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    From slider@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, April 03, 2018 12:09:32
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    "immature poets imitate, mature poets steal..." --t.s. elliot ;)





    (but hey maybe not ALL dragons ain't so bad after all? hehehe...) ;)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LFHx8nGsymc

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  • From thang ornerythinchus@1:229/2 to Who on Thursday, April 05, 2018 11:11:26
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    Oh you've changed all right. No question. It's just that you're at
    ground zero of your personality and you can't see it because it's been
    gradual. You are more mellow, or perhaps it's Alzheimer's kicking in
    because you don't get enough sleep ;)





    basically because, i can look back over everything we've ever discussed
    argued about and/or debated, and my opinion/attitude hasn't actually
    changed from day 1?

    Except you haven't. I mean, you haven't just looked back over
    everything we've ever discussed. That would take a week. You are
    depending on your memory and that will be faulty, as is the memory of
    anyone over a protracted period (of years - I've been here since
    around 2005 I think).

    ### - when i say i look back and can see i haven't changed, i mean my >philosophical position/stance is the same as from day one here with only a >few additions, am the same person as before albeit i've grown some...
    i.e., i don't need to 'actually' look back at the archives to know that my >stance then is the same now, and that i would very likely answer the same >question again from back then in a very similar vein today...

    You've never annunciated your philosophy clearly. I have a worldview
    which is pretty jaded, I don't much like my species but there are
    examples of great heroism and courage in our species from time to time
    and particularly selflessness, which give me hope.

    Because of our evolutionary context, survival of the fittest, I don't
    think we can help ourselves.

    So, in 21 words or less, what *is* your "philosophical
    position/stance"?




    the only explanation being; that it must be 'you' (and not moi) that's
    changed!

    Nope. Occam's razor, old fruit. The simplest explanation is
    generally the correct explanation. In this case, the simplest
    explanation is that you have become a bit more moderate in your
    dealings with Dave and also with me - but even that could be because
    we have become a bit more moderate in our dealings with you.

    Chicken, or egg?

    ### - there's maybe a good reason why dave has 'eased-off' on me of late,
    not completely, but noticeably some... (i don't wanna go into that >particular reason in a public forum for private reasons) and when he (or >anyone come to that!) is polite/non-antagonistic then i'm exactly the same
    in return! (thus i've previously claimed/stated that i never 'ever' START
    the ugliness!) be nice to me and you'll get even 'nicer' in return from
    moi, no matter the subject! i'll talk about 'anything' and i wont start
    shit! i'll even take quite a few digs before finally deciding to put a
    stop to any nastiness that's being aimed in my direction, such is my >demeanor...

    Heh. Sonny Barger once said - "Treat me good Ill treat you better,
    threat me bad Ill treat you worse"

    By the way, Sonny turns 80 this year. Who says crime doesn't pay?







    it's not that i haven't learned anything from you, far from it, but is
    more the case that when ya fight/struggle with someone (anyone!) it's
    impossible 'not' to become a bit like them in the process? (meaning:
    it's
    something that always automatically occurs when 2 peeps interact fairly
    deeply, especially if/when it's an intense interaction/altercation)

    Yep, Neitzche said that - if you struggle with monsters, make sure you
    don't become one (paraphrased, and probably spelled Neitzsche wrong
    too :)

    Along with Castaneda/Castenada...


    that: the problem with 'fighting dragons' is the risk of one becoming a
    dragon too!

    Neitszche again. Are you conscious of your plagiarism?

    ### - a paraphrased 'quote' isn't plagiarism... plus Nietzsche (correct >spelling) likely borrowed it from the ancient chinese anyway? (i think
    they had dragons in china originally didn't they?) so screw nietzsche
    hehehe (had a little study of nietzsche one time and i think he's cool, a >genius actually + is very misunderstood) ;)

    "immature poets imitate, mature poets steal..." --t.s. elliot ;)

    You didn't quote him. You paraphrased him, which is or can be
    plagiarism *if* you don't acknowledge the source.






    (but hey maybe not ALL dragons ain't so bad after all? hehehe...) ;)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, April 10, 2018 12:42:36
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    approx. 15 (cosmic) minutes and that's all! and most of 'em truly make a
    meal out of it! but everything they have, everything they've invented
    and
    foisted/superimposed upon the world, is but a distraction? a distraction
    from the main event which no one traditionally ever really pays any
    attention to anymore! he lived, he worked his arse off, he died! and
    that's the story of most people's lives! it never amounts to anything
    more
    for them than just that alone! they never really... lived! (i call
    them the unborn...)

    That's not correct. Philosophy is the search for underlying, basic
    reality. The truth. Simple as that. Logic is the tool to get there.
    I did philosophy 101 as an elective in first year thinking it would be
    a pushover, but it was far more difficult than pure math, stats,
    financial accounting, law etc - I'm bright but the best I could muster
    with philosophy was a C. I scored minimums of B+ for everything else.
    I thought I could bullshit my way through philosophy but that was not
    the case. It is extremely rigorous and disciplined. It is no
    accident that there exists a philosophy of mathematics.

    ### - one can do better than philosophy & philosophising; one can
    appreciate things directly instead of only always from an armchair... and
    from which pov no such thing AS philosophy even exists... that as well as
    the 'experimental' there is also the 'experiential' to consider and i much prefer the latter to the former, both of which quite naturally give-rise
    to completely different knowledge sets ;)





    And so what about the brevity of individual life. It's enough that we
    exist for a short time, which is better than no time. I'm happy with
    the deal, the beautiful days I witness, the air I breathe, it's a
    fucking joy to live and I'm greatful just for the brief time I'm here.
    You should be too.

    ### - even 300 years average span would be all too brief for moi hah! (100 years just to grow up/sort out all the purely material aspects of life,
    another 100 to learn of perhaps something greater/deeper, and another 100
    or so to go put it all into actual practice! minimum!) and yet we have to
    cram it all into only 3-score & 10 (if yer lucky!) and that's it!

    THIS being what makes characters like Arthur Rimbaud so very fascinating,
    in that he's reputed to have accomplished everything humanly possible in
    only 38 short years! - think of that?? that by age 18 he'd completely finished/exhausted Art, science, literature, history; the lot! dropped the
    lot of 'em, and then went off and lived what he's learned was required!
    "to be a poet is all very well and correct, but the poet then has to make himself into a Seer!" --rimbaud (sic)








    the only explanation being; that it must be 'you' (and not moi)
    that's
    changed!

    Nope. Occam's razor, old fruit. The simplest explanation is
    generally the correct explanation. In this case, the simplest
    explanation is that you have become a bit more moderate in your
    dealings with Dave and also with me - but even that could be because >>>>> we have become a bit more moderate in our dealings with you.

    Chicken, or egg?

    ### - there's maybe a good reason why dave has 'eased-off' on me of
    late,
    not completely, but noticeably some... (i don't wanna go into that
    particular reason in a public forum for private reasons) and when he
    (or
    anyone come to that!) is polite/non-antagonistic then i'm exactly the
    same
    in return! (thus i've previously claimed/stated that i never 'ever'
    START
    the ugliness!) be nice to me and you'll get even 'nicer' in return
    from
    moi, no matter the subject! i'll talk about 'anything' and i wont
    start
    shit! i'll even take quite a few digs before finally deciding to put a >>>> stop to any nastiness that's being aimed in my direction, such is my
    demeanor...

    Heh. Sonny Barger once said - "Treat me good Ill treat you better,
    threat me bad Ill treat you worse"

    By the way, Sonny turns 80 this year. Who says crime doesn't pay?

    ### - ditto from moi too sport! although albeit with one distinct
    difference: treat me bad (enough) and i'll just never talk to ya again!
    and that's it! gone! life's too short to waste any of (what's left of)
    my
    15 cosmic minutes of 'fame' (i.e., of being alive...)

    so, is there anything 'else' beyond this short life ya think?

    Why does there NEED to be? I'm happy enough with my lot in life, I
    won the race against a few billion other sperm cells swimming up my
    mother's uterus, that was good enough for a start. Then, I survived
    and was born in the right era, where I didn't need to worry about the
    black plague or small pox. I was lucky enough to live as a citizen in
    a first world country like Australia where no one is ever hungry if
    they have the energy to walk to a Red Cross or do a job of work. My
    luck continues, I'm 63 and I'm healthy and sound of mind and I look to
    a future of another 20-30 years which is plenty for me, I'll be very
    tired by then and quite ready to pull the sheets over my head :)

    ### - is that all ya want? plus have you really come so very far for so
    very little??

    rimbaud sought to break-through into another world! and gave his all to
    doing so! ;)




    who knows for sure, but i do suspect so, something anyway, but is
    perhaps
    not for everyone like the buddists like to believe who suggest we all
    get recycled come what may hehehe (maybe, but i seriously doubt it heh +
    don't really fancy maybe coming back as a flea??) i think they were just
    being nice to people with that 'offer' so everyone would stop rioting,
    raping & pillaging and there'd be 'some' semblance of order in society
    from those who just ain't going anywhere but here, and that's it heh...)
    but possibly more (if anything) like say the vikings considered: walking
    bravely, fully aware and consciously, into the arms of death when the
    right time comes as the 'only' way to cross over into another realm of
    being, but perforce which doesn't exist for those who go 'tamely' and
    domesticated into that night! ("rage rage against the dying of the
    light"
    --thomas)

    Doesn't matter how you go, go you will. I don't believe in recycling, resurrection or some sort of life after death because consciousness is
    a product of brain and when the brain dies, the computer program shuts
    down.

    Anyone who really believes in any of that is engaging in wishful
    thinking.

    ### - well, that covers the 'experimental' side of life for sure, but
    aren't you perhaps ignoring/forgetting the 'experiential' part? (arguably
    the other 50% heh...)






    However, the sheer improbability of this universe leads most
    scientists to think it is either one of infinite universes -
    multiverse- or has been designed. The combined values of elementary particles, contstants, etc are so far down the curve that it would be
    more probable to throw a trillion trillion trillion heads in a row
    than to conceive of this universe. Entrance - multiverse, where every combination occurs in infinity and eternity and this is one extremely improbable universe.

    This means of course that in eternity within infinity there will be
    another you SLider, an infinite number of times on an infinite number
    of earths circling the same sun. And me, and Dave and all variations thereof.

    Of course, if this is too fucking mind blowing for you, the
    alternative, the only alternative, is a designer. Whether that be an
    alien, a much evolved future human, a god or whatever, it still
    doesn't mean there's any advantage to being a human in this inprobable universe, it doesn't mean there will be an afterlife, or resurrection
    or recycling...

    ### - blah blah blah the 'experimental' side of life? all very mechanical/logical & stuff, vast but still limited to the purely material aspect alone? (and don't say/claim that that's ALL there is, you're more
    than just the physical, you are also the feeling!)




    it's not that i haven't learned anything from you, far from it, but >>>>>> is
    more the case that when ya fight/struggle with someone (anyone!)
    it's
    impossible 'not' to become a bit like them in the process? (meaning: >>>>>> it's
    something that always automatically occurs when 2 peeps interact
    fairly
    deeply, especially if/when it's an intense interaction/altercation) >>>>>
    Yep, Neitzche said that - if you struggle with monsters, make sure
    you
    don't become one (paraphrased, and probably spelled Neitzsche wrong
    too :)

    Along with Castaneda/Castenada...


    that: the problem with 'fighting dragons' is the risk of one
    becoming
    a
    dragon too!

    Neitszche again. Are you conscious of your plagiarism?

    ### - a paraphrased 'quote' isn't plagiarism... plus Nietzsche
    (correct
    spelling) likely borrowed it from the ancient chinese anyway? (i think >>>> they had dragons in china originally didn't they?) so screw nietzsche
    hehehe (had a little study of nietzsche one time and i think he's
    cool,
    a
    genius actually + is very misunderstood) ;)

    "immature poets imitate, mature poets steal..." --t.s. elliot ;)

    You didn't quote him. You paraphrased him, which is or can be
    plagiarism *if* you don't acknowledge the source.

    ### - ya surely can't plagiarise a principle?? plus it's such a common
    expression that i didn't really see/feel any need to put it in quotes
    more
    than so (i did a bit with 'fighting dragons' didn't i? more than enough
    to
    refer to such a common phrase)

    Well in a world where your DNA can be patented, a principle can
    certainly be subject to copyright in the way it's expressed and that principle can be plagiarised if the means of expression is copied or
    emulated closely enough.

    ### - copyright isn't forever :)



    in more common terms it can perhaps be more simply put as something
    having
    'rubbed-off' on one; ya hang around with someone long enough and
    accordingly some of their behaviours/mannerisms/ideas automatically
    start
    to
    rub-off on ya! and you on them! long-term partners even begin to
    resemble
    one another, and, rather laughingly, pets and their owners sometimes
    look
    quite alike too! plus, in understanding such a principle deeply enough,
    a
    more wise/awake person might perhaps even apply it quite
    consciously/deliberately knowing that such things do indeed 'rub-off' in
    said fashion on peeps over time...

    Well have you had such a long term arrangement that you've been able
    to observe this in your own space 24/7? No? Sorry, anything else is
    purely apocryphal...

    ### - indeed i have seen/witnessed such, it happens all the time! you/we
    are the product of our parents just for starters!

    or as one of my old mentors once said: each one teach one :)

    (you've already 'picked-up' quite a few things from me, my pov being one
    of them as you've become more familiar with it, what seemed alien to you
    at first becoming clearer as familiarity with the novel way i talk/say
    things progresses, to the point that sometimes you can even accept that
    that's perhaps the way old slider sees things, a way you yourself may even eventually/gradually come around to also seeing and/or borrowing from occasionally...)

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  • From slider@1:229/2 to All on Tuesday, April 10, 2018 12:41:54
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    the 'new' religion for the modern age they attempted to create, and
    admittedly failed to create based as it was on pure bunkum et al, all of
    which seems completely ridiculous to us now but which did have some appeal
    to the people of the victorian era, which, we also know/realise now, were
    a total bunch of crackpots to match hah! thosophy?? bollocks! :)

    however... ONE really GOOD story DID emerge out of it all though! that
    even though their PLAN failed utterly to materialise, the 'figurehead'
    they chose to be the 'new messiah', who was apparently (as you can perhaps
    well imagine) educated to the nth degree in order to be 'enabled' to take
    on such a 'huge' role; at the very last minute, after actually receiving
    such a genuinely 'magnificent' education via the best minds in the world available + the offer of ALL that power; literally turned the job down
    flat basically because he realised it was all a total crock and thus
    refused to have anything more to do with it! (bravo that man! his
    education really WAS good enough to enlighten him, if only enough to see
    what a crock this bunch of well-meaning but lunatic body of peeps was attempting to foist upon the world! and he WALKED away taking ALL that education with him!

    very cool :)




    It does have to be actually. Homo Sapiens sleeps far less than other
    primates. This is fact. We have evolved to minimise sleep because of
    our mental functions which are more complex than our primate brethren.
    But we NEED sleep. Any less than 7 - 9 hours a day and you are
    setting yourself up for dementia, diabetes, obesity and a host of
    other nasties.

    "Humans are short sleepers, where we average 7 hours a night, other
    primate species, such as southern pig-tailed macaques and gray mouse
    lemurs, need as many as 14 to 17 hours. Additionally, our sleep tends
    to be more efficient. We spend a smaller proportion of time in light
    stages of sleep, and more of our sleep time in deeper stages of sleep.
    Our REM stages make up for 25% of our overall sleep but in primates
    such as mouse lemurs, mongoose lemurs and African green monkeys, REM
    sleep barely climbs above 5%."

    https://anthropology.net/2015/12/14/humans-sleep-more-efficiently-compared-to-other-primates/

    http://www.bbc.com/earth/story/20160121-the-strangest-thing-about-human-sleep-is-that-we-need-so-little




    You never mention what
    your activities are during the times you are awake and not dreaming, >>>>> and you once said that you sleep less and less now, only a handful of >>>>> hours, so I assume logically that you are awake more and more, and
    therefore have more and more time on your hands.

    ### - have always actually slept very little and/or less than most
    anyway,
    as from quite young i realised a third of our lives is literally spent >>>> doing nada! live 60 years and chances are the average person spends 20 >>>> of
    those years snoring?? fuck that! have always been quite jealous (if
    that's
    the right description) of those lost years and from quite young quite
    deliberately set out to claw back as many years as i could from that
    otherwise completely wasted 20!

    'lucid' dreaming adds another angle to it altogether though; an
    alternate
    means/way to claw back some of those lost years in terms of although
    perhaps being asleep (although via WILDs am distinctly inclined to
    challenge that stance...) but NOT unconscious! (i.e., if we have to
    sleep
    8 hours a day then maybe some of those 8 could be spent lucidly
    dreaming
    instead of completely shutting down)

    this being more stephen laberge's idea actually, but only because he
    chose
    to specialise in dilds!

    add WILDs into that mix, however, and the whole picture changes again! >>>> because WILDs aren't just lucid dreaming while one is asleep! WILDs is >>>> quite consciously entering into an altered state of awareness in the
    full
    awareness of doing so while one is awake! so technically speaking one
    ISN'T actually asleep at all! that on 'that' basis 'sleep' as we know
    it
    could even become a thing of the past! (and that's potentially really
    quite interesting in evolutionary terms, see? thus: arise homo
    acutus!)




    What do you do with that time? Nary a word from you ever. You know >>>>> what I do, I work (until recently at least), I interact with my
    extended family, a lot - I read, I pirate movies and watch them, etc >>>>> etc. And I am a particularly secretive, private person, yet you know >>>>> these things about me.

    What about you? What the heck do you *do* during your daily 18 hours >>>>> or so of wakefulness?

    ### - i'll sometimes/often go 36 (or more) hours of waking (no sleep
    or
    WILDs at all!) staying up all night, hanging out (at one point) with
    bunches of friends smoking, listening to music, reading, playing
    chess,
    discussing life, the universe & everything... as i write this, for
    example, i haven't slept now for going on 25 hours + at some point
    today
    (which is never planned btw) i'll prolly crash, and/or these days go
    WILD
    since i've learned to do this, thus completely confounding any
    otherwise
    normal/usual routines as most peeps generally know and apply them...
    they're all gone!

    36 hours without sleep, in your 60's? No way unless you are unwisely
    using dexamphetamines or similar. Your life sounds chaotic and
    unplanned which in itself is not a good way to go through life.

    ### - sometimes even longer hehehe (did a 48-hour stint only last week)
    and no, not on speed either! there's no longer any such routines in my
    life! (there was hardly any such routines before heh, such was the life
    i
    was living for years & years, but the ability to WILD has freed me up
    even
    from that now...)

    My citations above regarding how efficiently we sleep in context of
    other primate species remain ignored by you. We already are efficient sleepers *and* we need, demonstrably, at least 7 hours sleep per night
    - how on earth can you feel that we waste such time sleeping or that
    you can sleep constantly less than say 6 hours a night and not be
    disposed to diabetes, obesity, vascular issues, heart attack and
    stroke?

    I'd be interested in your justifications in light of the science
    behind sleep minimums and how much sleep our less evolved cousins
    require...

    ### - this was undoubtedly part of the missing part-2 mentioned hehehe...
    (lol i still don't know what really happened to it heh, it got chopped up
    in attempting to make 2 parts of it to suit my server's limitations,
    somehow confused the 2 parts (laughing) whereon most of it ended up in the trash lol...), anyways, having fished 'some' of it back outta the trash,
    here's what i wrote regarding the above:

    ### - i hear you + am fully aware of all that... but... still maintain
    that really it's all just 'learned' behaviour rather than somehow being something strictly inherent to our nature + genes; we're highly adaptable
    and, being given a basic starter for 10 in terms of range, have merely
    adapted (and settled down) to the way things 'currently' are and have been 'allowed' to become! we CAN be (have been!) conditioned!

    i.e., force peeps to work a 9 to 10 regime religiously, for years, and
    don't be surprised when they suddenly require 8 hours slumber every day
    without fail? peeps who don't work so hard don't require so much prolonged sleep, and people who don't work at all and loaf about also develop
    particular sleeping patterns quite different from the regimented
    workers! thus, imho, all of it, the circadian patterns and usual sleep
    pattern as we know it and are all familiar with, are merely the result of having been inducted from birth into some particular (yet arbitrary)
    regime or another that's been directly regulating their lives FOR them!
    so much so peeps who don't know anything different to that can then swear
    that that's the only way it can ever be! only it ain't!

    i.e., go back a few million years (or whatever) when tribes of people
    basically spent their lives around their camp fires, wild beasts might
    come upon them in the night so no one could really breathe a sigh of
    relief or relax until the dawn came up the next morning, their lives
    entirely regulated by the day/night cycle, villages didn't all go to sleep
    at the same time when night set in, however, the kids (and elders) prolly
    slept all night, but the adults had to be more vigilant and thus
    all-nighters of the whole tribe dancing around the main camp fire was
    probably the norm for ages, with long naps probably being more usual and
    not everyone all at the same time either!

    modern life giving rise directly to modern sleeping patterns et all... but that's all... plus it's not really something peeps have experimented much
    with so it's all completely taken for granted as being the ONLY way things
    can ever be and which remains unquestioned/unchallenged to a larger
    degree... change the settings, however, and those same patterns, seemingly written in stone, also change!

    now IF one of those modern workers requiring 8 hours of downtime every
    night
    were to alter their patterns counter to what their unconscious lifestyles demand, then i don't doubt they'd become ill... change their lifestyle, however, and perforce they'd automatically require/acquire a 'different' regime!

    iow: HOW we live determines HOW we rest and NOT the other way around! (a
    common enough 180-degree error brought about via peeps more 'subjective' appreciation of how things are in reality, one that once led them to think
    the sun unquestioningly revolved around the earth for example, etc etc...)
    +
    plenty of similar other examples exist whereon they thought that the brain
    was fixed and that the peeps who were good at music had some kinda 'extra'
    lump of brain that accounted for it, only it's completely the other way
    around:
    that the brain in fact 'grows' that same extra lump merely from being
    'exposed'
    to music at 'any' time during one's lifetime! - big difference! real
    chicken &
    egg stuff! (one implication being: we didn't evolve eyes to see light
    with, we
    evolved eyes because light existed and had that effect upon us!)









    You clearly don't have a female in your life at the moment. You need
    one. They instill order and discipline. If you keep these wild hours
    up you will do irreparable damage to your health.

    ### - i don't have one now (a wife i mean) but have been there, done
    that,
    raised a kid, was kinda even respectable hah, the whole nine yards as
    mentioned before... (something jeremy then lept on me for using the
    term 'mahatma' (means renunciate) in the same context by way of
    explaining
    (to you at the time) my current stance... him suggesting/implying that
    i'd
    maybe then somehow abandoned my family & kids in the process just to be
    a
    mahatma (now really! as if!) and which wasn't at all what i meant but
    which he suitably twisted it into to then beat me with! (not having
    anything else real enough to hit me with he jumped on that?? and is
    proof,
    if nothing else, that he really *doesn't* have anything else to beat me
    with to have to even resort to such demeaning slander? he doesn't
    actually
    have anything to hit me with of any moment so simply resorts to
    slinging mud at each & every opportunity...)

    I don't believe you're disrespectable now. You're law abiding, you
    are doing your own thing without hassling anyone else and you're a
    citizen of one of the foremost democracies. As they used to say in
    the 70's, keep on keeping on.

    ### - i had self respect but wasn't respectable by societies standards
    heh, i was a total dropout! squatted instead of paying rent, hustled
    instead of working + didn't give a flying-feck about what everyone else
    did and/or aspired to doing in a worldly sense, but yet always seemed to
    get by :)




    My old man had two wives - the first died young and the second was a
    gold digging cunt who took him for every cent he was worth along with
    his self-respect. Being married once is better than never having been married. Regarding Dave, it seems he was once married too - so glass
    houses and all that.

    I was just lucky enough to find a woman who was strong willed enough
    to put up with my "assertive" tendencies and put me in my place and
    who was loyal and loving and, last but not least, a fucking great cook
    :) She's ethic, Italian, so maybe that's the deal. I'm also very
    tolerant of behaviour having lived through a lot of extremes when I
    was a kid and that, I guess, is a plus.

    Personal loyalty counts for a lot too in marriage. Ya gotta be brave
    and willing and able to fight some bastard who's making a play for
    yoru woman even though you know you'll get your head beaten in...

    My two daugthers have in turn produced 7 children of their own. But
    our relationships are not what you would call "the Waltons". I don't
    think anyone's are. So no bones pointed...

    ### - imho you didn't have the 'distractions' the vast majority are
    subject (and subjected) to and so all of the above was actually fairly
    easy for you to put into practice without too much ado? (after you made up
    your mind to do so i mean 'coz THAT was the hard part...), that sans those
    more usual distractions on your plate it was all relatively
    straightforward from you pov, simple math! but not so simple for the
    others who have all that 'other' crap to have to deal with as well! that
    in that sense you were actually very fortunate indeed! (oh they can do it
    too, but not until they get their heads sorted out first, either
    deliberately in some cases and/or through a process of indoctrination that beats it into 'em! literally!)

    (cont... hopefully heh...)

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