practice at it, most total newbies taking around about a week to reach this relaxed-enough stage, something that reveals itself as the body feeling slightly different, floaty or lite, and/or slightly tingly or even enlarged in parts, particularly in the hands and forearms which feel like they've expanded (one guy describing his hands as feeling like grapefruits, another lady described her whole body as feeling like a blob etc) that once this bodily change is noted it's then time to begin looking for said imagery and about forgetting the body altogether...

    as you've already seen such imagery you already now know what you're looking for, it doesn't have to go as far as whole scenic views and movies as such as even a single static image will do (any clear image in fact)
    and then it's only a matter of trial & effort in examining that imagery (a few days maybe) in such a way so as to trigger a WILD...

    so only 3 steps/stages then:

    1, when starting from scratch; keeping 'perfectly still' and relaxing the body till it feels slightly different (something that can, of course, be obviated by waking in the night or early morning when one is already relaxed enough, only i consider this to be rather lazy as it's ultimately better to learn to initiate each & every stage and thus be fully conscious of each and every stage personally + quite deliberately...)

    2, having now reached a slightly altered state of awareness whereby the body feels noticeably different in some way as described, and still not having moved even an inch, pulling one's now fully gathered attention (gathered by deliberately relaxing i mean) onto the hypnagogia itself, which at this point often only starts-off with the odd splash of colour
    and floating blobs, but which clears up marvelously over the next few minutes and the longer one stares at it/through it... the point here being to keep one's eyes perfectly still too and thus only really look at the ones that appear in one's direct line of sight, slight movement of the
    eyes at this early point having the effect of making it all disappear again...

    3, once some very clear and sharp images show up; deliberately then making an attempt to examine some of it's finer details... iow: one shifts one's focus from gazing at/through them to actually examining them/looking right at them, and it's this last that triggers the WILD...

    most of the beginner-difficulties so far have all been along the lines of getting to actually see some hypnagogia in the first place and then that
    of keeping their eyes still and not chasing after them, and then the last bit of examining some of their details in the right way so as to get pulled/zoomed-in by them...

    only the relaxing part is tricky but can be easily achieved by more or
    less just about any method of deliberately relaxing, the one i recommend
    is thus:


    For the first I’d initially suggest getting yourself into bed and lying down on your left side with your knees together and your legs slightly bent. Give your body a little time to adjust to the exertion involved of getting into bed and settling down into a comfortable position. Just lie there for a few minutes in the dark until your breathing and heart-rate gradually slow down to a steady rhythm.

    After about five minutes, when your breathing has settled right down and has become steady and regular, deliberately take a long, deep breath by breathing slowly in through your nose until no more air can get in. Don’t force anything or cork your throat by letting go and relaxing your chest once fully inflated. Keep your throat held open and hold that breath for about four or five seconds or so and then let it out again very slowly through the mouth while at the same time trying to feel any residual tension in your muscles draining out of your body and sinking down through the bed and into the floor. Make a conscious attempt as you breathe out to feel your whole body becoming even more relaxed than it was before, as though it was sinking down into the bed. Aim via these breaths to let your body become so relaxed that if anyone were at one point to lift one of
    your arms and let it go again, the arm would just flop right back to where it was under its own weight without any help from you. Do this long breath just the once and then let your body return to breathing again under its own steam. Spend a few moments breathing normally, just letting your body breathe as it may, and then, after a little while, deliberately take another long slow breath in through your nose feeling your whole body
    tense up slightly as you control the intake of air, letting your lungs
    fill up as much as they can without forcing anything, again holding that breath when it reaches the top by maintaining the ever so slight pressure of breathing in (i.e. by not corking your throat in order to hold it
    locked in) for another count of four or five seconds before slowly letting that breath out through your mouth while at the same time deliberately letting go of your body as though you were weightless. When all the air is naturally out (again without forcing anything) let your body return to its usual way of breathing for a couple of minutes or so, noting how much more your body feels relaxed each time.

    Repeat this exercise several times over the course of the next few minutes and you’ll probably be surprised at just how tense you actually were, even

    though your body felt completely relaxed before. A good example of this is around the head, neck and shoulders area which seems to sink ever deeper than before into the pillow each time you do the long breath out. Try to detect any residual muscle tension from your body sink down into the bed and floor as a mild sensation similar to that of going down in an
    elevator. Pay particular attention to these areas of the head, neck and shoulders, working through them in sequence if necessary until they all feel completely relaxed and as sunken into your pillow as they’re likely to get.

    Keep this up for about ten to twenty minutes in total, alternating between normal breathing and the occasional long controlled one and/or until you experience a sensation of feeling like a complete dead weight, trying each time to aim for that feeling of being so relaxed that if someone were to lift your arm and let it go again it would just flop back to your side.

    You may also feel at this point a very slight overall tingling sensation,
    a kind of spreading numbness in your limbs, and also notice that your breathing is now beginning to be composed of slow, far slighter breaths coming more from the lower part of your abdomen (belly breaths). This is perfect. Don’t try to force this situation to come about, let it occur naturally through using your breathing to release muscle tension. This is precisely the easy state of mental and physical relaxation one is aiming for in order to begin trying to lucid dream, and this feeling of bodily lightness or largeness coupled with belly breaths confirms it.

    The second method consists of doing exactly the same breathing exercises for a few moments to get started, but this time systematically working all the way up from your toes to the top of your head, gradually releasing all bodily tension from each area down through the bed and into the ground as you go. Again, spending at least fifteen to twenty minutes or so on this, the time it takes to reach a state of relaxation gradually becoming
    shorter with each session as your ability to relax at will progresses. Don’t worry if it takes longer in the initial stages, you are learning to consciously relax your body and it takes a little practice. You may have
    to try for forty minutes the first few times to reach and recognise this state of being but, rest assured, you’ll quickly get it all down
    to under twenty minutes or so with familiarity and practice. In the meantime, just enjoy it for what it is; the setting out upon a new adventure. Don’t rush things. Enjoy every part and stage of it!
    In order later to reach a state of lucid dreaming, it’s also very important during these relaxation exercises not to move or change your
    body position or posture at all, particularly during the last few minutes of doing them. During the first few minutes get yourself into a
    comfortable enough position and try to maintain it and to also perfect
    that position by tweaking it minutely here and there until you don’t need to settle down or move anymore. After that don’t even move an inch.
    The end result of relaxing without moving like this is eventually to achieve a mild sensation of floating, or of the body having slightly expanded in some way. At this point the hands will possibly sometimes feel kind of puffy or enlarged. Other times it’s as though one can no longer tell the exact proportion or size of bodily areas you happen to focus on.

    Once you’ve reached this floating feeling of relaxation, the next step is to absolutely and deliberately turn your attention completely 'away' from all and any sensations of the body altogether, totally ignoring them. Having served their purpose they are no longer important. Peer instead at the blank dark screen you can see just behind your closed eyes. Don’t move

    at all and hang on to that feeling of lightness or floating and stare at the darkness that’s right there in front of your face until you begin to notice the odd blob or streak of colour appearing and disappearing at random. Your body may feel a little strange at this point but just totally ignore it (or any other sensations) by deliberately placing and holding your full attention ‘only’ on what your eyes can see.

    At this point, consciously adjust your focus so it’s as though you are looking at an area about ten to fifteen inches away from your face. Keep your eyes closed and let any blobs and splashes of colour come and go as they please. Don’t attempt to control these effects in any way, just keep watching for them by staring straight ahead until you perhaps notice the appearance of an image of some kind. This is the next stage.

    The following images can be rather faint and fleeting (fast), not really giving you the time to focus on them properly, but that’s okay, don’t worry about it, just let them come and go as they please and wait for the next one to appear. Having already made yourself relax you shouldn’t be thinking about your body or your breathing at all by having deliberately forced your attention away from them onto only what your closed eyes can see. Don’t try to do anything other than watch those images come and go, the same way as those blobs and streaks of colour did, especially since at this point you are nearly ready to attempt entering into a dreaming state.


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  • From paleface@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, February 19, 2019 08:34:10
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    Check out this wild Nascar crash.
    https://youtu.be/pbdiddLtDg4?t=320

    that son of a bitch in car 17 got slideways
    and i think he made it away. Lucky lucky.

    the other night/morning my daughter was on her
    way to work on the freeway and her little Mazda
    hydro-planed. she did a 360 and ended up in
    the center divider. total loss on her car.
    so what kind of car do you want this time AJ Foyt?
    she didn't hit anyone else, 6 cop cars came and
    bailed her out. Nice to have friends in the business. :)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, February 19, 2019 18:00:51
    From: slider@anashram.com

    the other night/morning my daughter was on her
    way to work on the freeway and her little Mazda
    hydro-planed. she did a 360 and ended up in
    the center divider. total loss on her car.
    so what kind of car do you want this time AJ Foyt?
    she didn't hit anyone else, 6 cop cars came and
    bailed her out. Nice to have friends in the business.

    ### - damn she had a very narrow escape there! geez...

    next car? well in this world of mad drivers & horrific accidents: some
    kinda truck!

    i.e., a second-user land rover discovery perhaps, or at the very least a
    nice solid volvo...

    why take chances!

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Friday, March 01, 2019 04:29:13
    From: slider@atashram.com

    ### - lol young charlie (my biggest book fan currently heh) not being
    quite satisfied with his previous (i thought excellent) review, saw fit to
    redo it and it really is quite good :)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8Es8LJelyY

    "mind blowing" hah ;)

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  • From pincho@1:229/2 to All on Friday, March 01, 2019 08:18:16
    From: allreadydun@gmail.com

    man you've got your west coast under assistant
    promo man for sure now. he is really sold.

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  • From brandonty715@gmail.com@1:229/2 to All on Monday, August 12, 2019 21:03:48
    - [x] Hi guys, if you’re ever in need of some psychedelics( shrooms, mescaline, dmt, acid, ayahausca, 5MEO-DMT or other relatives, don’t hesitate msg me 518-323-9863. Let me kow if you have any questions too… I got you. Thanks

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  • From LowRider44M@1:229/2 to slider on Saturday, September 28, 2019 06:58:22
    From: intraphase@gmail.com

    On Wednesday, June 27, 2018 at 5:32:00 PM UTC-4, slider wrote:
    ### - just found this posted in ref. to 'The WILD Way' in another group on fb, by a nice young lady who's only just joined our WILDs & WILDing group, and with spectacular results! :)

    Mia: I've had a wonderful success with this method and can't sing its
    praises high enough. 11 wilds now in only 3 weeks or thereabouts from only ever reading about lucid dreaming before. If someone hadn't recommended
    this book to me I would probably be still wondering what the heck is going on, as I was having some weird experiences on going to bed and didn't
    realise what it was.

    This book not only cleared that all up, but has also opened up a whole new world of being to me just like that! Plus I've never felt so good in
    myself either? I feel really healthy and there's a spring in my step that just wasn't there before! I 'love' this experience and can't recommend it enough. xx

    ***

    so you see chris, they 'can' get it! - and love it!

    where they 'go' with it all, however, might just be another matter
    altogether haha :)

    (oooh look! i've learned to lucid dream with my head up my ass again!)

    wouldn't surprise me in the least hehehe :)

    Check this out, Zapata EZ Fly. To Cool! https://twitter.com/DigitalTrends/status/1177689368645033984/video/1

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