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    From MICHAEL LOO@1:123/140 to RUTH HAFFLY on Tuesday, May 15, 2018 06:46:10
    Recent research says (no surprise) that people
    tend to give money to causes that emotionally
    involve them more than ones that are beneficial.
    We should fight that tendency.
    No surprise, I think it's human nature to empathise with a cause that supports an issue you're emotionally tied to.

    And it turns out so even if the cause is
    objectively not good for one.

    For sure. The ones I give to usually rank in
    the 3* range, because they're not as transparent
    as Charity Navigator would like, but I trust them.
    And if anyone sends me a solicitation, it's off
    the list forever.
    Our unsolicited stuff goes into File 13 or "click, hang up".

    If I give, along with the check goes a note
    saying that they're forbidden from contacting
    me, and if they do, they're history. Unicef,
    Care, Oxfam, and several others have fallen
    afoul of this, and my money such as it is will
    never darken their door again.

    I'm firmly of the opinion that outside
    observers have a hard time assessing what's good
    or bad for the actor and shouldn't rush to
    judgment (except in egregious circumstances).
    Advice can be offered, it's up to the actor to take it or not.
    In a lot of cases, though, advice might backfire.
    Or, it might be just what was needed for the moment.

    It's always a tough call whether or not to
    get involved.

    Market Basket, the grocery chain which we have
    Had one of those in the town about 4 miles from where I went to
    school. > It was (at the time) just a small grocery store but served a good sized > area.
    You were lucky. The main focus was New England.
    Western NY wasn't exactly New England. (G)

    No, you're right there.

    mentioned here, uses a local Worcester MA-based
    certifier with a pretty elaborate insignia. I'm
    pretty sure the criteria for all the agencies are
    the same or at least compatible, but it's a
    peculiar choice, maybe a buy local sort of thing.
    I think they're all trying to get us to buy local these days.
    Not such an awful idea.
    No, your stuff is a whole lot fresher. That's why we like the farmer's market.

    And you're helping out an important but
    underappreciated segment of society.

    It's a normal childhood quirk but can get out of hand, if allowed to
    do > so. I don't think most parents encourage it.
    I've seen enough adults do it to be able
    to speculate that not enough parents
    discourage it.
    That's poor parenting then.

    Of course. Poor adulting as well, and in the
    last analysis, there's where the buck stops.

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    Title: Big Bob's Shoulder of Venison
    Categories: Cyberealm, Meats, Entrees
    Yield: 6 servings

    1 5 lb. shoulder of venison
    1 ts Pepper
    1 ts Allspice
    1/4 c Butter [softened]
    1 lg Onion [chopped]
    1 cn (12 oz) beer
    1 c Sour cream
    1 cn Cream of mushroom soup

    1) Season venison with the spices, rubbing in lightly, then
    spread the butter on the meat, covering completely. Place the roast
    in a 8" x 13" roasting pan and cover with the onions...
    2) Combine the beer, sour cream, and soup in a bowl and wisk `til
    blended, then pour over the roast...
    3) Bake in a 300 oven for 1ÿ hours `til meat is fork tender
    (adding small amounts of water if necessary)
    * Thicken the pan drippings for gravy if desired... Serve with
    noodles, rice or potatoes.
    ** This recipe makes a tough cut very tender, and leftovers make great
    sandwiches...

    Source: "Bill Saiff's Rod & Reel Recipes for Hookin' & Cookin'"
    Cookbook Typed with permission by Fred Goslin on CYBEREALM BBS, home
    of KOOKNET in Watertown NY at (315) 786-1120

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  • From Ruth Haffly@1:396/45.28 to MICHAEL LOO on Sunday, May 20, 2018 17:52:22
    Hi Michael,

    Recent research says (no surprise) that people
    tend to give money to causes that emotionally
    involve them more than ones that are beneficial.
    We should fight that tendency.
    No surprise, I think it's human nature to empathise with a cause
    that > supports an issue you're emotionally tied to.

    And it turns out so even if the cause is
    objectively not good for one.

    We try to support only causes that are good for us. We've changed
    out--added some, dropped others--over the years but some have been ones
    we've supported for years.

    And if anyone sends me a solicitation, it's off
    the list forever.
    Our unsolicited stuff goes into File 13 or "click, hang up".

    If I give, along with the check goes a note
    saying that they're forbidden from contacting
    me, and if they do, they're history. Unicef,
    Care, Oxfam, and several others have fallen
    afoul of this, and my money such as it is will
    never darken their door again.

    My brother put Mom on hospice without telling Dad but Dad kept getting
    appeals for donations. So, when hospice came to talk to him in the
    hospital, he was very hostile to the representative. Found out afterward
    why.


    I'm firmly of the opinion that outside
    observers have a hard time assessing what's good
    or bad for the actor and shouldn't rush to
    judgment (except in egregious circumstances).
    Advice can be offered, it's up to the actor to take it or
    not. > ML> In a lot of cases, though, advice might backfire.
    Or, it might be just what was needed for the moment.

    It's always a tough call whether or not to
    get involved.

    Very true.

    Market Basket, the grocery chain which we have
    Had one of those in the town about 4 miles from where I went
    to > ML> school. > It was (at the time) just a small grocery store
    but served a > ML> good sized > area.
    You were lucky. The main focus was New England.
    Western NY wasn't exactly New England. (G)

    No, you're right there.

    No, but it was a nice place to go to college.


    mentioned here, uses a local Worcester MA-based
    certifier with a pretty elaborate insignia. I'm
    pretty sure the criteria for all the agencies are
    the same or at least compatible, but it's a
    peculiar choice, maybe a buy local sort of thing.
    I think they're all trying to get us to buy local these days.
    Not such an awful idea.
    No, your stuff is a whole lot fresher. That's why we like the
    farmer's > market.

    And you're helping out an important but
    underappreciated segment of society.

    Also meeting lots of neat people, trading recipies, etc. Talked to one
    lady a couple of years ago about beets; a few months later she saw us in
    a different town. She told us that she'd tried--and likes--beets.


    It's a normal childhood quirk but can get out of hand, if
    allowed to > ML> do > so. I don't think most parents encourage it.
    I've seen enough adults do it to be able
    to speculate that not enough parents
    discourage it.
    That's poor parenting then.

    Of course. Poor adulting as well, and in the
    last analysis, there's where the buck stops.

    Some adults grow up choronologically but not otherwise.

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    Catch you later,
    Ruth
    rchaffly{at}earthlink{dot}net FIDO 1:396/45.28


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