• Laughing

    From Havok@21:4/119 to All on Thursday, April 26, 2018 18:53:00

    Man laughing folks maybe we need a one message area, flame area for one!


    Havok

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  • From Avon@21:1/101 to Havok on Friday, April 27, 2018 12:06:21
    On 04/26/18, Havok pondered and said...


    Man laughing folks maybe we need a one message area, flame area for one!

    Respectfully, no. The nice thing is people self moderate and are mindful of posts they make in fsxNet. I see no need for any more echo areas. I
    appreciate you likely said this in jest and with good humor intended but just wanted to respond to this should others think it a good idea :)

    Best, Paul

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  • From Havok@21:4/119 to Avon on Thursday, April 26, 2018 21:29:57
    Respectfully, no. The nice thing is people self moderate and are mindful of posts they make in fsxNet. I see no need for any more echo areas.

    (Smile) I was joking trying to lighten the mood with my weird humor!
    Even if you did make one you would never catch me in it! I come hear
    to read, learn and of course make a few friends Paul you being one so far!

    As I have stated before, my life is set in stone!

    Agree to disagree, I'm not here to change you or you me. Pretty much how
    I've grown to be!

    No laughing we don't need a flame area or people that do!


    Havok

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  • From Jeff Smith@21:1/128 to Avon on Friday, April 27, 2018 11:32:09

    Hello Avon!

    Man laughing folks maybe we need a one message area, flame area
    for one!

    Respectfully, no. The nice thing is people self moderate and are
    mindful of posts they make in fsxNet. I see no need for any more echo areas. I appreciate you likely said this in jest and with good humor intended but just wanted to respond to this should others think it a
    good idea :)

    Agreed. It isn't and shouldn't be that hard for people to discuss and
    sometimes disagree on a subject. Without resorting to personal attacks
    and being needlessly critical and insulting.

    Heck, I occasionally disagree with people that I consider good friends
    but that doesn't and shouldn't make them any lesser of a friend.

    Sadly, some people need conflict and negativity to make them feel happy
    or content.


    Jeff


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  • From Beery@21:4/109 to Jeff Smith on Friday, April 27, 2018 15:57:50
    My ex was like that. Post divorce, I learned she may have been bipolar. I'm not in the loop (thankfully), to watch her tear down everyone around herself.

    While it wasn't daily verbally assaulting me, it was frequent enough to say there were weekly verbal exchanges.

    Got remarried a few years later and been with someone 180 degrees opposite. After almost 18 years of marriage, not a single verbal argument. We may not agree what someone has to say, but nothing that elevated to even raised
    voices or anything that could be construed as a verbal fight.

    Life is so much more pleasant.

    Sadly, some people need conflict and negativity to make them feel happy
    or content.

    --Beery Miller -- 9640 News BBS -- 9640news.ddns.net:9640 --

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  • From Jeff Smith@21:1/128 to Beery on Friday, April 27, 2018 18:26:07

    Hello Beery!

    My ex was like that. Post divorce, I learned she may have been
    bipolar. I'm not in the loop (thankfully), to watch her tear down everyone around herself.

    Fortunately I haven't been in a situation like that. At least not to that degree.
    I don't mind disagreeing or even arguing. But I try to keep it non-personal.

    While it wasn't daily verbally assaulting me, it was frequent enough
    to say there were weekly verbal exchanges.

    Worst I had it was some in-law types that when they consumed enough they needed to argue and fight. I tried to avoid as much interaction as possible. I tend
    to be smart ass when I have a few to many. :) Maybe a little more than I normally
    am.

    Got remarried a few years later and been with someone 180 degrees opposite.

    Life is so much more pleasant.

    Same here. I have been single the last 30 years. :-)


    Jeff


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