Recent research says (no surprise) that peopleNo surprise, I think it's human nature to empathise with a cause that supports an issue you're emotionally tied to.
tend to give money to causes that emotionally
involve them more than ones that are beneficial.
We should fight that tendency.
For sure. The ones I give to usually rank inOur unsolicited stuff goes into File 13 or "click, hang up".
the 3* range, because they're not as transparent
as Charity Navigator would like, but I trust them.
And if anyone sends me a solicitation, it's off
the list forever.
Or, it might be just what was needed for the moment.In a lot of cases, though, advice might backfire.I'm firmly of the opinion that outsideAdvice can be offered, it's up to the actor to take it or not.
observers have a hard time assessing what's good
or bad for the actor and shouldn't rush to
judgment (except in egregious circumstances).
Western NY wasn't exactly New England. (G)school. > It was (at the time) just a small grocery store but served a good sized > area.Market Basket, the grocery chain which we haveHad one of those in the town about 4 miles from where I went to
You were lucky. The main focus was New England.
No, your stuff is a whole lot fresher. That's why we like the farmer's market.Not such an awful idea.mentioned here, uses a local Worcester MA-basedI think they're all trying to get us to buy local these days.
certifier with a pretty elaborate insignia. I'm
pretty sure the criteria for all the agencies are
the same or at least compatible, but it's a
peculiar choice, maybe a buy local sort of thing.
That's poor parenting then.It's a normal childhood quirk but can get out of hand, if allowed todo > so. I don't think most parents encourage it.
I've seen enough adults do it to be able
to speculate that not enough parents
discourage it.
that > supports an issue you're emotionally tied to.Recent research says (no surprise) that peopleNo surprise, I think it's human nature to empathise with a cause
tend to give money to causes that emotionally
involve them more than ones that are beneficial.
We should fight that tendency.
And it turns out so even if the cause is
objectively not good for one.
And if anyone sends me a solicitation, it's offOur unsolicited stuff goes into File 13 or "click, hang up".
the list forever.
If I give, along with the check goes a note
saying that they're forbidden from contacting
me, and if they do, they're history. Unicef,
Care, Oxfam, and several others have fallen
afoul of this, and my money such as it is will
never darken their door again.
not. > ML> In a lot of cases, though, advice might backfire.I'm firmly of the opinion that outsideAdvice can be offered, it's up to the actor to take it or
observers have a hard time assessing what's good
or bad for the actor and shouldn't rush to
judgment (except in egregious circumstances).
Or, it might be just what was needed for the moment.
It's always a tough call whether or not to
get involved.
to > ML> school. > It was (at the time) just a small grocery storeMarket Basket, the grocery chain which we haveHad one of those in the town about 4 miles from where I went
but served a > ML> good sized > area.
You were lucky. The main focus was New England.Western NY wasn't exactly New England. (G)
No, you're right there.
farmer's > market.No, your stuff is a whole lot fresher. That's why we like theNot such an awful idea.mentioned here, uses a local Worcester MA-basedI think they're all trying to get us to buy local these days.
certifier with a pretty elaborate insignia. I'm
pretty sure the criteria for all the agencies are
the same or at least compatible, but it's a
peculiar choice, maybe a buy local sort of thing.
And you're helping out an important but
underappreciated segment of society.
allowed to > ML> do > so. I don't think most parents encourage it.It's a normal childhood quirk but can get out of hand, if
I've seen enough adults do it to be ableThat's poor parenting then.
to speculate that not enough parents
discourage it.
Of course. Poor adulting as well, and in the
last analysis, there's where the buck stops.
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