And it turns out so even if the cause isWe try to support only causes that are good for us. We've changed
objectively not good for one.
out--added some, dropped others--over the years but some have been ones
we've supported for years.
If I give, along with the check goes a noteMy brother put Mom on hospice without telling Dad but Dad kept getting appeals for donations. So, when hospice came to talk to him in the
saying that they're forbidden from contacting
me, and if they do, they're history. Unicef,
Care, Oxfam, and several others have fallen
afoul of this, and my money such as it is will
never darken their door again.
hospital, he was very hostile to the representative. Found out afterward
why.
No, but it was a nice place to go to college.No, you're right there.You were lucky. The main focus was New England.Western NY wasn't exactly New England. (G)
Also meeting lots of neat people, trading recipies, etc. Talked to oneNo, your stuff is a whole lot fresher. That's why we like thefarmer's > market.
And you're helping out an important but
underappreciated segment of society.
lady a couple of years ago about beets; a few months later she saw us in
a different town. She told us that she'd tried--and likes--beets.
Some adults grow up choronologically but not otherwise.Of course. Poor adulting as well, and in theI've seen enough adults do it to be ableThat's poor parenting then.
to speculate that not enough parents
discourage it.
last analysis, there's where the buck stops.
ones > we've supported for years.And it turns out so even if the cause isWe try to support only causes that are good for us. We've changed out--added some, dropped others--over the years but some have been
objectively not good for one.
I've been thinking about this - in my case, none
of my charities has ever directly benefited me
personally but has been (of course) compatible
with my goals in life. For dollar donations it
has been pretty easy, as there are a lot of
people and organizations that think similarly to
me; for goods, the agencies tend to be of a more
conservative religious bent, because it seems that
those who actually interact with the poor have
callings of that nature, but as long as good is
being done, I don't mind that.
getting > appeals for donations. So, when hospice came to talk to himIf I give, along with the check goes a noteMy brother put Mom on hospice without telling Dad but Dad kept
saying that they're forbidden from contacting
me, and if they do, they're history. Unicef,
Care, Oxfam, and several others have fallen
afoul of this, and my money such as it is will
never darken their door again.
in the
hospital, he was very hostile to the representative. Found outafterward > why.
Montgomery Hospice fell afoul of my rule as
well; but you can't blame them completely,
because such organizations depend on dollar
contributions to keep going. Nonetheless, I
won't give in a way that identifies me at all
nor that can be interpreted as rewarding
fundraising efforts.
No, but it was a nice place to go to college.No, you're right there.You were lucky. The main focus was New England.Western NY wasn't exactly New England. (G)
I'm sure.
one > lady a couple of years ago about beets; a few months later sheAlso meeting lots of neat people, trading recipies, etc. Talked toNo, your stuff is a whole lot fresher. That's why we like thefarmer's > market.
And you're helping out an important but
underappreciated segment of society.
saw us in > a different town. She told us that she'd tried--and likes--beets.
Corrupting the youth, I see.
Some adults grow up choronologically but not otherwise.Of course. Poor adulting as well, and in theI've seen enough adults do it to be ableThat's poor parenting then.
to speculate that not enough parents
discourage it.
last analysis, there's where the buck stops.
The world is a better place for some of their
characteristics ... and worse, as well, because
of others.
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