• Re: Political Anxiety: Is It Ruining America?

    From slider@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, June 05, 2018 17:31:24
    From: slider@anashram.org

    ### - aaaand he's found it! :)

    and it's called (of all things heh...)

    WILD (2014)

    i mean, how appropriate! plus is/was totally serendipitous as was
    searching for 'hiking-something'

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tn2-GSqPyl0

    trailer

    and here, apparently, is the full movie free! albeit poor quality

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4X50NxSCPNw

    am gonna watch it again heh...

    enjoy :)

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, June 05, 2018 14:40:43
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    President Trump doubled down on his war with the Philadelphia
    Eagles on Tuesday, hosting a short celebration without the team
    as his spokeswoman accused the Super Bowl champions of turning
    their White House invitation into “a political stunt.”

    Mr. Trump, his hand over his heart, sang along as the United
    States Marine Band and the Army Chorus performed the national
    anthem on the South Lawn. In brief remarks, Mr. Trump did not
    mention the Eagles as he urged Americans to always stand for
    the anthem.

    “We love our country, we respect our flag and we always proudly
    stand for the national anthem,” Mr. Trump said. “We stand to honor
    our military and to honor our country and to remember the fallen
    heroes who never made it back home.”

    The message from the president was clear: a denunciation of
    football players who knelt during the anthem or have said they
    would stay in the locker room when it is played — even though
    none of the Eagles players did either of those things during
    their winning season.

    In tweets earlier, Mr. Trump also made his meaning crystal clear,
    saying, “NFL, no escaping to Locker Rooms!”

    And moments before the 10-minute celebration, Sarah Huckabee
    Sanders, the White House press secretary, unloaded on the Eagles,
    flatly accusing them of engaging in what she repeatedly called
    “a political stunt” by declining to attend the White House
    celebration at the last minute.

    “The Eagles are the ones that changed their commitment at the
    last minute,” Ms. Sanders said.

    Tuesday’s event was originally scheduled for the winner of the
    Super Bowl this year to be honored by the president, surrounded
    by fans. But Mr. Trump pulled the plug on the celebration on
    Monday night after receiving word that all but a few players
    were boycotting.

    In a statement, Mr. Trump abruptly disinvited the Eagles,
    accusing them of trying to make a political statement about
    the anthem.

    Officials for the team have declined to comment. Several players
    have taken issue with Mr. Trump’s assertion, saying the protests
    were about social justice and police brutality against black people,
    not any issue with the national anthem.

    ***

    That's right. The protests were about police brutality against
    blacks, not about the national anthem. Trump has simply stupidly
    started a war with the NFL.

    And now the Super Bowl champs have told him he can kiss their asses. :)

    .

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, June 05, 2018 17:10:57
    From: slider@anashram.com

    It's difficult to believe that Donald Trump has been president for nearly
    a year and half already. The left is still so caught up in the 2016
    election cycle that it's hard for many to look forward. In fact, many
    have developed what psychologists are dubbing post-election stress
    disorder.

    https://www.americanthinker.com/articles/2018/05/political_anxiety_is_it_ruining_america.html

    What Is Political Anxiety?

    According to a report from the American Psychological Association, two
    thirds of people are stressed about the future of the country, including
    60 percent of Republicans and 76 percent of Democrats. Many of these individuals claim they worry about political issues on a daily basis,
    often finding it difficult to get good sleep.

    "When people feel anxiety, they experience some combination of physical
    and psychological effects such as an inability to concentrate, fearful anticipation, elevated awareness or alertness, nausea, loss of appetite,
    and sweating. Some may even experience panic attacks," explains Logan
    Block of Sleepopolis. "Most people are able to manage anxiety when it
    does occur, and the feelings typically pass quickly. But for some people, anxiety can lead to one or more anxiety disorders."

    The problem with anxiety disorders is that they often morph and compound
    into even larger issues. Before long, the original cause of the anxiety disorder isn't even relevant anymore. Anxiety becomes such a way of life
    that anything and everything can become worrisome and fear-inducing.

    While the anxiety is real, some people take exception to the nomenclature associated with political anxiety and "post-election stress disorder." In
    an interview shortly after President Trump's inauguration, U.S. rep. Brian Mast, an Army veteran, called the correlation between actual PTSD and
    "PESD" disrespectful.

    "There's a big difference between being pissed off about things and what happens on the battlefield," Mast said. "I have empathy for the stressors
    that are in people's lives as a result of this election, but that doesn't
    mean that there's any real comparison to service members that have been targeted by snipers, that have been blown up, that have had to take the
    lives of their enemies ... there's not a comparison between the two, in my opinion."

    Mast certainly has a point, but the truth is that political anxiety – as ridiculous as it may be – is a real thing. Learning how to cope with it
    is the next big challenge we face.

    How Can Americans Cope with Political Anxiety?

    Most people do a poor job of managing their political anxiety (and anxiety
    in general). As cognitive behavioral therapist Jennifer Shannon says,
    "[w]e may try to vent our emotions by demonizing and name calling. We may check our preferred news feeds obsessively, looking for evidence that we
    are right. We may avoid listening to views not our own, or even avoid interacting with others who have different political beliefs all
    together. And of course, we worry. We lay [sic] awake at night with the
    what if's scrolling across our brains."

    None of this works, though. It might provide temporary relief, but it's
    just masking the problem or exacerbating the underlying issue. In order
    to really cope with political anxiety at a healthy and constructive level, Americans need to do the following:

    1 Embrace Reality

    It's really important that Americans understand the difference between
    actual and perceived impact of political policies and movements. While
    there are certainly situations in which a bill or mandate has a direct
    impact on your life, the reality is that almost nothing changes from day
    to day.

    Think about your life now and your life two years ago. While there are
    two totally different administrations in power, your life – at least on a political landscape – remains relatively unchanged. For all of the talk about health care, taxes, North Korea, LGBT rights, gun control, and other issues, it's unlikely that any of these issues has actually changed your
    life in a practical way. You may perceive that they have, but the honest
    truth is that very few people have actually been impacted by the political
    talk on these topics.

    This isn't to say political decisions don't have any effect on American
    life. When you look at four-, eight-, and ten-year chunks of time, you
    can definitely see progression. But to let a decision today impact your
    stress level tomorrow is shortsighted.

    2 Limit News Intake

    The second piece of advice is to limit news intake. When you understand
    that so much of the news is speculation and sensationalism, you'll realize
    that you don't have much to gain from tuning in.

    It's smart to stay in the loop on what's happening, but be selective.
    Check in once every few days to see what's going on, but don't constantly
    check your phone or religiously watch the 24-hour cable news cycle. You
    aren't missing anything.

    3 See the Good in Other People

    Finally, make it a point to see the good in other people. The vast
    majority of American voters want what's best for the country. Their idea
    of what's best might differ from yours, but don't let this breed
    contempt. See the good, learn to compromise, and always keep things in perspective.

    The Media's Responsibility

    There are numerous factors involved in the rise of political anxiety in America, but the media shoulder a large portion of the blame.

    While their elitist personalities will never allow them to admit as much,
    the members of the media have blood on their hands. They like to claim
    they're just reporting the facts and delivering the news, but the reality
    is that networks like CNN, MSNBC, Fox News, and the New York Times are in
    the business of pursuing highly politicized agendas.

    It used to be that the media reported the news. In 2018, it seems as
    though they're trying to create the news. They know that divisiveness
    sells and are set on propagating sensational stories that create anxiety
    in the general public and make them more likely to keep the TV on, share clickbait news articles, buy more papers, etc.

    The media have been creating news (rather than reporting it) for many
    years now, and the rise of Donald Trump from businessman to president
    seems to have made the situation worse. Leftist reporters, TV
    personalities, talk show hosts, and journalists are in such denial of
    what's happening on the political landscape that they're grasping for
    straws – making up news, exaggerating stories, and giving a platform to glorified gossip.

    The good news is that the democratization of news, fueled by the rise of
    social platforms, blogging, and podcasting, is finally eroding some of the power that traditional news outlets have enjoyed over the past couple of centuries. Ultimately, the hope is that this will lead to more objective, fact-based news reporting that isn't controlled by ratings.

    As the power shifts from liberal media companies and their minions to the masses (which consist of sane, logical liberals, conservatives, and
    moderates) the hope is that political anxiety will no longer rule the day.

    What actually happens remains to be seen.

    ### - there ya go jeremy: a 3-point plan to wean you off of the 'trumpy'
    that's possessing ya :)

    point 2 prolly being your best bet/spearhead here hehehe...

    turn it OFF! (lol) - STOP listening to it! (riiiight...)

    but put a STOP to it before ya REALLY go nuts??

    (a pop goes the weasel nuts? not good!)

    ***

    here's a genuine suggestion (genuine because i don't actually like seeing people suffer?)

    i.e., saw a movie last year re some woman with some kinda probs (stress
    probs?) who decided to finally get 'above' it all by taking-on some really
    long hike? (100 miles maybe!) somewhere in america, some famous
    hiking-trail (or something) and which took her about a month to complete?

    the point being: no radio's, no phones, no contact with the outside world!
    plus the clear opportunity to change all those routines by simply
    'refusing' to bring any current obsessions along with ya + that of
    refusing to adopt any new ones along the trail either! (i.e., all current 'rituals' must be deliberately left behind!)

    even make the whole thing a bit 'more' difficult by say not bringing
    anything to light fires with or open cans with either, a simple tent
    instead of something grand! total minimalism! plus a distinct brush with survival for at least a month! plus that of taking nothin' with ya except
    the bare bones of camping so it's a whole heap less than easy! (it's not a fucking vacation! lol)

    it was actually quite a good movie!

    plus will try and find it for ya...

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  • From Jeremy H. Denisovan@1:229/2 to All on Thursday, June 07, 2018 08:09:50
    From: david.j.worrell@gmail.com

    ‘I Want to Hate …’
    By Charles M. Blow

    June 6, 2018

    In Trump’s America people are understandably experiencing news fatigue. There
    are torrents of it on multiple streams. There is outrage after outrage. It is often overwhelming.

    That’s the plan, I suspect. Trump is operating on the Doctrine of Inundation.
    He floods the airwaves until you simply give up because you feel like you’re drowning.

    And unfortunately, it’s working. A Pew Research Center report released Tuesday found that nearly seven in 10 Americans “feel worn out by the amount of news there is these days.”

    Fighting this fatigue is the real test of a person’s resolve, including mine.

    When my enthusiasm for resisting this vile man and his corrupt administration starts to flag, I remember the episode that first revealed to me the darkness at Trump’s core, and I am renewed.

    On an April night nearly 30 years ago, a young investment banker was beaten and
    raped when she went for a jog in Central Park. The attack left her in a coma. She happened to be white. Five teenagers arrested for the crime — four black and one of
    Hispanic descent — went to trial. As this newspaper reported at the time, they were “in what the police said was part of a marauding spree by as many as 30 youths in the northern end of the park” that night.

    After being questioned for hours, the defendants gave false confessions that conflicted with one another, and those confessions were captured on video. As The New York Times pointed out in 2002: “The defendants in the jogger case were put on camera
    after they had been in custody, in some cases, for as long as 28 hours.”

    As one of the five wrote in 2016 in The Washington Post: “When we were arrested, the police deprived us of food, drink or sleep for more than 24 hours. Under duress, we falsely confessed.”

    A few days after the attack, long before the teenagers would go on trial, Donald Trump bought full-page ads in New York newspapers — you may think of this as a precursor to his present-day tweets to a mass audience — under a giant, all-caps headline
    that read: “Bring Back the Death Penalty. Bring Back Our Police!”

    The boys would be convicted even though the physical evidence in the case was inconclusive. When one of the teenagers was led away in handcuffs, he yelled at
    the prosecutor: “You’re going to pay for this. Jesus is going to get you. You made this …
    up.”

    After serving up to 13 years in prison, the boys were proven right: Another man
    confessed to the crime and his DNA matched that at the scene of the crime.

    The boys, then men, had their convictions overturned, were freed, and eventually reached a multimillion-dollar settlement with the city over their wrongful convictions.

    How did Trump respond after having called for them to be put to death? In true Trump fashion, he refused to apologize or show any contrition whatsoever.

    In a 2014 opinion essay in The Daily News, Trump wrote that the settlement was a “disgrace” and that “settling doesn’t mean innocence.” He continued
    his assertion that the men were guilty, urging his readers: “Speak to the detectives on the
    case and try listening to the facts. These young men do not exactly have the pasts of angels.”

    Some people will never admit that they are wrong, even when they are as wrong as sin.

    But it is the language in the body of Trump’s 1989 death penalty ad that sticks with me. Trump wrote:

    “Mayor Koch has stated that hate and rancor should be removed from our hearts. I do not think so. I want to hate these muggers and murderers. They should be forced to suffer and, when they kill, they should be executed for their crimes.”

    He continued:

    “Yes, Mayor Koch, I want to hate these murderers and I always will. I am not looking to psychoanalyze or understand them, I am looking to punish them.”

    That to me is the thing with this man: He wants to hate. When Trump feels what he believes is a righteous indignation, his default position is hatred. Anyone who draws his ire, anyone whom he feels attacked by or offended by, anyone who has the nerve to
    stand up for himself or herself and tell him he’s wrong, he wants to hate, and does so.

    This hateful spirit envelopes him, consumes him and animates him.

    He hates women who dare to stand up to him and push back against him, so he attacks them, not just on the issues but on the validity of their very womanhood.

    He hates black people who dare to stand up — or kneel — for their dignity and against oppressive authority, so he attacks protesting professional athletes, Black Lives Matter and President Barack Obama himself as dangerous and divisive, unpatriotic
    and un-American.

    He hates immigrants so he has set a tone of intolerance, boasted of building his wall (that Mexico will never pay for), swollen the ranks of Immigration and
    Customs Enforcement, and attacks some as criminals and animals.

    He hates Muslims, so he moves to institute his travel ban and attacks their religion with the incendiary comment that “I think Islam hates us.”

    He always disguises his hatred, often as a veneration and defense of his base, the flag, law enforcement or the military. He hijacks their valor to advance his personal hatred.

    So I remember that. I center that. I hear “I want to hate” every time I hear him speak. And I draw strength from the fact that I’m not fighting for or against a political party; I’m fighting hatred itself, as personified by the man who occupies
    the presidency. That is my spine stiffener.

    ***

    Yes indeed.

    "Some people will never admit that they are wrong,
    even when they are as wrong as sin."

    Trump is a *perfect* example of such a person.

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