• Re: Less-common phone brands

    From Adept@21:2/108 to Weatherman on Thursday, October 14, 2021 22:09:03
    I could see them trying that too, but really don't see it taking off any more than the "Windows Phone".

    This reminds me about how I pre-ordered a Fairphone 4 - https://www.fairphone.com/en/
    ...and wonder if people have experience with previous phones in that series (it's Europe-only, so limited availability and all).

    And, beyond that phone, what experience people have in using phones that
    aren't Samsung, Apple, Xiaomi, Huawei, and maybe a couple others.

    Basically, who uses a phone that's in the "less popular brands" segment of
    the market, and how's that going?

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  • From acn@21:3/127.1 to Adept on Friday, October 15, 2021 10:27:00
    Am 14.10.21 schrieb Adept@21:2/108 in FSX_GEN:

    Hallo Adept,

    Basically, who uses a phone that's in the "less popular brands"
    segment of the market, and how's that going?

    I'm using Google Pixel phones, but I guess that's not a 'less popular
    brand'.

    I thought about buying an Android phone with a real keyboard, like the f(x)tec pro or one of the Planet Computers' devices (Gemini, Cosmo
    ...).
    But then I've looked at the availability of security updates or, more general, which Android version is shipped with these devices (or is
    available as an update) - and didn't buy one.
    I don't want a device which is already outdated at the day of purchase
    and won't ever see any security or other updates.

    I think, the problem with Android updates is the biggest showstopper
    for all 'less popular brands' in the Android market...

    Regards,
    Anna

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  • From Adept@21:2/108 to acn on Friday, October 15, 2021 19:47:54
    I'm using Google Pixel phones, but I guess that's not a 'less popular brand'.

    Yeah, I kinda go back and forth on that.

    I _did_ avoid getting a Google phone because, well, Google, but you can get
    an actual stock android phone from them (or at least it's easy enough to do AOSP on those phones), so it's really a stock-Android phone, that doesn't
    have a huge market share.

    At least I don't think Google has made _that_ much of a dent in the market.

    I thought about buying an Android phone with a real keyboard, like the

    general, which Android version is shipped with these devices (or is available as an update) - and didn't buy one.

    Oh, huh. That _is_ pretty disappointing. I'm not about to go down that rabbit hole tonight, so any idea on _why_ they're so terrible on the updates?

    I think, the problem with Android updates is the biggest showstopper
    for all 'less popular brands' in the Android market...

    That does make sense. And is something I'm happy about with Fairphone, since they're both promising 5 years of support, and have a history of mid-cycle updates (with the Fairphone 3+), where people could swap out bits of the
    phone and have an upgraded experience.

    And it's pretty likely the phone will support the next couple versions of Android.

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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to acn on Friday, October 15, 2021 17:10:22
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: acn to Adept on Fri Oct 15 2021 10:27 am

    I thought about buying an Android phone with a real keyboard, like the f(x)tec pro or one of the Planet Computers' devices (Gemini, Cosmo
    ...).

    Interesting. I didn't think they made phones with real keyboards anymore. Years ago (around 2012), I had an LG Optimus Slider, which had a real keyboard, and I liked it. But when it came time to upgrade, it seemed there were no more phones on the market with real keyboards anymore. At least not Androdi phones.

    Nightfox
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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to Adept on Friday, October 15, 2021 17:11:08
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Adept to acn on Fri Oct 15 2021 07:47 pm

    I _did_ avoid getting a Google phone because, well, Google, but you can

    Even if you get a non-Google Android phone, you're still using an OS made by Google.

    Nightfox
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  • From Spectre@21:3/101 to acn on Saturday, October 16, 2021 10:47:00
    I'm using Google Pixel phones, but I guess that's not a 'less popular brand'.

    Ich habe nicht sehen jeder mit eine "Google" telefon.

    Spec


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  • From Adept@21:2/108 to Nightfox on Saturday, October 16, 2021 07:55:24
    I _did_ avoid getting a Google phone because, well, Google, but you c

    Even if you get a non-Google Android phone, you're still using an OS
    made by Google.

    Now I know! Thanks!

    Quick question -- I try to avoid Microsoft stuff. I'd like to get a non-Microsoft PC with Windows. Any suggestions there?

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  • From apam@21:1/182 to Adept on Saturday, October 16, 2021 18:07:18
    Quick question -- I try to avoid Microsoft stuff. I'd like to get a non-Microsoft PC with Windows. Any suggestions there?

    Well, I think if you get one built (or build it yourself) there are
    plenty of case options with Windows in the side....

    Some of the phones you get with android on them, I think you can
    overwrite it with ubports or some other linux mobile os.

    I remember I got an LG phone I think because I wanted to put KDE on it, I
    never did I was too afraid I'd brick it. Though I think it was compatible
    at the time.

    Yeah, sadly not much choice if you want a smartphone. You're faced with
    the better of two evils. Although if you just wanted a handset...

    I remember the firefox phone.. i nearly bought one at the time... i
    didn't because I couldn't justify buying another phone.

    Andrew

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  • From acn@21:3/127.1 to Nightfox on Saturday, October 16, 2021 10:41:00
    Am 15.10.21 schrieb Nightfox@21:1/137 in FSX_GEN:

    Hallo Nightfox,

    I thought about buying an Android phone with a real keyboard, like the ac>> f(x)tec pro or one of the Planet Computers' devices (Gemini, Cosmo
    ...).

    Interesting. I didn't think they made phones with real keyboards anymore.

    For any of the 'larger' brands, that's actually true.
    It's a small niche and the biggest brand that made phones with real
    keys most recently has been Blackberry (or whoever used that brand
    name recently).
    All the keyboard phones right now are made by smaller companies or start-ups...

    Years ago (around 2012), I had an LG Optimus Slider, which had a real keyboard, and I liked it. But when it came time to upgrade, it seemed
    there were no more phones on the market with real keyboards anymore. At least not Androdi phones.

    That's right. And it's a shame...

    Regards,
    Anna

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  • From acn@21:3/127.1 to Adept on Saturday, October 16, 2021 10:49:00
    Am 15.10.21 schrieb Adept@21:2/108 in FSX_GEN:

    Hallo Adept,

    I _did_ avoid getting a Google phone because, well, Google, [...]

    Then your only chance is an iPhone or something completely different.
    As Android is by Google, they will get information from you, I guess
    even with AOSP.
    The best chance 'without Google' is a AOSP without any Play Services
    etc., but then your options for apps will be somewhat limited.

    I chose a Google phone for these reasons:
    - I will get security updates and Android updates as quickly as
    possible
    - Only Google will get my personal data, and they do already know
    about me :)
    - The phones are decently made

    When buying eg. a Samsung phone, there are many Samsung-branded apps installed that phone home to Samsung -- and Samsung seems to like
    Micro$oft, as some M$ apps are also pre-installed which cannot be
    removed.

    I thought about buying an Android phone with a real keyboard, like the [...]
    general, which Android version is shipped with these devices (or is
    available as an update) - and didn't buy one.

    Oh, huh. That _is_ pretty disappointing. I'm not about to go down that rabbit hole tonight, so any idea on _why_ they're so terrible on the updates?

    I guess the same reason applies here to most other Android phone
    companies: It's complicated to keep up with updates and it costs
    money.
    Google still does not seem to get it together to make Android that
    modular so that updates for the OS and other critical parts of the
    system can be applied without interfering with drivers, apps etc.

    Regards,
    Anna

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  • From Arelor@21:2/138 to acn on Saturday, October 16, 2021 06:38:13
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: acn to Adept on Sat Oct 16 2021 10:49 am

    I _did_ avoid getting a Google phone because, well, Google, [...]

    Then your only chance is an iPhone or something completely different.
    As Android is by Google, they will get information from you, I guess
    even with AOSP.
    The best chance 'without Google' is a AOSP without any Play Services
    etc., but then your options for apps will be somewhat limited.

    I chose a Google phone for these reasons:

    There are some cool Android builds out there which are de-googled. There are also some commercial phones running deGoogled andorids, such as the phones the Nitrokey people sells.

    That said, the NItrokey phones are rather speciallized.

    Those allow you to have all the google crap in a containerized/isolated profile if you need to have google crap, so maybe it is an ok compromoise.

    I have used a custom LineageOS image with a Galaxy S2 in the past and it was free of google services and needed no Google account. I could do anything I wanted from it, except survive the hoof-stomping of my favourite mare.

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Nightfox on Saturday, October 16, 2021 06:29:00
    Nightfox wrote to Adept <=-

    Even if you get a non-Google Android phone, you're still using an OS
    made by Google.

    I think they're referring to the Google ecosystem - the APIs, the store, all of the data that goes back to google. There are open source versions of Android that remove the calls back to google servers, don't rely on the
    Google maps API, don't use the play store, etc.


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  • From Utopian Galt@21:4/108 to Poindexter Fortran on Saturday, October 16, 2021 09:39:14
    BY: poindexter FORTRAN(21:4/122)


    I think they're referring to the Google ecosystem - the APIs, the store, all
    of the data that goes back to google. There are open source versions of Android that remove the calls back to google servers, don't rely on the Google maps API, don't use the play store, etc.
    One of the Chineese makers of Android phones got banned from using the Google ecosystem and if your able to get a Huawei phone you can do that.

    Perhaps you can add the Amazon Android app store and you can get some of the pay apps you might want.


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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to Adept on Saturday, October 16, 2021 11:24:06
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Adept to Nightfox on Sat Oct 16 2021 07:55 am

    Quick question -- I try to avoid Microsoft stuff. I'd like to get a non-Microsoft PC with Windows. Any suggestions there?

    Microsoft makes very few PCs.. You have a lot of choice. I tend to build my own desktop PC, but as far as pre-built PCs, I think Lenovo makes good stuff.

    Nightfox
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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to poindexter FORTRAN on Saturday, October 16, 2021 11:25:42
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Nightfox on Sat Oct 16 2021 06:29 am

    Even if you get a non-Google Android phone, you're still using an OS
    made by Google.

    I think they're referring to the Google ecosystem - the APIs, the store, all of the data that goes back to google. There are open source versions of Android that remove the calls back to google servers, don't rely on the Google maps API, don't use the play store, etc.

    Interesting.. I didn't know there were open-source versions of Android. I imagine that would require loading a custom phone image onto your phone?

    Nightfox
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  • From Arelor@21:2/138 to Nightfox on Saturday, October 16, 2021 21:46:05
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Nightfox to poindexter FORTRAN on Sat Oct 16 2021 11:25 am

    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Nightfox on Sat Oct 16 2021 06:29 am

    Even if you get a non-Google Android phone, you're still using an OS
    made by Google.

    I think they're referring to the Google ecosystem - the APIs, the store all of the data that goes back to google. There are open source version of Android that remove the calls back to google servers, don't rely on Google maps API, don't use the play store, etc.

    Interesting.. I didn't know there were open-source versions of Android. I imagine that would require loading a custom phone image onto your phone?

    Nightfox

    Android itself is pretty much opensource. It is all the addons they ship it with which are propietary.

    Pretty much as if I took Debian, placed a bunch of propietary firmware and applications on it, and convinced PC manufacturers to ship their machines with my custom distribution.

    The key here is that the propietary addons are very integral to what people perceives to be the Android experience (the Play Store, firmware for hardware support, GCM for messaging, and so on).


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  • From Tiny@21:1/130 to apam on Sunday, October 17, 2021 09:03:00
    apam wrote to Adept <=-

    I remember the firefox phone.. i nearly bought one at the time... i
    didn't because I couldn't justify buying another phone.

    I bought one. I liked the concept of HTML5 for everything. It worked,
    and when I gave it to one of my drivers he used it for at least 4 or 5
    years before his daughter gave him an iphone.

    Shawn

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  • From Adept@21:2/108 to apam on Sunday, October 17, 2021 22:30:14
    Yeah, sadly not much choice if you want a smartphone. You're faced with the better of two evils. Although if you just wanted a handset...

    Really, it's just time to go back to some version of PalmOS.

    I did like my Tapwave Zodiac, once upon a time.

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  • From apam@21:1/182 to Adept on Monday, October 18, 2021 09:58:16
    Really, it's just time to go back to some version of PalmOS.

    I did like my Tapwave Zodiac, once upon a time.

    I just wish phones were more like computers, and you could load whatever
    OS on them you wanted. I really want a kde/plasma phone :P

    The Pine Phone looks interesting for that, though I don't know if they
    support Australia, though it appears they've got the EU covered.

    I had a Palm Pilot agggess ago, it had an LCD (black and white - well
    white was kind of green as that was the background, I guess more accurate
    would be black and not black :P) It was fun, but I could never get the
    hang of the writing on the touch pad thing. Much prefer a keyboard.

    The more modern palm pilots with colour screens were cool. Even some of
    the WinCE things.

    Andrew

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  • From apam@21:1/182 to Tiny on Monday, October 18, 2021 10:01:01
    I bought one. I liked the concept of HTML5 for everything. It
    worked,
    and when I gave it to one of my drivers he used it for at least 4 or 5
    years before his daughter gave him an iphone.


    Cool! Maybe I should have gotten one.. they were going pretty cheap here (towards the end).

    Andrew
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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Adept on Sunday, October 17, 2021 19:38:05
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Adept to apam on Sun Oct 17 2021 10:30 pm

    Really, it's just time to go back to some version of PalmOS.

    Didn't someone open-source the OS?

    I'm starting to miss the PDA form factor, since I do most of my voice comms with a headset now.

    If someone made a modern Nokia 9000 Communicator with a physical keyboard and 4G/5G, I'd be all over it.
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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to apam on Sunday, October 17, 2021 19:40:05
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: apam to Adept on Mon Oct 18 2021 09:58 am

    The more modern palm pilots with colour screens were cool. Even some of
    the WinCE things.

    Remember how cool the Treos were? The combination of a Palm PDA and data networking was great.

    I never had a Treo, but I did have a Palm Vx and a packet modem - it let me get roughly 2G speeds with Palm apps, I even ran a web server on it just for kicks.
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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Utopian Galt on Sunday, October 17, 2021 06:13:00
    Utopian Galt wrote to Poindexter Fortran <=-

    Perhaps you can add the Amazon Android app store and you can get some
    of the pay apps you might want.

    There's an app store called F-Droid that doesn't use the Google store
    system, and is loaded with open-source apps. It's a great alternative app environment, and all free apps.


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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Nightfox on Sunday, October 17, 2021 06:15:00
    Nightfox wrote to poindexter FORTRAN <=-

    Interesting.. I didn't know there were open-source versions of
    Android. I imagine that would require loading a custom phone image
    onto your phone?

    It can be a complicated process, and some phones are locked and won't allow other bootloaders.


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  • From Arelor@21:2/138 to poindexter FORTRAN on Monday, October 18, 2021 10:29:04
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Utopian Galt on Sun Oct 17 2021 06:13 am

    Utopian Galt wrote to Poindexter Fortran <=-

    Perhaps you can add the Amazon Android app store and you can get some of the pay apps you might want.

    There's an app store called F-Droid that doesn't use the Google store system, and is loaded with open-source apps. It's a great alternative app environment, and all free apps.

    F-Droid also has a big bonus: their apps don't have to abide to Google's Play Store
    terms and conditions, which dictate that applications that filter advertisements are
    not allowed.

    This means that applications which support adblocking, but are not built with adblocking in the Play Store, come with adblocking in F-Droid.

    This is why the best way of getting global adblocking in an ANdroid phone is getting
    Netguard from F-Droid and then enabling DNS advertisement filtering :-P

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  • From Adept@21:2/108 to poindexter FORTRAN on Monday, October 18, 2021 18:28:43
    I'm starting to miss the PDA form factor, since I do most of my voice comms with a headset now.

    I tend to view the phone functionality of phones as being, by far, the least important feature that provides some value.

    But it's pretty rare that I make a phone call using my phone, and even rarer that I wanted to have that interaction in that manner.

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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to Adept on Monday, October 18, 2021 14:36:22
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Adept to poindexter FORTRAN on Mon Oct 18 2021 06:28 pm

    I tend to view the phone functionality of phones as being, by far, the least important feature that provides some value.

    But it's pretty rare that I make a phone call using my phone, and even rarer that I wanted to have that interaction in that manner.

    Why is that? And how do you normally prefer to interact with people?

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Arelor on Tuesday, October 19, 2021 06:11:00
    Arelor wrote to poindexter FORTRAN <=-

    This is why the best way of getting global adblocking in an ANdroid
    phone is getting Netguard from F-Droid and then enabling DNS
    advertisement filtering :-P

    I'll give that a try. I tried setting up AdGuard, and for some reason it's falling back to face recognition to allow access to the config, and face recognition is disabled by my company's policy.


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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Adept on Tuesday, October 19, 2021 06:18:00
    Adept wrote to poindexter FORTRAN <=-

    But it's pretty rare that I make a phone call using my phone, and even rarer that I wanted to have that interaction in that manner.

    I had some interesting interactions this weekend with a tree service my neighbor hired. They trespassed onto my property, started moving my patio furniture around roughly, laying a new patio umbrella in wet dirt, and when
    I confronted them, no one claimed to speak english. None of the
    "supervisors" listed answered their phones, 2 of them had a generic
    voicemail greeting reading back the number you called, and one had a
    voicemail box that wasn't set up.

    And you're a "supervisor" with your number listed on the company web page?
    And not answering your phone during business hours?

    One of them ended up texting me back.

    I can understand that the relationship younger generations have with voice comms has changed. But, when you're working in business with customers who
    are most likely older than you, it just looks sad.

    And, my neighbor's tree looks pretty hacked-up. And they left a couple of
    huge branches sitting in the tops of other trees.


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  • From Arelor@21:2/138 to poindexter FORTRAN on Tuesday, October 19, 2021 18:21:19
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Adept on Tue Oct 19 2021 06:18 am

    Adept wrote to poindexter FORTRAN <=-

    But it's pretty rare that I make a phone call using my phone, and even rarer that I wanted to hav
    that interaction in that manner.

    I had some interesting interactions this weekend with a tree service my neighbor hired. They trespass
    onto my property, started moving my patio furniture around roughly, laying a new patio umbrella in we
    dirt, and when
    I confronted them, no one claimed to speak english. None of the "supervisors" listed answered their phones, 2 of them had a generic voicemail greeting reading back the number you called, and one had a voicemail box that wasn't set up.

    And you're a "supervisor" with your number listed on the company web page? And not answering your phone during business hours?

    One of them ended up texting me back.

    I can understand that the relationship younger generations have with voice comms has changed. But, wh
    you're working in business with customers who
    are most likely older than you, it just looks sad.

    And, my neighbor's tree looks pretty hacked-up. And they left a couple of huge branches sitting in the tops of other trees.


    ... Think of the radio

    My experience is that people gets so many text messages thay they are completely devaluated. Voice calls
    are the only thing worth something when it comes to actual business.

    You send a Whatsapp message, it reaches somebody's phone which stores 300+ unread messages. If you bother
    to call, it is likely you mean business, so professionals usually pick the call or phone you back if they
    can't.

    If you want something sad, consider that if you try to get a date with a gal IRL you are very likely to
    be told that if you want to date you should register with a dating app and stop trying in meatspace.



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  • From Adept@21:2/108 to Nightfox on Wednesday, October 20, 2021 18:37:51
    But it's pretty rare that I make a phone call using my phone, and eve rarer that I wanted to have that interaction in that manner.

    Why is that? And how do you normally prefer to interact with people?

    Not entirely sure on the why -- possibly a mix of things, including that there's not really time to go back and consider a statement when you're on
    the phone, you can't write it down, and you don't get the benefit of body language in either direction.

    Text has its issues, but I was practically born with a keyboard in my hands,
    so it feels natural.

    I'm fine with in-person meetings, too. But if chatting with people, video
    chat is generally going to be better than audio only.

    Oh, and _scheduled_ is _way_ better than surprises. I think that's part of it -- either I'm being surprised by the call, or they are.

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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to Adept on Wednesday, October 20, 2021 12:55:28
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Adept to Nightfox on Wed Oct 20 2021 06:37 pm

    But it's pretty rare that I make a phone call using my phone,
    and eve rarer that I wanted to have that interaction in that
    manner.

    Why is that? And how do you normally prefer to interact with
    people?

    Not entirely sure on the why -- possibly a mix of things, including that there's not really time to go back and consider a statement when you're on the phone, you can't write it down, and you don't get the benefit of body language in either direction.

    Text has its issues, but I was practically born with a keyboard in my hands, so it feels natural.

    Ah. Sounds like you've never really talked on the phone much? How old are you (if it's okay to ask)?

    I'm fine with in-person meetings, too. But if chatting with people, video chat is generally going to be better than audio only.

    Like audio conversations, there isn't much chance of considering a statement with in-person or video chats either.

    I remember a time in the early to mid-90s when video phones were announced, but they never really caught on. I think most people didn't always feel comfortable with being seen on video while talking to someone (particularly people they don't know very well).

    Oh, and _scheduled_ is _way_ better than surprises. I think that's part of it -- either I'm being surprised by the call, or they are.

    I can understand that. It's possible to get phone calls at random times when we aren't easily able to talk on the phone.

    Nightfox
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  • From Greenlfc@21:2/150 to Nightfox on Thursday, October 21, 2021 07:09:36
    On 20 Oct 2021, Nightfox said the following...

    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Adept to Nightfox on Wed Oct 20 2021 06:37 pm

    But it's pretty rare that I make a phone call using my phone, Ad>> and eve rarer that I wanted to have that interaction in that Ad>> manner.

    Why is that? And how do you normally prefer to interact with
    people?

    Not entirely sure on the why -- possibly a mix of things, including t there's not really time to go back and consider a statement when you' the phone, you can't write it down, and you don't get the benefit of language in either direction.

    Text has its issues, but I was practically born with a keyboard in my hands, so it feels natural.

    Ah. Sounds like you've never really talked on the phone much? How old are you (if it's okay to ask)?


    For what it's worth, not being the person you're conversing with, I feel exactly the same. I'm in my 40s and have *particularly* hated voice calls since my days of working on a help desk, but I never liked them before that. Text communication allows one to be more thoughtful and frankly avoids the pitfalls of misread or mispresented body language/facial expressions. For example, people tend to think I'm pissed off most of the time when we talk in person; I have to be extremely deliberate to not give off that impression.

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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to Greenlfc on Thursday, October 21, 2021 08:58:44
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Greenlfc to Nightfox on Thu Oct 21 2021 07:09 am

    For what it's worth, not being the person you're conversing with, I feel exactly the same. I'm in my 40s and have *particularly* hated voice calls since my days of working on a help desk, but I never liked them before that. Text communication allows one to be more thoughtful and frankly avoids the pitfalls of misread or mispresented body language/facial expressions. For example, people tend to think I'm pissed off most of the time when we talk in person; I have to be extremely deliberate to not give off that impression.

    There are times when I prefer text communication. But text communication also has a problem of potentially being misread or misinterpreted. With only text communication, you lack the tone of voice and body language that goes along with it which can give some context to what they're saying. Sometimes, a text can be misinterpreted if you don't know if they were being serious or not, or if they took a long time to respond, etc..

    Nightfox
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  • From Avon@21:1/101 to Nightfox on Friday, October 22, 2021 07:45:38
    On 21 Oct 2021 at 08:58a, Nightfox pondered and said...

    There are times when I prefer text communication. But text
    communication also has a problem of potentially being misread or misinterpreted. With only text communication, you lack the tone of
    voice and body language that goes along with it which can give some context to what they're saying. Sometimes, a text can be misinterpreted if you don't know if they were being serious or not, or if they took a long time to respond, etc..

    I agree with you.

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Arelor on Thursday, October 21, 2021 06:43:00
    Arelor wrote to poindexter FORTRAN <=-

    If you want something sad, consider that if you try to get a date with
    a gal IRL you are very likely to be told that if you want to date you should register with a dating app and stop trying in meatspace.

    I'm a cranky old guy, and married. I couldn't fathom dating nowadays. The moment my date started browsing social media while we were out, I'd pay for the drinks and walk away.

    I used to paint social media addiction with the "oh, those kids" brush, but recently I've been out in public and heard couples my age, in a beautiful seaside resort town we were visiting, talking non-stop about Instagram. One had just discovered the hashtag.

    Funny, on a weekend at a getaway, the only thing I use my phone for is to
    take pictures.


    ... Try faking it
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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Greenlfc on Friday, October 22, 2021 07:43:00
    Greenlfc wrote to Nightfox <=-

    For what it's worth, not being the person you're conversing with, I
    feel exactly the same. I'm in my 40s and have *particularly* hated
    voice calls since my days of working on a help desk, but I never liked them before that. Text communication allows one to be more thoughtful
    and frankly avoids the pitfalls of misread or mispresented body language/facial expressions. For example, people tend to think I'm
    pissed off most of the time when we talk in person; I have to be
    extremely deliberate to not give off that impression.

    Funny, I have had an email "relationship" with a person in my company and found the person to be quite off-putting. I had a video chat this week and found him to be pleasant.


    ... Onward, to meatspace!
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  • From Greenlfc@21:2/150 to Nightfox on Friday, October 22, 2021 07:41:00
    On 21 Oct 2021, Nightfox said the following...

    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Greenlfc to Nightfox on Thu Oct 21 2021 07:09 am

    context to what they're saying. Sometimes, a text can be misinterpreted if you don't know if they were being serious or not, or if they took a long time to respond, etc..


    I get what you're saying. I've gotten better at it as I've gotten older, but for someone who struggles with social cues and verbal communication, text removes a lot of ambiguity. It also removes the stress of trying to formulate a response in the moment and reduces the risk of making a faux pas and looking or sounding stupid.

    Everyone's different, YMMV, etc.

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  • From Arelor@21:2/138 to poindexter FORTRAN on Friday, October 22, 2021 12:03:15
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Arelor on Thu Oct 21 2021 06:43 am

    Arelor wrote to poindexter FORTRAN <=-

    If you want something sad, consider that if you try to get a date with a gal IRL you are very likely to be told that if you want to date you should register with
    dating app and stop trying in meatspace.

    I'm a cranky old guy, and married. I couldn't fathom dating nowadays. The moment my date starte
    browsing social media while we were out, I'd pay for the drinks and walk away.

    I used to paint social media addiction with the "oh, those kids" brush, but recently I've been
    in public and heard couples my age, in a beautiful seaside resort town we were visiting, talkin
    non-stop about Instagram. One had just discovered the hashtag.

    Funny, on a weekend at a getaway, the only thing I use my phone for is to take pictures.


    ... Try faking it

    There is a big difference between being in a date, talking to the other person about stuff you have
    found on the Internet, and being in a date with both people browsing the Internet and ignoring each
    other.

    In any case, romanticism has been lost and comittment has been lost. Nobody even cares for long
    term relationships anymore unless one of the members is trying to leech the blood dry from the
    other. Dating being sent down the drain is not a big loss in comparison.



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  • From Avon@21:1/101 to poindexter FORTRAN on Saturday, October 23, 2021 08:59:35
    On 21 Oct 2021 at 06:43a, poindexter FORTRAN pondered and said...

    I used to paint social media addiction with the "oh, those kids" brush, but recently I've been out in public and heard couples my age, in a beautiful seaside resort town we were visiting, talking non-stop about Instagram. One had just discovered the hashtag.

    Funny, on a weekend at a getaway, the only thing I use my phone for is
    to take pictures.

    my take is that you (and I put myself in this space too) are just more self aware of what is going on with the way people have been entwined with their
    devices and the systems that serve them never ending content curated in such
    a fashion as to dissuade them from ever putting it down or looking away.. its a sad old state of affairs really.

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  • From Vorlon@21:1/195.1 to Avon on Saturday, October 23, 2021 11:11:02

    Hello Avon!

    23 Oct 21 08:59, you wrote to poindexter FORTRAN:

    content curated in such a fashion as to dissuade them from ever
    putting it down or looking away.. its a sad old state of affairs
    really.

    I have a rule that when out with friends or on a date, that the phone stayed in your pocket unless
    showing pictures or taking pictures. If the phone is out, then it's on the table face down.




    Vorlon


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  • From Avon@21:1/101 to Vorlon on Saturday, October 23, 2021 14:37:45
    On 23 Oct 2021 at 11:11a, Vorlon pondered and said...

    I have a rule that when out with friends or on a date, that the phone stayed in your pocket unless
    showing pictures or taking pictures. If the phone is out, then it's on
    the table face down.

    It's a good rule and probably one most don't even think to adopt.

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  • From Weatherman@21:1/132 to Poindexter Fortran on Saturday, October 23, 2021 08:48:38

    I'm a cranky old guy, and married. I couldn't fathom dating nowadays. The moment my date started browsing social media while we were out, I'd pay
    for the drinks and walk away.

    Short of an emergency or short call to check something, I think messing with phones in public while walking around is similar to being a zombie. The only reason I bring my cell with me when out is to use Google Pay and listen to Pandora in my car. Rarely is it used as a phone.

    Not only is it annoying when people are walking around like zombies messing with their phones, but the people that have those ear buds in and continue to non-stop talk to themselves while in stores. No one wants to hear about their personal crap. Save the conversation until when you see them in person - or have the call in private. Not while walking around the store.

    - Mark
    ÿÿÿ
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  • From Weatherman@21:1/132 to Vorlon on Saturday, October 23, 2021 08:54:55

    I have a rule that when out with friends or on a date, that the phone
    stayed in your pocket unless
    showing pictures or taking pictures. If the phone is out, then it's on the table face down.

    Very good rule.

    - Mark
    ÿÿÿ
    --- WWIVToss v.1.52
    * Origin: http://www.weather-station.org * Bel Air, MD -USA (21:1/132.0)
  • From Tiny@21:1/222 to Weatherman on Sunday, October 24, 2021 07:24:28
    Weatherman wrote to Poindexter Fortran <=-

    wants to hear about their personal crap. Save the conversation until
    when you see them in person - or have the call in private. Not while walking around the store.

    I love when they get in the taxi talking on the phone so I tune them out.
    Then they ask me something and I don't hear them and they yell at me. It's
    my favorite.

    Shawn

    ... Aviation Lie Ä Don't worry about the weight and balance; it'll fly.

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  • From Adept@21:2/108 to Arelor on Sunday, October 24, 2021 21:49:24
    If you want something sad, consider that if you try to get a date with a gal IRL you are very likely to
    be told that if you want to date you should register with a dating app
    and stop trying in meatspace.

    ...why is that sad?

    You're talking about basically strangers, right? Not just, oh, coworkers or someone more known?

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  • From Atreyu@21:1/176 to Arelor on Sunday, October 24, 2021 18:56:30
    On 22 Oct 21 12:03:15, Arelor said the following to Poindexter Fortran:

    In any case, romanticism has been lost and comittment has been lost. Nobody even cares for long
    term relationships anymore unless one of the members is trying to leech the blood dry from the
    other. Dating being sent down the drain is not a big loss in comparison.

    Its a matter of perspective. Careful with this one... not all women are like that and not all women are on dating apps desperately seeking Mister Perfect.

    Atreyu

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  • From Vorlon@21:1/195.1 to Avon on Sunday, October 24, 2021 16:35:30

    Hello Avon!

    23 Oct 21 14:37, you wrote to me:

    I have a rule that when out with friends or on a date, that the
    phone stayes in your pocket unless showing pictures or taking
    pictures. If the phone is out, then it's on the table face down.

    It's a good rule and probably one most don't even think to adopt.

    Yes, your out to enjoy yourself, not to browse the internet for silly sh*t! ^-)



    Vorlon


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    * Origin: \/orlon Empire: Sector 550 (21:1/195.1)
  • From Vorlon@21:1/195.1 to Weatherman on Sunday, October 24, 2021 16:48:58

    Hello Weatherman!

    23 Oct 21 08:54, you wrote to me:

    I have a rule that when out with friends or on a date, that the
    phone stayes in your pocket unless showing pictures or taking
    pictures. If the phone is out, then it's on the table face down.

    Very good rule.

    Yes. Your out to enjoy the event, not to lookup sh*T on the internet, unless looking something for the group.



    Vorlon


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    * Origin: \/orlon Empire: Sector 550 (21:1/195.1)
  • From Avon@21:1/101 to Vorlon on Monday, October 25, 2021 15:28:01
    On 24 Oct 2021 at 04:35p, Vorlon pondered and said...

    It's a good rule and probably one most don't even think to adopt.
    Yes, your out to enjoy yourself, not to browse the internet for silly sh*t! ^-)

    Yeah I'm a saint I've never looked at cat memes :) Never... well... :)

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  • From Arelor@21:2/138 to Adept on Monday, October 25, 2021 03:16:14
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Adept to Arelor on Sun Oct 24 2021 09:49 pm

    If you want something sad, consider that if you try to get a date with gal IRL you are very likely to
    be told that if you want to date you should register with a dating app and stop trying in meatspace.

    ...why is that sad?

    You're talking about basically strangers, right? Not just, oh, coworkers or someone more known?

    I mean in general.

    Thepersonal touch gets lost, and it is replaced by platforms that are very much like jobseeking websites. It is trash because you end up with tonnes of people uploading fake information, at which point your chances of scoring a date are not dependent on your personality or uniqueness, but on your marketing ability for uploading the most hyped curriculum/profile while still being credible.

    There are agencies oput there whose jobs is finding dates for people. They impersonate their customers (with consient) on dating platforms and try to arrange dates. AFAIK they are very effective at what they do because they fake it in a beliveable way.

    I am not against matchmaking sites, but the game in those places is completely different.



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  • From Adept@21:2/108 to Arelor on Monday, October 25, 2021 18:23:01
    Thepersonal touch gets lost, and it is replaced by platforms that are
    very much like jobseeking websites. It is trash because you end up with tonnes of people uploading fake information, at which point your chances of scoring a date are not dependent on your personality or uniqueness,

    Yeah, okay, I suppose I'm not a fan of most of the dating sites, either, especially since they seem to dumb them down a lot, so eventually you're just looking at a picture and deciding based off of that.

    Which, when compared to seeing a random person on the street, is not any better.

    But I like to create walls of text, so posting in places that allow walls of text is generally way better for me. But not really what other people tend to do, I think. Which is unfortunate, because it means sites don't cater to that style.

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  • From Vorlon@21:1/195.1 to Avon on Tuesday, October 26, 2021 09:38:12

    Hello Avon!

    25 Oct 21 15:28, you wrote to me:

    It's a good rule and probably one most don't even think to
    adopt. Yes, your out to enjoy yourself, not to browse the
    internet for silly sh*t! ^-)

    Yeah I'm a saint I've never looked at cat memes :) Never... well... :)

    I could post something to respond to that, but this is a txt based system. &-)



    Vorlon


    --- GoldED+/LNX 1.1.5-b20180707
    * Origin: \/orlon Empire: Sector 550 (21:1/195.1)
  • From Vorlon@21:1/195.1 to Arelor on Tuesday, October 26, 2021 09:46:38

    Hello Arelor!

    25 Oct 21 03:16, you wrote to Adept:

    and stop trying in meatspace.

    ...why is that sad?

    You're talking about basically strangers, right? Not just, oh,
    coworkers or someone more known?

    Thepersonal touch gets lost, and it is replaced by platforms that are
    very much like jobseeking websites. It is trash because you end up
    [...]
    I am not against matchmaking sites, but the game in those places is completely different.

    Dating sites/apps are not designed to get you dates, and a future partner. They are designed to keep you on the site
    sometimes spending lots of $$$ and wasting lots of time. The profiles start to look the same after a while with the
    same information/profiles on multiple sites.

    It's also like hitting your head against a wall time after time after time after time...




    Vorlon

















    Been there done that, have the T-Shirt!

    I've now given up on dating sites/apps.



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  • From Warpslide@21:3/110 to Vorlon on Monday, October 25, 2021 19:13:56
    On 26 Oct 2021, Vorlon said the following...

    I could post something to respond to that, but this is a txt based
    system. &-)

    ( i can haz cheezburger? )
    /
    /
    /
    /\_/\ ___
    = o_o =_______ \ \
    __^ __( \.__) )
    (@)<_____>__(_____)____/

    ... Experience is what you get when you don't get what you wanted.

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  • From Avon@21:1/101 to Warpslide on Tuesday, October 26, 2021 15:18:17
    On 25 Oct 2021 at 07:13p, Warpslide pondered and said...

    I could post something to respond to that, but this is a txt based system. &-)

    ( i can haz cheezburger? )
    /
    /
    /
    /\_/\ ___
    = o_o =_______ \ \
    __^ __( \.__) )
    (@)<_____>__(_____)____/


    there it is :)

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  • From Vorlon@21:1/195.1 to Warpslide on Wednesday, October 27, 2021 10:08:48

    Hello Warpslide!

    25 Oct 21 19:13, you wrote to me:

    I could post something to respond to that, but this is a txt
    based system. &-)

    ( i can haz cheezburger? )
    /
    /
    /
    /\_/\ ___
    = o_o =_______ \ \
    __^ __( \.__) )
    (@)<_____>__(_____)____/


    hummm, ascii porn! #-)



    Vorlon


    --- GoldED+/LNX 1.1.5-b20180707
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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Weatherman on Wednesday, October 27, 2021 08:41:00
    Weatherman wrote to Poindexter Fortran <=-

    Not only is it annoying when people are walking around like zombies messing with their phones, but the people that have those ear buds in
    and continue to non-stop talk to themselves while in stores. No one
    wants to hear about their personal crap. Save the conversation until
    when you see them in person - or have the call in private. Not while walking around the store.

    I was shopping this weekend for my wife's birthday present and saw a refreshing sight - a woman took a call and told the person to hold on a second, while she walked briskly outside to continue the conversation.

    At least we've progressed from having conversations while ringing up items
    at a cashier, although it's more people texting and using Amazon than an upwelling of common sense to blame.


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  • From Weatherman@21:1/132 to Tiny on Wednesday, October 27, 2021 18:37:53

    I love when they get in the taxi talking on the phone so I tune them out. Then they ask me something and I don't hear them and they yell at me. It's my favorite.

    It is an unfortunate side effect of the mobile phone. Being too accessible and people not knowing proper ediquette for using the technology.

    - Mark
    ÿÿÿ
    --- WWIVToss v.1.52
    * Origin: http://www.weather-station.org * Bel Air, MD -USA (21:1/132.0)
  • From Weatherman@21:1/132 to Poindexter Fortran on Wednesday, October 27, 2021 18:49:29

    I was shopping this weekend for my wife's birthday present and saw a refreshing sight - a woman took a call and told the person to hold on a second, while she walked briskly outside to continue the conversation.

    Great etiquette! Hopefully will start a trend.

    - Mark
    ÿÿÿ
    --- WWIVToss v.1.52
    * Origin: http://www.weather-station.org * Bel Air, MD -USA (21:1/132.0)
  • From Atreyu@21:1/176 to Weatherman on Wednesday, October 27, 2021 18:55:48
    On 27 Oct 21 18:49:29, Weatherman said the following to Poindexter Fortran:

    I was shopping this weekend for my wife's birthday present and saw a refreshing sight - a woman took a call and told the person to hold on a second, while she walked briskly outside to continue the conversation.

    Great etiquette! Hopefully will start a trend.

    When my daughter was younger, I took her out for lunch at some busy restaurant downtown. I asked her to discreetly look around and tell me what does she see. She said she saw lots of people in the restaurant... I asked her to look again, carefully and what do you see.

    She said to me, wow dad, I see now... almost every family is either playing with their phone, or the moms and dads put a tablet infront of the youngest
    kid to get him to shut up. Everyone is just not enjoying the time for what it is.

    Atreyu

    --- Renegade vY2Ka2
    * Origin: Joey, do you like movies about gladiators? (21:1/176)
  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to Weatherman on Wednesday, October 27, 2021 16:23:11
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Weatherman to Tiny on Wed Oct 27 2021 06:37 pm

    I love when they get in the taxi talking on the phone so I tune them
    out. Then they ask me something and I don't hear them and they yell
    at me. It's my favorite.

    It is an unfortunate side effect of the mobile phone. Being too accessible and people not knowing proper ediquette for using the technology.

    Most of the time, I tend to do the opposite. I find it hard to answer the phone when I'm interacting with someone in person. But then I worry about the fact that I'm not responding to the person who called in a timely manner (assuming it wasn't a spam call or anything). I guess that stress is another side effect of being too accessible.

    Before cell phones, we had answering machines connected to our phone line at home which would let people leave messages when we weren't home. I never really worried about that, except maybe when I got home and saw that I missed a call.

    Nightfox
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  • From DustCouncil@21:1/227 to Weatherman on Thursday, October 28, 2021 06:51:52
    It is an unfortunate side effect of the mobile phone. Being too accessible and people not knowing proper ediquette for using the technology.

    I have a different take on this. The rise of the face-buried-in-phone spectacle has actually liberated me from having to make small talk. I love that I can sit somewhere and a bunch of strangers have no desire to speak to me because they are on their phones. I *love it.*

    Sure, texting while driving, or having a loud phone conversation in line at the supermarket is irritating, but, something about how I look, I think, invites a certain type of person to walk up to me and try to manipulate me into agreeing with their politics. Politics, about which everyone is wound up, and politics, which has made everyone a tedious fucking bore.

    It is hot where I live. Blazing, obnoxiously hot. Often when I am out and about I stop into a bar for a beer. I know bars are places people go for socializing, but they're where I go for beer when I am out and about. I drink my fill, then mosey (when you live in Arizona you are officially licensed to mosey) on out.

    Inevitably, someone will start a conversation dancing around the edges of politics, trying to feel me out, because they desperately want someone to agree with them about all of the things that haunt them about the modern world.

    For multiple reasons I've got no desire to have an argument, but even less desire to pretend to agree to keep the peace. There's nothing worse than listening to someone say something abhorrent and you feel obligated to let it go because the alternative is stroking out from the effort it takes to pretend you don't disagree.

    So, when I go somewhere and everyone is tapping away, I'm quite content. I love doctor's office waiting rooms where everyone is silent.

    Sure it *looks* dystopian. It probably *is* dystopian. But at least I can get a little quiet, and perhaps in these dying remnants of a once-great civilization, it is the best for which I can hope.

    In the old Max Headroom TV show, out in "The Fringes," these burned-out, decayed parts of the city, there were all of these television sets on piles of rubble, and the thing about them is they had no OFF switch. All televisions were on 24/7.

    One small privilege of being me is I have remembered that phones have an off switch and switch mine off regularly. A long time ago, I set the expectation that I was unreachable for long periods of time. No one expects me to respond, or answer a ringing phone (except when I'm on call, which isn't too often).

    I set this expectation early. People who are way less involved with computers and tech than I am seem incapable of disconnecting. You see these articles about people waking up in the middle of the night to check their e-mail.

    Not me. I've got no social media accounts either. Nothing to keep up with. No appearances to keep up. No one's appearance to keep up with. I feel as if I have missed out on nothing.

    So, I am often unreachable for days on end.

    Every so often I drive out into parts of the Great Basin, where there isn't any cell phone signal, and am not heard from -- and do not hear from others -- for days.

    Nothing but the sound of wind. Just wind. I just sit out there, listening to it, doing nothing. (I went to Lunar Crater in Nevada for the last solar eclipse. I had the whole thing to myself.)

    Glorious.

    You'd never think I was a computer nerd, given my comfort with being completely disconnected.

    I don't even think this is because I'm all cool and techno-aloof so much as I'm burned out on screens. At some point, I just get the sense like, there is nothing new to say and it's all been said, and I've shared everything I want to share, so why say anything at all?

    I know people want me to be super outraged at what they're super outraged about.

    But my outrage circuit is busted.

    "Fall, mountains, just don't fall on me."

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  • From DustCouncil@21:1/227 to Nightfox on Thursday, October 28, 2021 06:53:46
    Before cell phones, we had answering machines connected to our phone
    line at home which would let people leave messages when we weren't home.
    I never really worried about that, except maybe when I got home and saw that I missed a call.

    When I was a college student in the 90s I rented a house with a bunch of friends and our answering machine said, "Hi. We never answer the phone. The only possible way to get in contact with us is to leave a message."

    We were militant about this.

    It is amazing how this reduced phone calls to the bare essentials. When someone *really* needed to talk to us, they'd leave a message and we'd often call them back immediately.

    It is remarkable how many people just hang up.

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  • From Arelor@21:2/138 to Nightfox on Thursday, October 28, 2021 04:37:08
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Nightfox to Weatherman on Wed Oct 27 2021 04:23 pm

    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Weatherman to Tiny on Wed Oct 27 2021 06:37 pm

    I love when they get in the taxi talking on the phone so I tune them
    out. Then they ask me something and I don't hear them and they yell
    at me. It's my favorite.

    It is an unfortunate side effect of the mobile phone. Being too accessi and people not knowing proper ediquette for using the technology.

    Most of the time, I tend to do the opposite. I find it hard to answer the phone when I'm interacting with someone in person. But then I worry about t fact that I'm not responding to the person who called in a timely manner (assuming it wasn't a spam call or anything). I guess that stress is anothe side effect of being too accessible.

    Before cell phones, we had answering machines connected to our phone line at home which would let people leave messages when we weren't home. I never really worried about that, except maybe when I got home and saw that I misse call.

    Nightfox

    My cure for that is to make a rule of being only accessible on work hours. That way I know no business call is going to interrupt a chat with friends. I don't care accepting as many calls as it takes if all I am doing is packaging orders in boxes or running a network scanner or whatever.

    I have a private phone number I mostly hand to close friends and family only, which only gets rang if something important goes on. Maybe I get a call to that one twice a week :-)

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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to DustCouncil on Thursday, October 28, 2021 08:33:52
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: DustCouncil to Nightfox on Thu Oct 28 2021 06:53 am

    When I was a college student in the 90s I rented a house with a bunch of friends and our answering machine said, "Hi. We never answer the phone. The only possible way to get in contact with us is to leave a message."

    We were militant about this.

    It is amazing how this reduced phone calls to the bare essentials. When someone *really* needed to talk to us, they'd leave a message and we'd often call them back immediately.

    It is remarkable how many people just hang up.

    Yeah, I knew people who would usually hang up when they got someone's answering machine.

    Nightfox
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  • From Weatherman@21:1/132 to Atreyu on Thursday, October 28, 2021 18:02:03

    She said to me, wow dad, I see now... almost every family is either
    playing with their phone, or the moms and dads put a tablet infront of the youngest kid to get him to shut up. Everyone is just not enjoying the time for what it
    is.

    Very impressive that she recognized that. Many kids growing up these days, would see that as normal and wouldn't think anything of it. It is a positive thing that she recognized that isn't and shouldn't not be normal.

    - Mark
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  • From Weatherman@21:1/132 to Nightfox on Thursday, October 28, 2021 18:08:29

    Most of the time, I tend to do the opposite. I find it hard to answer the phone when I'm interacting with someone in person. But then I worry about the fact that I'm not responding to the person who called in a timely
    manner (assuming it wasn't a spam call or anything). I guess that stress
    is another side effect of being too accessible.

    Answering the phone for me is the lowest thing on my priority list if I'm in the middle of doing something, or talking to someone in person. It doesn't stress me at all. I get back in touch with the caller when I can.

    Another bonus to riding motorcycles is I can always go off the phone grid while riding.

    - Mark
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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to Weatherman on Thursday, October 28, 2021 15:16:23
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Weatherman to Nightfox on Thu Oct 28 2021 06:08 pm

    Answering the phone for me is the lowest thing on my priority list if I'm in the middle of doing something, or talking to someone in person. It doesn't stress me at all. I get back in touch with the caller when I can.

    Often that's how I feel too. The thing is it feels like cell phones were invented so that we'd be able to answer phone calls any time. If a family member calls, sometimes I wonder if it could be an emergency and wonder if I should answer it.

    One bad thing about cell phones is some people think you're ignoring them if you don't answer them right away.

    Nightfox
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  • From Weatherman@21:1/132 to Dustcouncil on Thursday, October 28, 2021 18:18:19

    I have a different take on this. The rise of the face-buried-in-phone spectacle has actually liberated me from having to make small talk. I love that I can sit somewhere and a bunch of strangers have no desire to speak
    to me because they are on their phones. I *love it.*

    That is a perfect example of finding a positive in an overall negative situation. Similar to how I can now work from home forever thanks to the virus. No more driving two hours day, every single day. Just on an as needed basis.

    There might be an exemption case where pulling out the phone just to act like you are doing something on it to avoid talking to someone you know is going to be annoying.

    - Mark
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  • From Weatherman@21:1/132 to Nightfox on Thursday, October 28, 2021 18:21:27

    One bad thing about cell phones is some people think you're ignoring them
    if you don't answer them right away.

    Everyone that calls me knows it is normal that I don't answer the cell phone. I will call them back later, answer their text, or email when I can. If you set the standard low like in my case, they are more shocked if I answer on the first call.

    - Mark
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  • From Arelor@21:2/138 to Nightfox on Friday, October 29, 2021 03:10:09
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Nightfox to Weatherman on Thu Oct 28 2021 03:16 pm

    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Weatherman to Nightfox on Thu Oct 28 2021 06:08 pm

    Answering the phone for me is the lowest thing on my priority list if I in the middle of doing something, or talking to someone in person. It doesn't stress me at all. I get back in touch with the caller when I ca

    Often that's how I feel too. The thing is it feels like cell phones were invented so that we'd be able to answer phone calls any time. If a family member calls, sometimes I wonder if it could be an emergency and wonder if I should answer it.

    One bad thing about cell phones is some people think you're ignoring them if you don't answer them right away.

    Nightfox

    No, you got that wrong.

    The REAL bad thing about cell phones is your mother thinks your horses have accidentally killed you in the barn if you don't answer right away, and next thing you know is she drives back home from the city and starts yelling at you that she is going to take your horses away from you.

    Because it is easier to assume some mare has hugged you to death than to assume you have left the phone in your bedroom.

    Variants include:

    "Your mother freaks out because you didn't pick the phone during a meeting, which obviously means you have died in a car crash."

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  • From Avon@21:1/101 to Atreyu on Sunday, October 31, 2021 14:46:53
    On 27 Oct 2021 at 06:55p, Atreyu pondered and said...

    She said to me, wow dad, I see now... almost every family is either playing with their phone, or the moms and dads put a tablet infront of
    the youngest kid to get him to shut up. Everyone is just not enjoying
    the time for what it is.

    That's cool you could open here eyes on that count.

    It's amazing just how glued folks are to their phones at all times of the day etc... While I use mine I'm more conscious than ever to try not too during times of people visiting me or when I am out at meetings or family events.

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  • From Avon@21:1/101 to DustCouncil on Sunday, October 31, 2021 14:49:38
    On 28 Oct 2021 at 06:51a, DustCouncil pondered and said...

    But my outrage circuit is busted.

    well written and very interesting life that you lead... I think it's cool that you're comfortable in your own skin and leading a life that works for you.

    Thanks for sharing that :) ... and opting to chat in this network ...

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Weatherman on Thursday, October 28, 2021 08:18:00
    Weatherman wrote to Tiny <=-

    It is an unfortunate side effect of the mobile phone. Being too accessible and people not knowing proper ediquette for using the technology.

    I worked for a %LARGE_INTERNET_AUCTION_SITE% for many years, and in their
    San Jose office, their parking lot didn't have sidewalks. People would walk alongside cars to get to their car or to leave the campus.

    On many occasions, I'd have someone on their phone almost WALK INTO MY
    STOPPED CAR. Made me wish for a dash cam at the time, I'm sure they'd claim that I was moving if they walked into me.


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  • From Spectre@21:3/101 to Arelor on Monday, November 01, 2021 15:22:00
    Variants include:
    "Your mother freaks out because you didn't pick the phone during a meeting, which obviously means you have died in a car crash."

    I think there's a case be made for trading that mother in on a new one :P

    Spec


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  • From Arelor@21:2/138 to Spectre on Monday, November 01, 2021 15:45:35
    Re: Re: Less-common phone brands
    By: Spectre to Arelor on Mon Nov 01 2021 03:22 pm

    Variants include:
    "Your mother freaks out because you didn't pick the phone during a meeting, which obviously means you have died in a car crash."

    I think there's a case be made for trading that mother in on a new one :P

    Spec


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    At least this one cares for me, which is more than other people can say, but geeeeeze, sometimes it is too hard to bear.

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